Don't wear shoes at home indoors, but usually wear slippers or sandals depending on the time of year. It's too uncomfortable to wear shoes and too dirty. I don't wear jeans indoors either but usually sweat pants, as jeans are far too stiff and not comfy at all.
The big question though is whether you wear shoes in someone else's home if you go there for a party. If it's a small dinner or gathering, I sometimes see the host telling people to remove their shoes, but if it's a big house party I have NEVER seen people taking them off or the host even asking them to do that, and I've been to a lot of house parties. So you can get hundreds of people walking around in a house with their shoes on, going in your bathroom, toilet and everywhere else.