Lounge of Justice - Part 90

well, nobody cares about asian people, especially in the states. there are kinda...there lol

lol this is very true.

we are perceived as perpetual foreigners here.

even tho my people been here since the 1820s.
been settled here for 200 years.
still told to go back to china by people who's ancestors probably arrived here after mine.
lol
 
lol this is very true.

we are perceived as perpetual foreigners here.

even tho my people been here since the 1820s.
been settled here for 200 years.
still told to go back to china by people who's ancestors probably arrived here after mine.
lol

Block out the noise, man. Telling someone they don't "belong" somewhere is not just insulting, but ignorant. And ignorant people usually don't get too far in life. Keep doing what you're doing. :cool:
 
Representation in media goes a long way imo. Like I feel there need to be more mainstream Asian stories that happen stateside. You get big movies like Crazy Rich Asians, but it takes all the action to Singapore. Not saying that's a bad thing, but I think if you had a similar blockbuster flick that centralized the story in the US then it would help in counteracting the "perpetual foreigner" narrative chintai mentioned.

Hope that makes sense.
 
Representation in media goes a long way imo. Like I feel there need to be more mainstream Asian stories that happen stateside. You get big movies like Crazy Rich Asians, but it takes all the action to Singapore. Not saying that's a bad thing, but I think if you had a similar blockbuster flick that centralized the story in the US then it would help in counteracting the "perpetual foreigner" narrative chintai mentioned.

Hope that makes sense.

totally agree.

and i get what kalvinellis says about blockin out all that noise. and on many levels, he’s right. gotta be zen bout some this stuff and pick your battles.

but other times, you just gotta punch some racists in the mouth. lol
you let one seemingly minor thing slide and they’ll take advantage and think they can get away with worse next time.
racists should be the ones living in fear, not the other way around.
 

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Umberto not taking the L on this one, follows up with an "ICYMI" post. Bold strategy Cotton, let's see how it works out.
 
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Block out the noise, man. Telling someone they don't "belong" somewhere is not just insulting, but ignorant. And ignorant people usually don't get too far in life. Keep doing what you're doing. :cool:

The thing is that most people are ignorant about such matters whether they realize it or not. And while this is a huge part of the problem, you can't fault someone for lack of awareness or knowledge. What you can try to do is appeal to their empathy by explaining how said actions are both harmful and hurtful. You can then take action to correct any perceived inaccuracies or even go so far as to enlighten them with additional info you deem pertinent to the subject in question.

Just make sure you yourself have a firm understanding of whatever it is you're hoping to inform or educate them about, and don't be too aggressive in your approach. In a lot of cases, you'll be met with resistance (defensive or deliberately obtuse behavior) because very few people like being told that they're wrong. But don't let that discourage you. Press on regardless if you're up for the task. Changing hearts and minds in one fell swoop is never easy. But you can at least take solace in knowing that you've removed an element of unknowing from the equation.

As a reasonably decent human being, once you know better; or at the very least, that you're making someone feel like **** with your invective and your misinformed assumptions, you'll want to do something about it. You'll make an effort to introspect. But when this doesn't happen, and people still continue to double-down, that's when you know that their issues go way deeper than ignorance.
 
The thing is that most people are ignorant about such matters whether they realize it or not. And while this is a huge part of the problem, you can't fault someone for lack of awareness or knowledge. What you can try to do is appeal to their empathy by explaining how said actions are both harmful and hurtful. You can then take action to correct any perceived inaccuracies or even go so far as to enlighten them with additional info you deem pertinent to the subject in question.

Just make sure you yourself have a firm understanding of whatever it is you're hoping to inform or educate them about, and don't be too aggressive in your approach. In a lot of cases, you'll be met with resistance (defensive or deliberately obtuse behavior) because very few people like being told that they're wrong. But don't let that discourage you. Press on regardless if you're up for the task. Changing hearts and minds in one fell swoop is never easy. But you can at least take solace in knowing that you've removed an element of unknowing from the equation.

As a reasonably decent human being, once you know better; or at the very least, that you're making someone feel like **** with your invective and your misinformed assumptions, you'll want to do something about it. You'll make an effort to introspect. But when this doesn't happen, and people still continue to double-down, that's when you know that their issues go way deeper than ignorance.

ideally, you want to approach things this way. and it's case by case basis though.

but there's already been some jerks who yelled at some residents in my area to go back to asia and threatened to shoot them.

you can't really appeal to their empathy at that point.
and they've been emboldened to threaten violence on their fellow citizens cuz we've been turning the other cheek and holding our heads down for too long.
 
ideally, you want to approach things this way. and it's case by case basis though.

but there's already been some jerks who yelled at some residents in my area to go back to asia and threatened to shoot them.

you can't really appeal to their empathy at that point.
and they've been emboldened to threaten violence on their fellow citizens cuz we've been turning the other cheek and holding our heads down for too long.

Yeah, some people you just can't reach. What you're describing here goes beyond ignorance imo, even with that being a part of it.
 
i tried to set an animated avatar once, but it did not work for me.
 
Yeah, some people you just can't reach. What you're describing here goes beyond ignorance imo, even with that being a part of it.

One thing I know, we are a product of our childhood. We carry forward what we've learned.

What I find fascinating, and have yet to come up with an answer for that, one which isn't spiritual, is why some gain enough self awareness to break free of conditioning and forge their own path.

Lke the old story: A father is an abusive alcoholic who very few people in town can tolerate. He has 2 sons. One also becomes an abusive alcoholic. The other becomes a beloved member of the community and is always there to help other people and he has a wonderful family. When the first son is asked why his life is the way it is, he responds, "What do you expect, look at my father." When the second son was asked why he turned out the way he did, he answered, "What do you expect, look at my father."
 

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