If you look at the Hype's Home Page with a link to Mark Millar ideas about Superman... he makes a point that I and a few others have been trying to make.... albeit, in different ways.
The point is that BB & TDK has introduce a new way to produce comic book icons and their stories to the bid screen.... by making it OK to do a "Serious Comic Book Film". More realistic, more mature themed(which all kids like), with mild dark environment(like society which is worse) and some dark comedy & action(RockenRolla).
That's the next Level comic books film are progressing to... look at first Blade, than BB, IM, to some extent TIH, now TDK.
So to answer your question... NO. Spidey won't top anybody as long as Sony keep allowing fluff to be made and Sam Raimi leading the franchise... especially when other franchises are looking to follow Batman's lead(although Blade technically was first to change the genre).