Social Life: need/want/ehhh... nah

[AndThePickles]

In all honesty, I am more comfortable in situations with fewer people. Smaller groups of friends creates a more intimate atmosphere, adding to good conversation and overall a better time, IMO. Even if that small group of people is in a crowded location, as in a bar or someplace nice like a jazz club. I am definitely not up to going to the dance clubs anymore, too much noise, too many fights and my eardrums aren't as young as they used to be.


... I haven't read a "good book" in quite a while.

Let me know what genres you like, and I will recommend tons of books to you.

 

[knowsbleed]

If you tell me what it means, I will do it.

i was looking for you earlier, i wanted to see if you wanted to sponsor an event with me...

CC and Bamfer present: SHH Skype
(insert better name here^)

basically just schedule a day, and have an "organized" skype chat

Let me know what genres you like, and I will recommend tons of books to you.

I like many genres but I favor a good horror book. Thrillers are good too.


I find that I spend way too much time on the internet when I'm by myself. I don't even know where the hours go sometimes... but I'm studying for a promotion so in my alone time, I have been devoting hours to prepare for this promotion test.

Darthphere said I am gone for months at a time from this place... that's not true. Maybe a few days or a week at a time. Those times I'm away from the Hype/internet are very busy times in my life. Socially, work-wise, or a combination of both. But I'm around... I'm always around[/stalkersuperman].

Unlike a former mod/co-deathmatch host. *ahem*BELLA*/ahem*

 

[Eggyman]

SHHkype?

 

[knowsbleed]

Sean Connery?

 

[Eggyman]

Sean Connery?

Yesh.

I want to say it when I'm drunk. I'll try it later.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

I usually find myself out a decent number of days. Usually see my friends on Saturday night, during marathon training will run with a group 1-3 times/week, added to that going out/hanging out with my girlfriend. I usually only have 2-3 nights/week where I get alone time, but feels great to be active and not just stuck at home watching crap TV or playing video games every day.

 

[Paroxysm]

I usually find myself out a decent number of days. Usually see my friends on Saturday night, during marathon training will run with a group 1-3 times/week, added to that going out/hanging out with my girlfriend. I usually only have 2-3 nights/week where I get alone time, but feels great to be active and not just stuck at home watching crap TV or playing video games every day.

Oh it does feel great. I went for a 2k jog this morning, cold but very refreshing.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

It's ok, just get really lonely! And even though Spoons and I have had to be long distance since we both graduated college, I still miss him all the time. I'm a super sociable person, and this is by far the least social activity I've had in my life. Even when I was young and awkward socially, I still had a best friend to always hang out with lol. It's so frustrating that for some reason, everyone close by who isn't single seems to be incapable of hanging out with anyone who isn't their sig other. Lame-o

Sorry for being late in replying but, have you two ever made plans in moving in together? Or does your family live there and you don't want to move away from them? (vise versa for Spoons). I'm assuming you two have been together for a while.

 

[AndThePickles]

Sorry for being late in replying but, have you two ever made plans in moving in together? Or does your family live there and you don't want to move away from them? (vise versa for Spoons). I'm assuming you two have been together for a while.

We've wanted to move in together for ages. We've been together for almost 5 years. I'd love to move away, but it's really difficult to get work in the state that he lives in. While he enjoys living with his family, I hate my home situation. He has a very good job there. I wish he'd get a better one in the state where I live Another issue is my not being able to afford to move out, but I will hopefully be getting a much better position soon...I find out next week

If it wasn't for the bad timing of graduating from college when the job market is crap for new graduates, I'm sure we would have had a place together a long time ago.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

The first married Hype couple?

 

[PyroChamber]

I'm with Nell and knowsbleed. I work customer service and by the end of the night, I'm done with people. I go right to my computer and check my e-mail, check the Hype and youtube. I chat briefly with my father but thats about it. I dont even want to be bothered by the cat.

College was horrible for me because people were always around and being obnoxious.

I'm with all three of you, particularly the work part. My job usually starts from 4 - 5pm to 12:30am five days out of the week so on my days off I'm completely exhausted and don't even want to deal with anything or anyone outside my apartment door.

As far as a social life goes, I've pretty much been a bit of a loner since the age of 10...and I'm 26. I mean I've got my share of friends but we are all at different places now and I don't even get to talk to them unless it's through Facebook; and sure I've thought about having new friends and would love to have a girlfriend, but as odd as it sounds I'm just not the type who can just up and talk to a complete stranger.

My co-workers think that it's odd for someone my age to be this way, but hey that's just how I roll. So I pretty much cherish the fact that I can do whatever I want and not have to deal with the b.s. you get when you're around others.

 

[VenomVsSpidey]

although I like being around my friends, I like being Isolated / a loner the most. Sometimes It gives me time to think among other things.

 

[The Squirrel]

It's something I want, but don't have enough of. Mostly because I seem to always get stuck with night shifts at whatever job I have.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Ha, asking this question here?

 

[AndThePickles]

Ha, asking this question here?

Hey, people here do things sometimes! Like, you know, leave their room to shower and such.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

Ha, asking this question here?

>implying the typical nerd stereotype.

>IT'S THE FINAL COUNT DOWN.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Not just nerd, I know lots of social nerds. There are just some weirdos runnin around this place. People I'm happy prefer to be alone cuz I don't want 'em out and about with the rest of us.

 

[Aesop Rocks]

lol!

 

[BillyZaned]

Hey, people here do things sometimes! Like, you know, leave their room to shower and such.

reminds me of Cartman in south park, playing world of warcraft...


MOM, TOLIET!!!

 

[Boom]

I'm the kind of person that prefers having a small, tight-knit group of friends as opposed to a wide array of buddies. That's why I go to a relatively small private college as opposed to a huge school like OSU. I just couldn't survive that social atmosphere.

I'd take three close friends over 100 "friends" any day.

 

[knowsbleed]

Not just nerd, I know lots of social nerds. There are just some weirdos runnin around this place. People I'm happy prefer to be alone cuz I don't want 'em out and about with the rest of us.

 

[Paroxysm]

I'm the kind of person that prefers having a small, tight-knit group of friends as opposed to a wide array of buddies. That's why I go to a relatively small private college as opposed to a huge school like OSU. I just couldn't survive that social atmosphere.

I'd take three close friends over 100 "friends" any day.

Oh definitely, everyone needs a "crew" of trusted friends. I have my close group of friends but I also know a lot of other people too and if i'm invited to go do something by one of them and it's worth my while, i'll usually go.

 

[knowsbleed]

Oh definitely, everyone needs a "crew" of trusted friends. I have my close group of friends but I also know a lot of other people too and if i'm invited to go do something by one of them and it's worth my while, i'll usually go.

In other words, you are a social ****e butterfly.

 

[Paroxysm]

I guess so, though I prefer the term "Social ****terfly".

 

[Hobgoblin]

I'm with all three of you, particularly the work part. My job usually starts from 4 - 5pm to 12:30am five days out of the week so on my days off I'm completely exhausted and don't even want to deal with anything or anyone outside my apartment door.

As far as a social life goes, I've pretty much been a bit of a loner since the age of 10...and I'm 26. I mean I've got my share of friends but we are all at different places now and I don't even get to talk to them unless it's through Facebook; and sure I've thought about having new friends and would love to have a girlfriend, but as odd as it sounds I'm just not the type who can just up and talk to a complete stranger.

My co-workers think that it's odd for someone my age to be this way, but hey that's just how I roll. So I pretty much cherish the fact that I can do whatever I want and not have to deal with the b.s. you get when you're around others.

Get the hell out of my head!