I need a question answered?

[teh Puffy]

Kind of an argument going on in another place, so the guy keeps throwing out phrases such as.

"my right and left hands are fine since they usually are grabbing onto laura's ****. "

or

"I have three friends that will openly say I F88KED Them. Not to mention they loved it they will say!"

I am interested, is this still considered disrespectful to a women. To go around flaunting this crap about a friend. Cause to me its disrespectful and somethign that shouldnt be said. A women knew about this they would never talk to the man again his ass would be on the curb.

So am I old fashioned when i believe this is disrespect to a woman. OR am I totally wrong and havent caught up with the times?

I need opinons people!

 

[DV8]

^mmmm . . . I do hear where you're coming from, but there are some women who might not care, to be honest . . .

 

[Figs]

I think it depends on the girl. Some will get offended others won't be phased in the least.

 

[teh Puffy]

^mmmm . . . I do hear where you're coming from, but there are some women who might not care, to be honest . . .

Thats why i need to get sort of an answer, espically from women of the hype you know.

I always found it disrespectful, and always will, but if times are changing why dont i just go around calling all women ****es or ****s or whatever, seems to work for some people.

Good example is THE WONDER YEARS EPISODE, when Kevin was like use your imagination to when Winnie slept over at his place. Then the crap hit the ceiling. So I just wanted some opinons.

 

[HR-PUFF&STUFF]

men always have and will talk like that about women. and to tell the truth women talk about men like that too. we just don't talk about what we talk about with each other. maybe we should.

 

[DV8]

Thats why i need to get sort of an answer, espically from women of the hype you know.

I always found it disrespectful, and always will, but if times are changing why dont i just go around calling all women ****es or ****s or whatever, seems to work for some people.

Good example is THE WONDER YEARS EPISODE, when Kevin was like use your imagination to when Winnie slept over at his place. Then the crap hit the ceiling. So I just wanted some opinons.

well here's the thing, it's one thing to call a woman a **** or a ****e, and to brag about how much of a stallion you are (which is what this guy is doing) . . . it's not completely black or completely white, you know?

also, it might be true that the women he's talking about would openly say he was a great fk; but that's not calling them a ****e in so many words . . .

 

[teh Puffy]

well here's the thing, it's one thing to call a woman a **** or a ****e, and to brag about how much of a stallion you are (which is what this guy is doing) . . . it's not completely black or completely white, you know?

also, it might be true that the women he's talking about would openly say he was a great fk; but that's not calling them a ****e in so many words . . .

Oh I know, I even took him up on what he told me to do. Go find the 3 girls that would openly say that he Fkd them. So I am doing so. I just wanted to hear opinons on disrespectful or not.

I totally agree, if you can have men talk to men, about it, and women talk to women about it why cant a man talk to a women about it or vice versa. This country could use a little communication with one another.

 

[hammy]

Oh it is totally disrespectful. But sadly, there are many women who either have very little self respect or are too dumb to realize. A lot of women tend to be exhibitionists. That's why there are hookers, strippers, girls in porn, etc. But it's not generally the creme de la creme of femininity who are in to these things.

 

[teh Puffy]

Oh it is totally disrespectful. But sadly, there are many women who either have very little self respect or are too dumb to realize. A lot of women tend to be exhibitionists. That's why there are hookers, strippers, girls in porn, etc. But it's not generally the creme de la creme of femininity who are in to these things.

See I thought it was TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL, when for some reason i sit here at 22, and my personality seems to be that of a guy who respect women much like on those leave it to beaver shows. I dont get it, really. I dont get why a guy would be so prasising of say he Fkd some chick and said go find her. To prove it. I mean how messed up is the guy saying it, let alone the girl for wanting to say she did it. Theres some mental issues with the girl if she can openly be like that. Much like you said the whole stripper deal. I hear my brother now 18 go everytime we go to a concert lets go to the strip club, nothing wrong with it. I am like its me I dont believe in it. I believe in respect to a woman.
Thanks for your input.

 

[Anguissette1979]

Thats why i need to get sort of an answer, espically from women of the hype you know.

<--- Hype woman

That would piss me off, but I wouldn't have been with someone who was that much of a c0ck to begin with.

I find it offensive but DV8 is right that there are some women who wouldn't care.

 

[Majik1387]

Here's how I see the whole respect about sex thing. I don't think it's anyone else's business besides who is involved because I do think it's disrespectful to **** and tell. But if you were to say anything, and most people find they have to, just say that you had sex; Don't go in depth or give details about what you did.

