Guys, does this annoy the hell out of you?

[E-Man]

You're still having fun. I'm married.

Hey man. At least there is that cool new Mr. Terrific series out right now...




Okay, not really.

 

[Calvin]

I like how Sarah complains that other girls are stupid, and then tells her friend Tiffany or whatever to stand next to "severally emancipated" girls in order to look more attractive to guys. I'm guessing she means stand next to girls that were former slaves who were previously set free in groups of several girls?

 

[Rocketman]

I like how Sarah complains that other girls are stupid, and then tells her friend Tiffany or whatever to stand next to "severally emancipated" girls in order to look more attractive to guys. I'm guessing she means stand next to girls that were former slaves who were previously set free in groups of several girls?

Severally emancipated
Severely emaciated

It's a good thing we're distinguishing the stupid girls from the intelligent ones.

 

[Anita18]

I like how Sarah complains that other girls are stupid, and then tells her friend Tiffany or whatever to stand next to "severally emancipated" girls in order to look more attractive to guys. I'm guessing she means stand next to girls that were former slaves who were previously set free in groups of several girls?

I didn't even see that! Old age is making me dyslexic.

Yes beauty/brains. You don't have either.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

This isnt all guys, being overweight isnt that big of an issue to me, I prefer women with a bit of meat on them as opposed to stick thin women and I know plenty of others who think the same.

I also think girls who dont wear make up but still appear beautiful is very attractive to me personally.

I think with both guys and girls though looks are what begin the initial attraction.

Yeah well that's for incredibly beautiful girls who don't need make up... but a heck of a lot of girls do not appear that beautiful, and wearing no make-up would probably dent their chances of looking attractive to the person they are trying to woo.

Haha, aww yes the unattractive form of independence. Yes, I agree. A certain level of independence is a must. But I agree, there is another level of independence that becomes a turnoff.

Where is that line tho? I just don't get it

4? Try 6! -points to self- There is hope for you after all, even you have to be dragged kicking and screaming into it!

Like you, I wasn't looking to give up my freedom per say, but I was still looking because I met my bf online. I figured why the hell not.

I've been on one date that came from looking online.

It was such a complete disaster...

...he didn't bring any cash with him and we were going to this special candlelit event in a little village (so I had to pay for all his drinks). When we got back into town, he didn't offer to buy me any back. When I was walking him to the taxi, a drunk chav started on him and he literally ran away leaving me to deal with him... which fortunately i'm pretty good at... then when he found me again, I walked him to the taxi and we said our goodnights... and you know what the worst thing was? He thought it was a great night? He kept trying for a second date and saying he felt there was chemistry... I was like 'Really???'

When I met my bf, there wasn't any immediate chemistry, but I liked spending time with him and silence wasn't awkward, which IMO is severely underrated. You have to feel like you don't have to impress the guy 24/7, have that feeling of comfort. I liked him enough not to dump him immediately, which is what I've done before to guys I met online that I didn't really like all that much.

So I liked my bf enough to keep going out with him, although I like to joke that I had nothing else better to do and he won me over with his persistence, generosity, and kindness. I actually really couldn't give you a reason why other than that I felt very comfortable with him from the first moment I met him.

Well you'll be happy to know that I just got asked out by a guy i've known for a while, and you've inspired me to say yes even though I'm not too sure it's a good idea.

I guess we'll have to wait and see!

 

[Rocketman]

Why was my post deleted? What did I say wrong?

 

[Hobgoblin]

Then I have girls who blow me off, and then start whining and crying about dudes being whatever, and then start talking about how they wished they had exactly what it was that I was offering them, and it's like okay, shut the god damn hell up I don't wanna hear it. Really.

I remember that happening in high school. I asked out a girl from a class, who happened to be very tall. She blew me off. Much later, I over heard her complaining to her friends that men only want short women. I wanted to say "First of all, I asked you out because you are tall. Second, I guess I dont count." Whatever.

My latest issue is a friend of a woman in my class not liking me, but her friend and I had chemistry. I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall when they were talking.

 

[hopefuldreamer]

Why was my post deleted? What did I say wrong?

I don't think it's just you... my reply to Anita18 is gone too, and there was definitely nothing bad in that...

Weird...

 

[Anita18]

I've been on one date that came from looking online.

It was such a complete disaster...

...he didn't bring any cash with him and we were going to this special candlelit event in a little village (so I had to pay for all his drinks). When we got back into town, he didn't offer to buy me any back. When I was walking him to the taxi, a drunk chav started on him and he literally ran away leaving me to deal with him... which fortunately i'm pretty good at... then when he found me again, I walked him to the taxi and we said our goodnights... and you know what the worst thing was? He thought it was a great night? He kept trying for a second date and saying he felt there was chemistry... I was like 'Really???'

I've gone on about 10 dates with guys I've met online, and although 9 of those 10 didn't work out, I had a good time at all of them. I'm apparently very good at weeding out the creeps and *****ebags at the chat level.

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

Yeah well that's for incredibly beautiful girls who don't need make up... but a heck of a lot of girls do not appear that beautiful, and wearing no make-up would probably dent their chances of looking attractive to the person they are trying to woo.

Not true, I have seen girls who normally cake themselves in make-up with little to non on them occasionally and actually found them more attractive. I'm sure i'm not the only one as well. So back at you!

 

[Mrs. Sawyer]

I'm apparently very good at weeding out the creeps and *****ebags at the chat level.

