Is the world too obsessed with sex?

[Eggyman]

Far too many things to lol at on this page. Wilhelm, Jag, and Turtlefocker

 

[Gilpesh]

You're like a ******ed 12 year old who wants to justify the fact that no girl has ever been interested in them.

Ta-da

talk to a girl that works at borders, i actually WENT UP to her while she was reafing a book (off hours i guess). introduced myself, she knows me from when i get coffee, i happen to get her name last time, and we talked for maybe close to an hour, then she got up and said it was close to 9 and wanted to head home and get somethin to eat. i got up with her and walked her out to her car almost, then went my way. thing is, she was kinda stiff the whole time. she didnt mention a BF, which was good, but when she was sitting in the chair, she wasnt faceing me, she was faceing kinda to the side the oppisite way. we only talked about little stupid things, jobs, movies, etc. but nothing big. to tell you the truth, she didnt seem interested. this was a first for me, cuz every girl i ever talk to seems like they would be interested (IF they didnt already have a BF) but this girl did not. im not bad looking i dont think, so i can see why girls would show interest, but this one didnt even mention a BF and still seemed a little stand offish. i wasnt bein a creepy or anything, i was just bein normal nice guy. however, now that i think about it, she might, MIGHT have been lesbian. im not sure at all, but now that i think about it she kinda had that way about her, i dont know if its true but i told someone i know a similiar thing and they said she could have possibly been gay, and i thought about it and i can kinda see it now, maybe? i dunno, but hell i gave it the best try i could. im certainly proud of myself. guys out there, dont be afraid! if you see a chance, take it! i did, and if this girl wasnt so weird (or possibly gay) i would habve probably had her. she didnt tell me she was, but thats what i got from it.

 

[turtlefocker]

Ta-da

like a

..and people have a tendency to embellish on the internet,

 

[CorpusBlack]

Sorry, but every time I read this it just makes me roll around in hysterics.

talk to a girl that works at borders, i actually WENT UP to her while she was reafing a book (off hours i guess). introduced myself, she knows me from when i get coffee, i happen to get her name last time, and we talked for maybe close to an hour, then she got up and said it was close to 9 and wanted to head home and get somethin to eat. i got up with her and walked her out to her car almost, then went my way. thing is, she was kinda stiff the whole time. she didnt mention a BF, which was good, but when she was sitting in the chair, she wasnt faceing me, she was faceing kinda to the side the oppisite way. we only talked about little stupid things, jobs, movies, etc. but nothing big. to tell you the truth, she didnt seem interested. this was a first for me, cuz every girl i ever talk to seems like they would be interested (IF they didnt already have a BF) but this girl did not. im not bad looking i dont think, so i can see why girls would show interest, but this one didnt even mention a BF and still seemed a little stand offish. i wasnt bein a creepy or anything, i was just bein normal nice guy. however, now that i think about it, she might, MIGHT have been lesbian. im not sure at all, but now that i think about it she kinda had that way about her, i dont know if its true but i told someone i know a similiar thing and they said she could have possibly been gay, and i thought about it and i can kinda see it now, maybe? i dunno, but hell i gave it the best try i could. im certainly proud of myself. guys out there, dont be afraid! if you see a chance, take it! i did, and if this girl wasnt so weird (or possibly gay) i would habve probably had her. she didnt tell me she was, but thats what i got from it.

I mean, WTF?

 

[Kmack]

Sex and a lot of other things.

 

[SuBe]

Sorry, but every time I read this it just makes me roll around in hysterics.



I mean, WTF?

I'm sure it wasn't him, I bet she was one of those Homosexual Lesbians he was talking about.

 

[CorpusBlack]

I'm sure it wasn't him, I bet she was one of those Homosexual Lesbians he was talking about.

Yes because every girl he talks to is interested in him. So it must be the lesbian theory indeed.

 

[SuBe]

Yes because every girl he talks to is interested in him. So it must be the lesbian theory indeed.

I know that is true for me too.

 

[CorpusBlack]

I know that is true for me too.

Damn, you guys are lucky.

 

[The Guard]

I don't think society is any more obsessed with sex than it is with things like money, power, prestige, etc.

1. A common response to a picture of an attractive women is "IWHI" or "She is hot".

So what? That's slang for "What an attractive woman". You think saying "My she's a beautiful woman" means anything less? At it's heart, it means "She's desirable".

Now, yes, society has gotten more open about expressing their desires.

2. Movies and TV programs are full of sexual themes, references, and dialog.

They're also full of other kinds of themes, references and dialogue.

3. Ever watch Cops? Look at all of their prostitution stings.

Watch the news. You'd think there WERE no crimes but murder, sex and drugs. The media presents the most "Taboo" and shocking crimes they can, because those things sell to the public.

4. Besides male and female attraction, we have bisexuals, homosexuals, lesbians, and pedophiles.

And there are probably MILLIONS of other hobbies in this world, with an almost limitless number of possibilities there. So what if "sex" has a few subcategories. So does everything else.

5. 97/90 percent of males and females, respectively, report of *********ing.

