Women hating women

[Noon]

I get on fine with other women, as much as I do with guys. I do seem to have more guy friends for some reason, I just guess I'm not into the usual girly interests, I'd much rather spend time playing on a games console than talking about make-up tips.

All humans are competitive with each other, like what Wilhelm said earlier there is a kind of double standard between men and women, but also I think men are openly aggressive where women are sneaky and *****y, tending to avoid confrontation more.

 

[Lurk]

Noon pretty much summed it up for me. Growing up, my best friends were always guys, I just related to them more. Maybe it's because I never had a sister and had two big bros. I'm not into "girly" stuff like shopping and makeup. I don't buy into Valentine's Day. My wedding dress cost $150. I don't like a lot things lots of girls are typically interested in. I can't stand catty gossip; I was a cheerleader for four years, so I got my fill in high school. Guys are just generally nicer overall and more chill in my experience; they are less likely to get offended or get their feelings hurt over a fat joke. Hanging out with dudes, there's a lot less drama unless it involves their girlfriends. Interestingly, the girls I do get along with are usually tom-boyish (they'd sooner go to batting cage than the mall) or lesbians (this one I don't totally understand, but it seems to be true in my case).

 

[04nbod]

the only women i have ever hated are the oompalumpas. Those being the ones who wear too much fake tan, giggle way to much and look down on everyone else.

 

[Lurk]

An example:
Male co-workers and I have talked brutal s*** about dumbass, clueless male co-workers. Brutal s***.

But once, I heard this female at work talking to another female about a third female, going off about what a "waste of flesh" the third woman was.

When I heard that, I was sort of shocked and thought, "OMG! What a CATTY B****! What an elitest, snobby, inhuman, ice-cold, heartless c***! "

But she didn't really say anything worse than me an' the guys would say about some male loser.

Do you think, in your example, either one would have been willing to say it to the face of the person they were talking about? I find guys to be more blunt and upfront, whereas women tend to gossip when no one is looking. I've had friends do what you described above, but when confronted about it, the guy owned up whereas the chick denied everything and pawned the blame off on someone else.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Gossipy people tend to be cowardly and NEVER admit things they have said behind someone's back ...

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Do you think, in your example, either one would have been willing to say it to the face of the person they were talking about? I find guys to be more blunt and upfront, whereas women tend to gossip when no one is looking. I've had friends do what you described above, but when confronted about it, the guy owned up whereas the chick denied everything and pawned the blame off on someone else.

Well, in this "work" environment, both the male and female s***-talkers would do it secretly, to preserve their job.

In real life, I've seen men and women who are conniving behind the scenes, and men and women who are blunt and forthcoming.

I just don't see a big gender-based difference in who is more nasty.
I see it as individual personality-based.

 

[jaguarr]

Well, in this "work" environment, both the male and female s***-talkers would do it secretly, to preserve their job.

In real life, I've seen men and women who are conniving behind the scenes, and men and women who are blunt and forthcoming.

I just don't see a big gender-based difference in who is more nasty.
I see it as individual personality-based.

I see the same things in the HUGE corporation I work for. Playing dirty is not a gender specific trait, nor is being a straight shooter.

jag

 

[chamber-music]

women get real *****y when they get together. They can be friends one second and then tearing each other apart the next. I've seen it.

Guys don't really do that. When we are in groups we just act really stupid and do dumb stuff we wouldn't do if girls where around.

 

[Bastila]

I get along with other women really, I mean there are always people you don't like or might hate, I bet you guys know men you hate or dislike.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

women get real *****y when they get together. They can be friends one second and then tearing each other apart the next. I've seen it.

Guys don't really do that. When we are in groups we just act really stupid and do dumb stuff we wouldn't do if girls where around.

This is what I'm saying.
You're wrong. Speak for yourself.
Guys DO really do that. I've seen it and done it.
And when I'm in a group of guys, we don't "do dumb stuff we wouldn't do if girls were around".

