Long distance relationships

[Caliber]

Well its me here with another problem seeking truth. So what do you think about long distance relationships? Do they work or they destined for failure? I'm in onright now and I'm having a moment of weakness.

 

[ookami]

call ya girl to hear her voice, I'd give way better advice but I'm way tired.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

impossible.
close thread.
34 years old.
speaking from experience.
ignore my words.
You'll see.

 

[Spider-X]

how long away are you from each other and for how long?

 

[Tangled Web]

Makes for good sex.

 

[Decay]

they work only if the two have strong feelings for each other.

 

[November Rain]

firstly, it depends on what your definition of long distance is.

secondly it depends on how long you are apart for.

thirdly, it depends on how realistic you both are about seeing other people and what not. IF you keep the relationship locked up tightly, it's more likely for stuff to occur, but if you keep in contact and hook up every once in a while and are still open to see others when you go back home, it does stand a chance of lasting throught he void of distance and time.

if you think she's worth it, more often than not, she probably isn't.

attempt the double bluff to say to chill things, if she really likes you, she'll say she is but actually won't, if she seems fine with it and moves on, best thing is that you do as well.

 

[Harlekin]

Just don't do this:
http://www.15framespersecond.com/

 

[Rambo, John J]

impossible.
close thread.
34 years old.
speaking from experience.
ignore my words.
You'll see.

Not impossible
Close Thread.
26 years old.
Speaking from experience.
Ignore his words.
You'll see.



Meh... could go either way caliber, it depends on how trusting the two of you are/ how much you love each other, how much effort you're prepared to put in etc...

 

[black_dust]

Never gonna work, one of you will end up ****ing someone else drunken in a car park

 

[Superman79]

I have little faith in long distance relationships. I have seen about 1 in 10 actually work. But hey, thats better than 0 in 10, so if you think it's worth it, then go for it...but I;d be wary. I speak from experience.

 

[Iceman]

Well its me here with another problem seeking truth. So what do you think about long distance relationships? Do they work or they destined for failure? I'm in onright now and I'm having a moment of weakness.

Most of the time no. I've been in one that lasted for a while but it was a waste of time really. It's not worth it unless you're already married (and then it's probably a good idea).

 

[terry78]

Depends, but usually one or the other begins to crack at not being able to have the other as often as they want. I was cool with mine back in the day, since I basically was only visiting her and vice versa for booty calls, but alas, I started to crave more.

 

[kane9321]

yes it works,(I"m proof to that) you gotta work at it,and you must trust the other party completly. I live in oakland(ca) she lived in texas, we were going together for 4yrs with me going to see her at least 2 weekends a month and she'd see me at least one weekend a month due to her work schedule. She moved from texas to cali ..and we've been enagaged ever since..gettin married sometime next yr.

 

[Batty for Bats!]

Not only will it not work out, but will you get from it?

 

[U.S War Machine]

I can say they don't last forever

 

[Erzengel]

impossible.
close thread.
34 years old.
speaking from experience.
ignore my words.
You'll see.

Yes unless

Someone is going to have to eventually move and you have to decide who's more willing to give up their entire life for that one person.

 

[Decay]

Not only will it not work out, but will you get from it?

hope, life experience, you become stronger and more patient.

 

[Ronny Shade]

I have a long-distance relationship with Dog Lips

 

[wolfsfang]

These days they probably last as long as any other relationships. It all depends on the people involved

 

[jaguarr]

It's difficult, but it can be done. My wife and I did the long distance thing for the better part of two years before we got married. We managed to find ways to be able to spend time together every couple of months or so, and video chat with our computers helped as well. It got easier after we got engaged and we started mapping out our wedding and sort of knew when she'd be moving to my city and into my (well, OUR) home. Not having a timeframe for when the long distance thing would end was tough and certainly could not have gone on indefinitely, but if you approach it right, communicate well, and are both committed to making it work, it can be done. Find ways to get together often, though, as that does help a great deal.

jag

 

[Symbiote Hulk]

Well its me here with another problem seeking truth. So what do you think about long distance relationships? Do they work or they destined for failure? I'm in onright now and I'm having a moment of weakness.

There's a wanabee goth girl that used to be in our class that wants to marry some American she met off the Internet. I'm guessing that most internet daters are Internet predators since we never saw her again after last summer

 

[Decay]

You can meet really nice people on the Internet. I know a girl who met on the Internet. He was from Greenland if I remember right. He came to her and after 6 months they were married and now she lives in Greenland.

 

[devilgirl]

Mutant Circus and I are going on 2 years and still strong as ever.

It is'nt easy but it's damn worth it.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Not having the warm, tangible, sweaty body of the person you love in bed next to you is laaaaaaaaame.