Challenge accepted.

 

[El Payaso]

The girls complain they're too ugly for men. I say no, you're okay. The girls say oh, but you're too ugly for me. The end.

 

[Anita18]

Challenge accepted.

And....that was pretty easy.

 

[Pink Ranger]

I'm apparently very good at weeding out the creeps and *****ebags at the chat level.

Then you run the risk of your brain overloading just by visiting this website itself!

 

[Anita18]

Then you run the risk of your brain overloading just by visiting this website itself!

Pfft I hold all you guys at arms' length.

 

[Lasirius]

It's funny when girls post pictures of themselves on Facebook (or other social networking sites) with a very sexy look on their face while the caption says "I don't like how I look in this picture, it's ugly but I post it anyway because I'm bored."

 

[SpideyVille]

It's funny when girls post pictures of themselves on Facebook (or other social networking sites) with a very sexy look on their face while the caption says "I don't like how I look in this picture, it's ugly but I post it anyway because I'm bored."

I really hated this kind of thinking because I was doing photography and my friends would ask me to take pics of them, but then they would ask to see the pics on my camera and would delete them because they didn't like how they came out. I lost so many great photos because of this.

 

[trashmold]

oh god! this kinds of girls annoys the hell out of me! i have a lot classmates that are like this and everyday i feel like i'm in hell

 

[Warhammer]

Rocketman, this sounds like a dumb b**** you got there. And one that is bitter and just projects hate on every other girl because she hasn't got her s*** together. Girls like that won't change unless they are broken first.

 

[spideyboy_1111]

I think guy's have the same problem as this chick. Unfortunately... as you get older you realize love is actually alot of hard work, and not some perfect fairytale. As for you RocketMan, i'm afraid she's "just not that into you" and that's her decision to make, even though you think you're the perfect person for her.

 

[spideyboy_1111]

And another thing.

Whoever came up with the idea that men are worse than women . . . totally incorrect. Just based on appearances alone, women are way more demanding in what they want in a man's appearance than what a man wants in a woman's appearance. I hear women talking about (literally) a list of requirements: "don't be ugly, don't be bald, must have blue eyes, must be taller than me, must be built."

Men don't really care about this. We have no requirements of the sort. At least I don't. We like you just the way you are, thanks. We don't need you to look ridiculous and wear clown make-up at the bar. In fact, 9 times out of 10, we might be more impressed that you didn't make yourself look like a giant doll. And if you think men like that don't exist, here's one typing right now. (But I'm ugly, so it sucks to be you.)

We have a much harder time approaching you than you do approaching us. Just come on over. We want you to. The guys who want to get in your pants are the ones coming over because you're dressed like your pants desperately need to be gotten into. No wonder you have no "luck".

you actually couldn't be more wrong... I've heard alot from guy's on what they want... all they do is talk about the T&A of a girl... the difference is the good looking guys are picky, and the less fortunate ones seem to be much less and ready to bang just about any girl with female parts.

same goes for good looking women.. though.. ive also seen both less attractive men and women pine after women and men that are just out of their league, and demand far to much for what's realistic. Those people have the right to do so though (lord knows some get very lucky), but in my opinion and experience, they have no right to complain about it when they're the picky ones. Though you can't form that opinion if you're just simply jealous that they didn't pick you (like you seem to be)

 

[Anita18]

you actually couldn't be more wrong... I've heard alot from guy's on what they want... all they do is talk about the T&A of a girl... the difference is the good looking guys are picky, and the less fortunate ones seem to be much less and ready to bang just about any girl with female parts.

same goes for good looking women.. though.. ive also seen both less attractive men and women pine after women and men that are just out of their league, and demand far to much for what's realistic. Those people have the right to do so though (lord knows some get very lucky), but in my opinion and experience, they have no right to complain about it when they're the picky ones. Though you can't form that opinion if you're just simply jealous that they didn't pick you (like you seem to be)

I think everyone can agree that many good-looking people have too-high expectations physically when it comes to who gets into their pants. I've definitely seen it from both men and women.

And if people want to complain about it, fine, but I wouldn't be caught dead with such idiots anyway.

 

[spideyboy_1111]

I think everyone can agree that many good-looking people have too-high expectations physically when it comes to who gets into their pants. I've definitely seen it from both men and women.

And if people want to complain about it, fine, but I wouldn't be caught dead with such idiots anyway.

i think it's just about preference. What one person might find unattractive, the other who does find that person attractive is probably going to think it's petty. We all have preferences and certain people we'd all claim that we aren't physically attracted to (those who deny that are lying) it's just human nature. Often preferences are just guidelines for what you typically like... But we are all often pleasantly surprised when someone comes along and breaks that mold.

at one time, I thought i'd only settle for a guy taller than me, more outgoing, less shy, and with dark hair and features. Some of those "guides" slowly broke away as i met and became attracted to people who didn't fit into that narrow box... and now i'm with someone who i honestly think is my Soul mate... he's shorter than me, and is a red head with a mustache (two things i'd have never ever been attracted to, but i love them on him )

 

[Pink Ranger]

Lol, never knew Marx had a stache. Is it the full Tom Selleck?

 

[spideyboy_1111]

Lol, never knew Marx had a stache. Is it the full Tom Selleck?

he's technically got a goatee.. i suppose, he's got a stache, and a lil bit of scruff on his chin. It reminded me of Errol Flynn when we first met. and he's pretty cute with it