How many times have you been heartbroken?

[Erzengel]

So on to my next tale of heartache.

I was still quite effected by my first girlfriend that 2 months later I became serious with this girl I've been friends with for 2 years.

I felt I rushed in with the 1st relationship, I kept things not so serious. She was starting to want to make future plans and I was like let's just enjoy what we have now. She went to school 6 hours away from me. It took me a long time to tell her I loved her, she did within a month or 2 months time and by the time I did, she was ready to end the relationship because of the distance and probably because we were in different places romantically. I wanted to take it slow she wanted almost a commitment. However, I wasn't financially ready, still living at home and just started a new job.

*sigh*

I still talk to her every now and then and she considers me her friend and informs me what would happen if she was single and I was near her.

 

[Babs Gordon]

i hate mindf**ks.

 

[X-Chick]

Interesting how this turned into everyone telling their heartbreak stories.

My first real boyfriend was sweet and hot and I had it bad for him. We were only together for like 3 months, but it was a tough 3 months. He had a rough family life (not that I didn't) and he was somewhat of a bad boy, more misunderstood than anything. My parent's didn't really approve, but my mom never said anything bad about him. He ended up dropping out of high school and I broke up with him immediately even though it hurt like hell. I knew it'd never work, but it was so great while it lasted. I run into him every now and then and he still (5 years later) wants me back.

 

[Fran]

I've been heartbroken twice this summer... it sucked

 

[X-Chick]

Twice in a 3 months period?

 

[Darren Daring]

Just the once. Rest assured, I earned the hell out of it. But then I slept with a drunk chick, so It eased the pain.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

you profited from heartbreak?....that's hardcore.

 

[Darren Daring]

Well, I am a very righteous personality.

 

[heypapajinx]

1. Samuel
2. Chris
3. Daniel
4. Rodney

 

[triplefive]

My second heartbreak was similar to yours in a way Erzengel. I posted about it while I was still highly involved int he situation. It wasn't a relationship in the traditional sense... we weren't together. But he was my friend and spend most of every day with me showering me with what girls dream to get from guys. Attention, humor, songs, adoring teasing, compliments. Then he revealed what an emotional f**k he was and how self absorbed he really was. I was basically an ego trip for a solid year after spending so much of my emotional energy on him. I loved him and he used me. >8'( So much for friendship.

Pretty much the same with me for my only heartbreak. It's going to read horribly because it was high school, but here it is:

I fell totally in love (though, not real love) with my best friend in high school and he always doted on me and told me how pretty he thought I was, and we shared all the same interests and spent a lot of time together. And he asked me to the prom, which I thought was like a dream come true.

At the after party, we were all a little drunk and I tried to kiss him, and he shoved me away and told everyone to keep me away from him.

Eventually, I found out that I was just a pawn in his game with another girl, whom he'd had an on-again/off-again crush thing throughout high school. They always liked eachother, but never at the same time. whatever She was incredibly jealous of me, so he used me just to mess with her.

It was not only heartbreaking, but it was completely humiliating because it happened in front of everyone. And I know it was only high school, but my little heart was so crushed.


someone pass the ben and jerry's.

 

[tzarinna]

Damn what an ass.
You didn't kick him in the balls? I would've.

 

[Master Chief]

K, these stories seal the deal, I'm emotionally shut down. Walls are being built around my heart and no one shall get to me. Except for people who've already been there.

I :heart: you.

Awesome. Yer like, the only person who prolly wouldn't shoot another hole in my chest. :heart:

 

[Darren Daring]

This is going to sound like gloating, and it is, but, like, 80% of female friends turned out to have crushes on me. Life isn't easy for the charming. It's a pretty horrible thing to tell someone you care about that their feelings aren't recipricated

 

[heypapajinx]

Eventually, I found out that I was just a pawn in his game with another girl, whom he'd had an on-again/off-again crush thing throughout high school. They always liked eachother, but never at the same time. whatever She was incredibly jealous of me, so he used me just to mess with her.

It was not only heartbreaking, but it was completely humiliating because it happened in front of everyone. And I know it was only high school, but my little heart was so crushed.


someone pass the ben and jerry's.

you know why it's called a crush!?!
because when it's all over, someone ALWAYS deserves to have their nuts crushed.
stupid boys. never know what's good for them.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

Life isn't easy for the charming.

you and me both....soooo difficult. for serious.

 

[triplefive]

Damn what an ass.
You didn't kick him in the balls? I would've.

We sat down and talked about it, and we still hung out as a group, but I resented him for a while. I was going off to bigger and better things at school though, so I got over it. The year after, his girlfriend added me to MSN out of nowhere and started talking to me because he was still caught up with the other girl somehow.

She called him on it though, and he pretty much got on his knees and begged for her forgiveness... they're still together, four years later, and they're probably getting married once they're done school. I guess he figured himself out. The other girl went on to ruin someone else's relationship. Seriously.

 

[Darren Daring]

you and me both....soooo difficult. for serious.

I hope I didn't sound as arrogant as this.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

you did but it's ok, we know you meant well

 

[blind_fury]

Is the thrill of being in love worth the heartache that usually comes after?

I think not.

 

[Darren Daring]

Thus, the need for hookers.

 

[Caliber]

I've been heartbroken 3 times I think. I have gotten dumped every way possible.

 

[heypapajinx]

Originally Posted by Mr Sparkle
you and me both....soooo difficult. for serious.

I hope I didn't sound as arrogant as this.

yeah. totally. i mean, when i go out on Saturday night, i have have to take a spatula just to scrape the hoes off meh.

 

[tzarinna]

*calls for a male escort*

 

[Darren Daring]

yeah. totally. i mean, when i go out on Saturday night, i have have to take a spatula just to scrape the hoes off meh.

whatevah, whatevah, You just jealous! I get alllll the honeys!

 

[heypapajinx]

whatevah, whatevah, You just jealous! I get alllll the honeys!

you know, i heard Mini Me pulls the most hoes in Hollywood..... is that you Mini Me?

i'm so hoe magnetic i get my clothes made with teflon.