I cant take this crap anymore

[Tyrinus]

See I've found that no matter how bad something is, you should look for and find the bright spots, however small they might be:

Did you get any while you were with her? If so, that's plus one.
Chances are, if this is how she acts towards people in relationships, she's going to hit some serious hard times and misery with people. Plus two.

I'm sure you can find others if you try.

 

[terry78]

See I've found that no matter how bad something is, you should look for and find the bright spots, however small they might be:

Did you get any while you were with her? If so, that's plus one.
Chances are, if this is how she acts towards people in relationships, she's going to hit some serious hard times and misery with people. Plus two.

I'm sure you can find others if you try.

Documenting the history of this entire thing, I think you already know the answer to that.

 

[Yerzrinot]

I have countless threads complaining about err this cursed life I have, look em up.

Guess, what, my girlfriend this whole ****ing time didnt like me, she used me, and she had another boyfriend, this is ****ing pathetic, everyone seems to hate me, I have no friends that I trust, and its just un explainable bull ****, I dont know, but this is some tought times here, and i'm gonna explode because I dont know how and why someone would have the guts to do that to me....

I seriously am in desprete meausures for advice...

Did you act this whiny around your girlfriend?

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

I have countless threads complaining about err this cursed life I have, look em up.

Guess, what, my girlfriend this whole ****ing time didnt like me, she used me, and she had another boyfriend, this is ****ing pathetic, everyone seems to hate me, I have no friends that I trust, and its just un explainable bull ****, I dont know, but this is some tought times here, and i'm gonna explode because I dont know how and why someone would have the guts to do that to me....

I seriously am in desprete meausures for advice...

Something like that happened to me. I had a friend I was seriously very close to. Spilled my guts to him really.


Turns out he used our friendship to try to get with one of my friends.

We had a big fight. He apologized to me a few days later. We aren't best buds but it's a slow process. He seems like he still wants to try a friendship with me now. Not sure, but **** like this does happen.

You just have to try and keep your head up during these times. Just know it isn't the end, it never really is. If you really want something to come to you, you have to really want it, need it. Then good things could start happening for you again. I'm sorry you had to go through something like that. Feels like a solid knife through your back.

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

I have countless threads complaining about err this cursed life I have, look em up.

Guess, what, my girlfriend this whole ****ing time didnt like me, she used me, and she had another boyfriend, this is ****ing pathetic, everyone seems to hate me, I have no friends that I trust, and its just un explainable bull ****, I dont know, but this is some tought times here, and i'm gonna explode because I dont know how and why someone would have the guts to do that to me....

I seriously am in desprete meausures for advice...

The only advice I can give is to use what happened to you as a caution for people you meet in the future. Wise up and choose your friends carefully. I have tons of ex friends and now I only hang with 2 close friends. All my gf's back stabbed me so now I'm careful to who I'm get close to. So turn what happened to you as turn it into a positive thing to wise up. Do not make contact with these ''friends'' and start over.

 

[CaptainClown]

Tough times are hard for anyone, the best way to get through it is by becoming pro-active about your life. It is a good time to reflect on yourself and seek to improve yourself and enjoy the finer things in life. It is definitly an uphill battle but anyone can do it, you just have to have the will to not give up.


and now for something completely different

 

[DDS]

That llama will stare so deep into your soul, it'll find all of your life-answers for you.

 

[jaguarr]

Honestly, the first step is less complaining and more going out and actively trying to change your life. Making countless threads complaining about your cursed life (as you describe it) won't do anything.

Agreed. You tend to get more of whatever it is you focus on, whether it's what you really wanted or not, because that's where your attention goes. Spend your time and energy focusing on what you DO want, not what you DON'T want. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.

jag

 

[The Spawn]

First off...what did she use YOU for?

 

[Logan's Runt]

First off...what did she use YOU for?

To feel better about herself?

 

[The Spawn]

Ah.

 

[Majic Walrus]

I have countless threads complaining about err this cursed life I have, look em up.

Guess, what, my girlfriend this whole ****ing time didnt like me, she used me, and she had another boyfriend, this is ****ing pathetic, everyone seems to hate me, I have no friends that I trust, and its just un explainable bull ****, I dont know, but this is some tought times here, and i'm gonna explode because I dont know how and why someone would have the guts to do that to me....

I seriously am in desprete meausures for advice...

Here's some advice. Get over it. **** happens. At least you two probably don't have a kid together. That **** gets frustrating I hear.

Also don't rely on friends to be trusting. Obviously the chick you trusted screwed you over. That's what people do. Screw each other over either on purpose or accidentally. Either way I vote you hold up in a bunker and wait for the bad **** to stop going down.