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I get alone with other women really, I mean there are always people you don't like or might hate, I bet you guys know men you hate or dislike.

yep

 

[Master Chief]

Women friends are awesome, lol. As for man friends and what chamber-whatever saiz, the ones I have do stupid stuff no matter who's present. And a lot of the womans ones get along and whatnot. A lot of them fights. Same with the mans. It's not all divided.

It's like.

An emerald green.

Not black and white.

WhoOoOOooooOOoOoo.

 

[Super_Child]

Oh yeah totally, I think that men can get along with eachother and resolve their differences a lot easier. But women, man Iv'e seen some catfights....

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Women friends are awesome, lol. As for man friends and what chamber-whatever saiz, the ones I have do stupid stuff no matter who's present. And a lot of the womans ones get along and whatnot. A lot of them fights. Same with the mans.

Thanks for that...Festus.

 

[Mee]

I get alone with other women really, I mean there are always people you don't like or might hate, I bet you guys know men you hate or dislike.

What do you do with the women when you get alone with them?

 

[AndThePickles]

I'll taker her!

You'd better And give me flowers!

As for the original question....I don't have many female friends because of this issue Ever since high school I have had women hatin on me HARD. Even a girl that I am now best friends with told me that when she first saw me she thought that I was stuck up and too pretty to talk to anyone. Women can be really catty, I hate it.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Women friends are awesome, lol. As for man friends and what chamber-whatever saiz, the ones I have do stupid stuff no matter who's present. And a lot of the womans ones get along and whatnot. A lot of them fights. Same with the mans. It's not all divided.

It's like.

An emerald green.

Not black and white.

WhoOoOOooooOOoOoo.

MC is hitting the Crack-pipe a little hard today

ATP ... like my new Sig ... t:

 

[AndThePickles]

Heh, I've heard that story many times.

 

[Canadian Rider]

and the best day at the hype gets only better ...

Why do I get the feelin' spoons has told it 1 too many times!

Bwahahhahahaha ... oh the happy place is the hype today!

 

[AndThePickles]

and the best day at the hype gets only better ...

Why do I get the feelin' spoons has told it 1 too many times!

Bwahahhahahaha ... oh the happy place is the hype today!

Eh, I think he's pretty proud of that story lol. And it happened when he was like, 18 years old. I don't care, I thought it was pretty funny the first time I heard it.

 

[Canadian Rider]

It was for me too.

It just capped off a great day of banter.

A good day of back and forth all around.

Glad to see you! hope all is well.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Eh, I think he's pretty proud of that story lol. And it happened when he was like, 18 years old. I don't care, I thought it was pretty funny the first time I heard it.

Did you counter with a story of being nearly smothered by an oiled man's package at a Chippendales show?

 

[MaskedManJRK]

You'd better And give me flowers!

As for the original question....I don't have many female friends because of this issue Ever since high school I have had women hatin on me HARD. Even a girl that I am now best friends with told me that when she first saw me she thought that I was stuck up and too pretty to talk to anyone. Women can be really catty, I hate it.

Yeah, I noticed that girls are more harder to be friends with. Like this one girl I knew, we used to HATE each other, then one day it just melted away. Wierd.

But, I think the biggest difference when it come s to confrontations amonst the sexes is that the actual roles of the people in the conflict.

Men, I find, are mostly simple confrontations, often times being of competitive nature. A guy buys a better car than the other guy, then proceeds to be a dick and waves the fact at the other guy's face.

Women, on the other hand, are grand, epic battles between good and evil. In the eyes of one woman, she is the pure heroine against a massive dragon b***h, and vice-versa with the other woman.

 

[AndThePickles]

Did you counter with a story of being nearly smothered by an oiled man's package at a Chippendales show?

No, I've never been to a strip club. I want to go, but not to a male one.

 

[AndThePickles]

Glad to see you! hope all is well.

All is stressful unfortunately, it's been a BUSY week!! Hope you're doing well too though