WTF did I do????????

[CashforStash]

Ok, lately ive been intersted in a girl (we havent talked face to face, we met through MSN/friends etc...) and we decided to meet at the mall last night. She shows up with 3 of her friends, and we started to hang out and stuff, and we bonded really really quickly (come on, she's hyped for X-Men Orgins Wolverine and she loves xbox, and she's quite attractive) and yeah. Then her friend randomly started to talk to these 2 random jock guys. The girl im intersted in starts to hit on them. After about 10 minutes it felt like they didnt even knew I was there and I felt like I was following them for no reason what so ever. So I decided to just walk away without saying anything.

I sign onto msn today and I tell her "hey", and this is exactly what she said.

Maggie says: By the way, I made out with that guy last night
Maggie says: Guess who dickward

Am I missing something? Can somebody please explain this?
(im 14 soo...)

 

[StrainedEyes]

You ditched her and ignored her. That's what happened.

 

[The Squirrel]

Yeah, you shouldn't have just walked off.

 

[Nirvana]

I :heart: your threads. Always comical.

 

[CashforStash]

Err thats what I thought but she didnt even say a word to me from the moment she met those guys. What was the point of me following her and those ass monkeys?

 

[StrainedEyes]

Err thats what I thought but she didnt even say a word to me from the moment she met those guys. What was the point of me following her and those ass monkeys?

Maybe you should have said something to her.

 

[KALEL114]

You should of pulled her to the side and told her you were leaving. If she asks why, tell her. Communication is very important.

 

[Groovetopia]

You pretty much gave her to those guys. Instead of crawling in your shell when they got there you could have tried talking to her to bring her attention back to you.
You're young, so I can understand you were kind of frustrated but like Last Son said communication is KEY, especially if you were leaving, even though if was messed up that she was all over those other guys when she was supposed to be with you, you kind of looked like a dick leaving with no explanation.

 

[Groovetopia]

Sorry DP

 

[[A]]

WTF did I do????????

When I read that, I thought he did something really bad.. like getting married or something.

 

[union_jak]

Sorry, but aren't you a little too young to be meeting up with girls from the internet in the first place? You should be counting yourself lucky you got home at all, given it could be any old man on msn lol

When you did walk away without a goodbye, you gave her no option but to turn all attention to those other guys. You gave up on her.

 

[Twin2]

Well at least you won't be her babies dady.

 

[Motown Marvel]

Ok, lately ive been intersted in a girl (we havent talked face to face, we met through MSN/friends etc...) and we decided to meet at the mall last night. She shows up with 3 of her friends, and we started to hang out and stuff, and we bonded really really quickly (come on, she's hyped for X-Men Orgins Wolverine and she loves xbox, and she's quite attractive) and yeah. Then her friend randomly started to talk to these 2 random jock guys. The girl im intersted in starts to hit on them. After about 10 minutes it felt like they didnt even knew I was there and I felt like I was following them for no reason what so ever. So I decided to just walk away without saying anything.

I sign onto msn today and I tell her "hey", and this is exactly what she said.

Maggie says: By the way, I made out with that guy last night
Maggie says: Guess who dickward

Am I missing something? Can somebody please explain this?
(im 14 soo...)

welcome to being the nice guy.

 

[Doctor Jones]

You shouldn't of just walked out. I can understand you being frustrated like she didn't know you were there anymore, and you must have thought, "What the hell? If she's not noticing me now, she won't notice me when I leave, she won't care."

But she did. Well, you're 14. My God, and you watch Jaws everyday?!!! I thought you were alot older.

 

[TNC9852002]

Did you say 14??

-TNC

 

[Captain Planet!]

They're called penises. If you intended on having a woman-friend, you'll have to get one.

 

[DDS]

First, it probably wasn't a good idea to "meet up" with some person you met online...

Spoiler

But I guess that doesn't matter anymore because this person didn't turn out to be a horny, middle-aged man.

And, yes, the reason she hates you now is because you just decided to leave her without saying anything. I mean did you at least attempt to talk to her after those "jock guys" walked in?

They're called penises. If you intended on having a woman-friend, you'll have to get one.

That would help a lot too.