 

[Master Chief]

lol. I think I'm really old fashioned too when I hear my friends calling their girlfriends b**ches or whatnot and find that really derogatory. Just never made sense to me and I don't think it ever will.

But yea, I ain't in a relationship or getting laid left and right and I think it's because of this respect mentality + severe psychological/emotional problems.

 

[hammy]

See I thought it was TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL, when for some reason i sit here at 22, and my personality seems to be that of a guy who respect women much like on those leave it to beaver shows. I dont get it, really. I dont get why a guy would be so prasising of say he Fkd some chick and said go find her. To prove it. I mean how messed up is the guy saying it, let alone the girl for wanting to say she did it. Theres some mental issues with the girl if she can openly be like that. Much like you said the whole stripper deal. I hear my brother now 18 go everytime we go to a concert lets go to the strip club, nothing wrong with it. I am like its me I dont believe in it. I believe in respect to a woman.
Thanks for your input.

Exactly, the guy's an idiot. So is she. There are a lot of people like that out there. I wouldn't even bother arguing with him, if I were you.

 

[oakzap425]

I could care less, because I'd be giving him the wtf face, only because I'd be confused about what the hell he was talking about.

 

[teh Puffy]

lol. I think I'm really old fashioned too when I hear my friends calling their girlfriends b**ches or whatnot and find that really derogatory. Just never made sense to me and I don't think it ever will.

But yea, I ain't in a relationship or getting laid left and right and I think it's because of this respect mentality + severe psychological/emotional problems.

See even the words Getting Laid to me is disrespectful, cause it shouldnt be something casually used. But I understand you. Me I got the severe phychological and emotional problems. I dont even wish to be in relationship, until i get those worked out. ITs a long way out i believe and its weird to say that @ 22, but its the truth. It wouldnt be fair to carry an illness like depression while in a relationship.

 

[Master Chief]

FOr TotaLLy man. lol. Ultimately I know I'm gonna die alone and it's gonna be cool.

 

[teh Puffy]

FOr TotaLLy man. lol. Ultimately I know I'm gonna die alone and it's gonna be cool.

Totally feel the same way, and not because I dont get out and talk to people, but because my beliefs are totally different from others. Like theres no one out there believes in Family Values, or safe keeping of families, it has to disrespect one another until families are fighting and broken up.

I sit here and know I could be a great dude for a woman cause I love to do the things most guys want women to do . Cook Clean take care of kids. I love all that and do it regulary, but i know until my health is better I am alone til then. :gray:

 

[hammy]

Totally feel the same way, and not because I dont get out and talk to people, but because my beliefs are totally different from others. Like theres no one out there believes in Family Values, or safe keeping of families, it has to disrespect one another until families are fighting and broken up.

It's true that we hear a lot about dysfunctional families, but there are some really great, very healthy families out there, too. You may have to look harder to find them, but they're out there.

 

[teh Puffy]

It's true that we hear a lot about dysfunctional families, but there are some really great, very healthy families out there, too. You may have to look harder to find them, but they're out there.

Oh yeah we dont hear about The Kents, we hear about the LUTHORS all the time.


"just cause we share the same blood dont mean were family clark!" its a favorite line of mine.

 

[Abaddon]

eh, I feel the same way. But I'm never been above calling some female friends ****s and b**ches.

 

[teh Puffy]

eh, I feel the same way. But I'm never been above calling some female friends ****s and b**ches.

Yeah I cant even tell some lady friends there making the wrong choice in wanting to date a certain guy.

 

[Abaddon]

what's stopping you?

 

[teh Puffy]

what's stopping you?

Dont know, just shes my age of 22, she turns 23 before me. But shes always been into the older male.

Like the guy she wants now is 53, and married, but she cant do nothing cause hes married. She isnt a easy either. Far from it. If a guy thinks hes going to score there out of her life with a snap of a finger.

I think its cause I want to say, shes looking for a father figure more than a dating male. And in being so much older it just seems to fit like a glove. But I dont know its one of those ones you get locked out on when trying to say it.

 

[Abaddon]

she never asks for your opinion about her gross relationships?

 

[Anguissette1979]

Dont know, just shes my age of 22, she turns 23 before me. But shes always been into the older male.

Like the guy she wants now is 53, and married, but she cant do nothing cause hes married.

Eew.