And eating foods they don't need to eat to survive. And engaging in pleasurable activities like sports of videogaming. *********ion is just one more activity.

6. You hear reports all the time of rape, sexual abuse, and sexual assault.

Again, the media portrays what sells. This tends to be what shocks people, not what's most common.

7. There are ads, even on SSH, on how to increase your sexual attraction.

There are ads for statues, too.

8. For decades, the main subject in most songs is about love and making love.

"Love" is arguably the most powerful and treasured human emotion. And "making love" doesn't neccessarily mean "sex". It used to have another meaning, akin to "courting" and "falling in love".

What do I think overall? I think people have different obsessions/desires. The desire to reproduce and to feel desired is a very strong drive in most human beings.

I think sex is a part of life, like work or hobbies, and I think people place such a high importance on it because that's just how society is. Somewhere along the line some idiot decided that sex has to be done a certain way, and someone else decided that they were clever and special for "deviating" from that way. We place far too much importance and weight to sexual interactions in our society, and we pay the price for it in a lot of ways.

 

[The Lizard]

This thread has got me catching groin feelings.

 

[SuBe]

This thread has got me catching groin feelings.

They make creams for that.

 

[Arkady Rossovich]

Not the world...but America. It has been like that since the Baby Boomers ruined America in the 1960's and 1970's.

 

[jaguarr]

Not the world...but America. It has been like that since the Baby Boomers ruined America in the 1960's and 1970's.

WTF are you talking about? The '60's and 70's were all about free love and hedonistic sex in all it's glory. It's probably the one time in American history that people WERE free and open about sexuality in this country. America's sexual hangups come from our Puritanical and religious roots that were brought here by our forefathers who were from EUROPE. They were sexually repressed and they ingrained it into our culture and it's had lasting effects to this day.

jag

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Groin feelings are DORK SIDED!

 

[chaseter]

The answer is N(.)

 

[Fran]

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[SuBe]

( . )( . )

 

[CorpusBlack]

 

[Bubonic]

I think North America is actually too uptight about sexuality.
It much rather have depictions of brutal slaughter then sensual sex.

 

[SuBe]

I think North America is actually too uptight about sexuality.
It much rather have depictions of brutal slaughter then sensual sex.

That's the one of the biggest problems with this country, actually with this culture. We dignify, and Glorify violence, but ban love.


*i just wanna see boobs*

 

[AndThePickles]

Yes! However, I don't agree that its main purpose is reproduction as I'm not having kids. I enjoy a good cheek bustin for recreation myself

Recreational bustin of cheeks FTW

 

[Mr Sparkle]

I think -- and this is just my opinion -- that when we trivialize the act of sex, it makes it harder for someone to pair bond down the road. Somone who flits from one one night stand to the next will probably have a much harder time keeping a relationship solid than someone who waits. The sex will mean more to the one who waited, I think, because it is less common and therefore more treasured. He might give more of himself than the other guy. Just my thoughts.

ok, but also, just my thoughts.
why would the sex mean more to the one who waited? I never understand that line of reasoning? " less common and therefore more treasured" ? I guess she/he also can't engage in stimulating conversation with members of the opossite sex, because then, talks with her/his partner will become " common" .
and why would frequency define how much one gives of oneself?
it's just weird if you ask me.
one question though. why would someone that engages in casual sex have a hard time keeing a relationship " solid" ?

 

[Gilpesh]

I'm still not tired of posting this:

talk to a girl that works at borders, i actually WENT UP to her while she was reafing a book (off hours i guess). introduced myself, she knows me from when i get coffee, i happen to get her name last time, and we talked for maybe close to an hour, then she got up and said it was close to 9 and wanted to head home and get somethin to eat. i got up with her and walked her out to her car almost, then went my way. thing is, she was kinda stiff the whole time. she didnt mention a BF, which was good, but when she was sitting in the chair, she wasnt faceing me, she was faceing kinda to the side the oppisite way. we only talked about little stupid things, jobs, movies, etc. but nothing big. to tell you the truth, she didnt seem interested. this was a first for me, cuz every girl i ever talk to seems like they would be interested (IF they didnt already have a BF) but this girl did not. im not bad looking i dont think, so i can see why girls would show interest, but this one didnt even mention a BF and still seemed a little stand offish. i wasnt bein a creepy or anything, i was just bein normal nice guy. however, now that i think about it, she might, MIGHT have been lesbian. im not sure at all, but now that i think about it she kinda had that way about her, i dont know if its true but i told someone i know a similiar thing and they said she could have possibly been gay, and i thought about it and i can kinda see it now, maybe? i dunno, but hell i gave it the best try i could. im certainly proud of myself. guys out there, dont be afraid! if you see a chance, take it! i did, and if this girl wasnt so weird (or possibly gay) i would habve probably had her. she didnt tell me she was, but thats what i got from it.

 

[Zero_Vault]

Googleme94, why do you have to copy and paste someone's else post from another forum as a thread-starter?

Tell me this.

Also, tell me why you have no grammar.