Well I'm glad you don't mean me, because in all honesty it's one thing I don't think I've ever had much of a word in. Here's my thinking: I'm not going to bash just because something's been changed. I'll bash when I think the change is unneeded and just plain bad--a sloppy plot device that could've been avoided with better writing. I'm obviously not going to bash a change I like, no matter how 'big' it is. I mostly agree with you. The only thing that bothers me is:
You see what I'm getting at, right? If I feel one director has made a good choice in changing something, and I feel another director has been sloppy/lazy and could've avoided making a change that felt forced, then I'll say it. I won't say it in the same thread, because, let's face it, that's what all of this comes down to; certain people going into other forums and preaching about their hero director being so much better than the director of the franchise whose forum they're visiting. I'll go to the whatever boards and praise, and then I'll go to another forum and rip it if it deserves being ripped. Don't expect me to be going somewhere and rubbing salt in the wounds of a fanbase that's just had to swallow an oldsmobile full of sh**. Because, in truth, I am one of those fans. I don't go in the forums of franchises I don't like. You won't see me on the X-men boards. You won't see me on The Cap boards.
This Spidey-Bat war has got to end. Fans of both, like me, are constantly on edge because we see both sides and generally have to watch what we say at either camp.
You know, I've loved Spidey since I can remember, but I'm unable to make a post about where I think Raimi went wrong without being called 'Nolan's gay lover' or some such sh**.
I know you're in the same boat because I see you there too. It's not all black and white. You're not the devil if you don't like something. You're a fan, plain and simple. You're a fan that should be able to voice your worries on something without getting another one of your favourite franchises thrown back in your face. It's not a competition, and people should stop seeing it as such.