 

[Logan's Lady]

I think if she really wanted to meet you because she was INTERESTED in you, then she would have hung out with you and not brought so many gal friends. Not only that, she wouldn't have gone after the other guys.

I think she wanted to hang out as friends, and that's why when there was an opportunity to hang out with some other guys she seemed interested in, she took it.

But, no matter what happened, I think you should have told her you were leaving instead of just walking off.

 

[The Apocalypse]

Ok, lately ive been intersted in a girl (we havent talked face to face, we met through MSN/friends etc...) and we decided to meet at the mall last night. She shows up with 3 of her friends, and we started to hang out and stuff, and we bonded really really quickly (come on, she's hyped for X-Men Orgins Wolverine and she loves xbox, and she's quite attractive) and yeah. Then her friend randomly started to talk to these 2 random jock guys. The girl im intersted in starts to hit on them. After about 10 minutes it felt like they didnt even knew I was there and I felt like I was following them for no reason what so ever. So I decided to just walk away without saying anything.

I sign onto msn today and I tell her "hey", and this is exactly what she said.

Maggie says: By the way, I made out with that guy last night
Maggie says: Guess who dickward

Am I missing something? Can somebody please explain this?
(im 14 soo...)

You let 2 jocks make you look weak, that's what happened.

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

Sorry, but aren't you a little too young to be meeting up with girls from the internet in the first place? You should be counting yourself lucky you got home at all, given it could be any old man on msn lol

When you did walk away without a goodbye, you gave her no option but to turn all attention to those other guys. You gave up on her.

My thoughts exactly.

Your age is the problem is this situation. When your that young, a lot of people lack some the communication skill to a certain point due to inexperience. She was right to bring friends in case you were some weird man, but bringing two other random guys into the group and ignoring you was a stupid move on her part. The polite thing to do was to concentrate on getting to know you instead of leaving you wondering around like a lap dog. Walking away was not the best move, but the best thing to do is stay away from meeting people online in person. Not safe to do, no matter what age you are.

 

[SWAT]

Teenage girls are ****ing stupid is what happend. There's no reason to even think about it...Just move on.

I seem negative cause women are confusing and I'm ******ed when it comes to them.

 

[Ugfugly]

I think if she really wanted to meet you because she was INTERESTED in you, then she would have hung out with you and not brought so many gal friends. Not only that, she wouldn't have gone after the other guys.

I think she wanted to hang out as friends, and that's why when there was an opportunity to hang out with some other guys she seemed interested in, she took it.

But, no matter what happened, I think you should have told her you were leaving instead of just walking off.

They are 14. There's nothing wrong with that IMO. If I had a teenaged daughter I would hope she does the same thing and not go alone or with only one other. There's safety in numbers.

I would prefer that she does not meet boys from online but oh well. That's besides the point and I won't have to worry about it. I won't have girls because my sperm are strong and will produce only boys.


Oh and to the OP, insecurity is not attractive to women. You saw "the jocks" and probably felt intimidated and retreated. Shrug it off and move on. Learn something from this experience.

Next time something like this happens, don't let new guys take over. Blend in, joke around like you're buds. Be calm and assertive. If that doesn't work, ask the girl you're supposed to be with if she wants to go someplace quieter, take her away from the competition. The rest is up to you

 

[SsM]

They are 14. There's nothing wrong with that IMO. If I had a teenaged daughter I would hope she does the same thing and not go alone or with only one other. There's safety in numbers.

I would prefer that she does not meet boys from online but oh well. That's besides the point and I won't have to worry about it. I won't have girls because my sperm are strong and will produce only boys.


Oh and to the OP, insecurity is not attractive to women. You saw "the jocks" and probably felt intimidated and retreated. Shrug it off and move on. Learn something from this experience.

Next time something like this happens, don't let new guys take over. Blend in, joke around like you're buds. Be calm and assertive. If that doesn't work, ask the girl you're supposed to be with if she wants to go someplace quieter, take her away from the competition. The rest is up to you

What he said...

 

[BatSpider]

You shoulda tried to be more into it when the 2 guys showed up, and that you left without saying anything

Either that or she just found the other guys much more interesting, sorry man

 

[YoungE808]

Is there even such a thing as a 14 yr old jock?