Gee-wiz, pal, that Spideyman's always such a breezy light-hearted ragamuffin.
This is a guy who's shared books/arcs with freakin' Daredevil and The Punisher for god's sake, along with having been written by Frank Miller of all people for a while.
Most Marvel characters have a pretty broad spectrum of tones/stories. Yeah, Spidey has his light & breezy keep-the-neighborhood-safe aspects. He also has the "McFarlane's Venom's breaking into my home, stalking me and talking about brutally killing my girlfriend" aspects.
Like, you know, most Marvel characters. Different villains, different periods in their life, different tones. Peter's not a dark & grim individual, but trying to say he hasn't had some pretty bleak & tense & "emotionally-angsty" stories is ridiculous.
EDIT: But yeah, SpideyJJ, I hate this tech-suit bull**** too. Makes sense in-universe, Tony wanting to protect him as much as possibly, power him up a bit, but it's still totally balls as a Spider-Man look.