Does it matter how many sexual partners your girlfriend/boyfriend has had before you?

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  1. Golgo-13

    Golgo-13 The Return of the O.G

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    I have been married for 4 years now, and everythings cool. Sometimes i wonder though how many sexual partners my wife has had before she met me. I want to ask but i'm scarred if she tells me a really high number, it'll make me look at her differently.

    What if the number is over 50..is that too much?

    I've been with a lot of women well before i met my wife. Some i remember by name, some were one night stands, so i don't remember their names but the number is not over 100.

    Is there a cut off number where your talking with a chick or a guy that you like, and you just have to say 'NO', because their sexually history book is way too thick?
     
    #1 Golgo-13, Dec 19, 2004
  2. Wiseman

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    I don't ask most girls I date how many guys they have been with. Once you're out of high school crap like that doesn't really matter. At least it shouldn't. Besides, chances are I've been with more girls then they've been with guys anyway so it'd be hypocritical of me to let someones past get in the way of our relationship
     
    #2 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  3. Dr.Fear

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    i think it does, thats why i like virgins more. anything more then 5 would just creep me out
     
    #3 Dr.Fear, Dec 19, 2004
  4. Childlike Wild

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    Um, if a guy was a virgin I'd be tempted to forget him. Does that count?
     
    #4 Childlike Wild, Dec 19, 2004
  5. Wiseman

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    Are you serious? Man, I would've missed out on some of the best sexual experiences of my life if I thought like that
     
    #5 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  6. THWIP*

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    IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU WANT TO LIVE. :o
     
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  7. Golgo-13

    Golgo-13 The Return of the O.G

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    But what if she said a number like 66, or something. What if everytime you walk down the street together some guy saids, "oh yeah i hit that too". Or like in the movie office "make sure you wear a rubber dude".

    You have the right to know if your girl is/or used to be a nympho-partying maniac, don't you?
     
    #7 Golgo-13, Dec 19, 2004
  8. Dr.Fear

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    yeah im serious.
     
    #8 Dr.Fear, Dec 19, 2004
  9. Dr.Fear

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    what do umean forget him is he was a virgin?? you dont like guys who are virgins??
     
    #9 Dr.Fear, Dec 19, 2004
  10. terry78

    terry78 My name is Stefan, sweet thang

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    I think girls don't want guys that are virgins, whereas guys want girls that are. The girls want a dude that has exp. where some of the guys want girls that don't, so we can "teach them some things", as it were.
     
    #10 terry78, Dec 19, 2004
  11. Wiseman

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    Oh, I can tell. I don't need a number. And that's fine, I usually know what I'm getting into with every relationship so it's not like it's a big shock to me. Besides, the girls that are the biggest ****es also tend to be the ones that have low self-esteem so they'll let you have 3 somes with their best friends and forgive you if you accidentally have sex with their sister or cousin
     
    #11 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  12. Childlike Wild

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    I'd prefer experience. :confused:
     
    #12 Childlike Wild, Dec 19, 2004
  13. Dr.Fear

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    im still a virgin, does that mean ill be alone??
     
    #13 Dr.Fear, Dec 19, 2004
  14. danielisthor

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    Don't ask it man, if you don't like the answer, i get the feeling it will probably eat you alive. You ask that question and you don't like the answer, you might as well head down to a divorce lawyer before she does. Because it will probably ruin your marriage.
     
    #14 danielisthor, Dec 19, 2004
  15. Golgo-13

    Golgo-13 The Return of the O.G

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    Most couples have unprotected sex, knowing your mates sexually history is a smart thing in this AIDS/STD infested world.
     
    #15 Golgo-13, Dec 19, 2004
  16. Venice

    Venice suck my left titty

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    My friend has had like...25 partners, she's 19. She's definatly a mega****.
     
    #16 Venice, Dec 19, 2004
  17. Wiseman

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    Can I have her number?
     
    #17 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  18. Venice

    Venice suck my left titty

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    Sure, if you want gonorrhea.
     
    #18 Venice, Dec 19, 2004
  19. Wiseman

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    Hmm. Freaky sex, gonorrhea, freaky sex, gonorrhea......ah f**k it, that's a risk I'm willing to take
     
    #19 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  20. Dr.Fear

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    thats just sad
     
    #20 Dr.Fear, Dec 19, 2004
  21. Wiseman

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    It was a joke, get over it :rolleyes:
     
    #21 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  22. TheSumOfGod

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    As long as they're all human, then there's no problem. But if you find out that your girlfriend once did a german shepherd, you might have to sit down with her and talk about it.
     
    #22 TheSumOfGod, Dec 19, 2004
  23. Wiseman

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    Why? That's kinky. I'd ask if she made a tape
     
    #23 Wiseman, Dec 19, 2004
  24. danielisthor

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    i think some of you have missed the point that he is talking about his wife, not a girlfriend.
     
    #24 danielisthor, Dec 19, 2004
  25. DarkKnightJRK

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    As long as she doesn't have any dieseses or anything, I probably wouldn't really mind how many partners she's had in the past.
     
    #25 DarkKnightJRK, Dec 19, 2004
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