I asked out a total stranger. Find out how I did!

[kainedamo]

Quiet you ginger bugger! Time to come out of the closet and admit you were born with ginger pubes!

I'd sooner shoot myself.

 

[kainedamo]

Dear God, she is so boring.

I can really say that based off her attitude, I have no interest in meeting this girl. Before, I wanted to give her the benifet of the doubt. At least wait till we could meet up and properly talk. But she is just so hard to talk to on msn.

She is one of three things. She is either ignorant, boring, or shy.

Ignorance on this level I cannot stand and if that's indeed what it is she can go **** herself.

If she's acting like this because she's just boring, then I have no interest in hanging out with her.

If she's just being shy or something, and she has said she is quite shy, then that I can deal with. But I'm kind of doubtful that this is what it is.

And society just has this stupid attitude that men are supposed to do all the chasing. So maybe that has a part to play. I make all the effort, and this female just sits and waits for me to ask the next question. I'll post an example for you, my comrades, to judge on.

dee! says:
oh man! i am so stuffed! just had a huge ass dinner
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Lucky you
dee! says:
i know
dee! says:
jealous?
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Yes
dee! says:
haha
dee! says:
well you cant have any so hah
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Fair enough

 

[kainedamo]

Ok, this just happened now. Another example of her boring-ness and/or ignorance to me.

dee! says:
whats your opinion on the situation in the Middle East right now?
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Sad

.... And that's it.

 

[Dr. MIX]

It's rather obvious Kainedamo, it isn't because she's boring, she is just very uninterested in you. She probably hopes that these cold and bland replies would make you realize this... She thought wrong. You're trying too hard, just forget her.

 

[kainedamo]

If that's true, I really fail to see why I'm not interesting to her. Lol, not to blow my own horn or anything, but if it really is the case that she's trying to give me the cold shoulder, she just hasn't given me a chance at all. She was like this from the very start really.

 

[Erzengel]

It sounds like she isn't interested and it seems she's being subtle about it. Cut your losses and move on.

Let me guess, you are the one who usually messages her right? Has she ever messaged you first?

 

[kainedamo]

Nope.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I going to take a shot in the dark without reading a single page of this thread....ready....it did not work out and Kaindamo is trying to hard and putting her on a pedestal.

 

[kainedamo]

Well, I confronted her. ShadowBoxing, I do think I am trying too hard yeah.

dee! says:
sent you an email there
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Oh thanks - I'll check out out
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
God I am so sorry
dee! says:
thats ok dont be sorry about it
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
That's not the impression I meant to give, sorry
dee! says:
it just seemed to me to be the impression
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
I am sorry
dee! says:
thats fine
dee! says:
its okay i mean, im wrong then?
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Yes, I think you're very nice
dee! says:
i just thought maybe you were dropping hints
dee! says:
thanks Lara
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
No just online I;m a bit shy
dee! says:
im really pleased you've really reassured me
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Why? Were you worried?
dee! says:
i just thought you were trying to blow me off
dee! says:
sorry about that
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Oh I am sorry. Honestly I'm not. I'm just quick online

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Well, I confronted her. ShadowBoxing, I do think I am trying too hard yeah.

dee! says:
sent you an email there
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Oh thanks - I'll check out out
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
God I am so sorry
dee! says:
thats ok dont be sorry about it
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
That's not the impression I meant to give, sorry
dee! says:
it just seemed to me to be the impression
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
I am sorry
dee! says:
thats fine
dee! says:
its okay i mean, im wrong then?
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Yes, I think you're very nice
dee! says:
i just thought maybe you were dropping hints
dee! says:
thanks Lara
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
No just online I;m a bit shy
dee! says:
im really pleased you've really reassured me
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Why? Were you worried?
dee! says:
i just thought you were trying to blow me off
dee! says:
sorry about that
Recovering X-Men Fan says:
Oh I am sorry. Honestly I'm not. I'm just quick online

Ouch! Kiss.Of.Death.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

After reading that, I'm almost sure Calvin was right. Kainedamo is an act.

Nobody and I mean NOBODY is that communicatively challenged.

I'm just not buying it anymore. This a charade. I have a strange suspicion of who you are based on the way you actually post. If the mods did an IP check, they might see who I think you are. (then again, maybe you know how to bypass the ip check.)

Well, either that, or I'm extremely paranoid, but it's not adding up anymore. GoldenAgeHero is kind of pathetic, but you can tell that he's genuinely pathetic. It's sort of natural for him and he's comfortable w/ himself and his spontaneous urges to ask 'toddler' type questions.

You're different. This stuff seems almost as if it's planned. Maybe I'm wrong, but oh well.

 

[kainedamo]

They did an IP check before and I am indeed from Belfast.

You're the one that sent me the PM, yeah? I've been meaning to reply. Really nice PM, real cool of you to say that stuff.

 

[roach]

1) I hope Recovering X-men fan isnt your messenger name. Change it up[ and pick some thing that doesnt sound geeky.
2)The most you should be talking to her on the IM is 15 minutes a day. Give her the impression that you have a life and that you arent IM stalking her.
3) Be straight to the point and ask her out...but do it in a nonchalant way..."I was going to the movies today...would you like to come with me?"
4) Dont bring up sex unless she does....and even still tread lightly.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

They did an IP check before and I am indeed from Belfast.

You're the one that sent me the PM, yeah? I've been meaning to reply. Really nice PM, real cool of you to say that stuff.

Si Senor. Twas me. I felt that it was appropriate.

 

[kainedamo]

1) She is Recovering X-Men fan.
2) Too late. Talk to her for about two hours a day.
3) I think we're gonna do something next monday.
4) Haven't talked about sex much at all.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

After reading that, I'm almost sure Calvin was right. Kainedamo is an act.

Nobody and I mean NOBODY is that communicatively challenged.

I'm just not buying it anymore. This a charade. I have a strange suspicion of who you are based on the way you actually post. If the mods did an IP check, they might see who I think you are. (then again, maybe you know how to bypass the ip check.)

Well, either that, or I'm extremely paranoid, but it's not adding up anymore. GoldenAgeHero is kind of pathetic, but you can tell that he's genuinely pathetic. It's sort of natural for him and he's comfortable w/ himself and his spontaneous urges to ask 'toddler' type questions.

You're different. This stuff seems almost as if it's planned. Maybe I'm wrong, but oh well.

I've known people like Kaindamo. Maybe he is an act, but there is a strong possibility he is not.

 

[kainedamo]

What's so unrealistic about being awkward with women?

 

[Holly Goodhead]

kainedamo, youre going to die a virgin, the end. close thread

 

[kainedamo]

I'm not a virgin.

 

[Holly Goodhead]

Vaginally?

 

[kainedamo]

Have I done a girl in the vagina? Yeah.

 

[jaguarr]

Why don't you CALL this girl and talk to her on the phone? Girls usually love to talk on the phone and it's far less impersonal than IM.

jag

 

[Erzengel]

This girl doesn't sound interested. Forced instant messages and uncomfortable lags in conversation. Find someone else and disconnect your instant messager and talk to her on the phone.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Try calling them, it works.

 

[kainedamo]

Ok, having a long ass conversation with her.

She seems really... sensitive, or something. She says she was badly burned by a guy. She keeps telling me how sweet I am and stuff. It's a complete turn around in conversation. She seems, like I said, very sensitive.

It doesn't read like she's not interested at all now.