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I understand, but in this case it's not as easy for him to get out of this situation. He's bound and chained to some "characters" that are not very wholesome, charitable people.

if he's not trying to get out of the situation and away from those people, there isn't anything you can do.

instead of using such metaphoric language, how bout you tell us exactly what the deal is with him and these people. just the facts, maam*

* i can't remember what that's from
 
you know, if you stopped describing these situations like the some vague synopsis to bad romance novel, you might get some useful responses. details make all the difference man.

great minds think alike :highfive:

i didn't even see your post before posting mine, i had to go back a page :up:
 
you know, if you stopped describing these situations like the some vague synopsis to bad romance novel, you might get some useful responses. details make all the difference man.

That's not man, woman.

And this is the way I post them because this is the way they happen. I mean how much more detailed do I have to get? I can't help it if you failed reading comprehension in school but there's no other way I can get more specific than I already have. Do you want me to name names? Is that it? Well, I'm not doing that. Suffice it to say a guy I care about has gotten involved with shady characters (These are very dangerous, morally bankrupt people who don't give a crap about your personal safety hence why I have to keep my distance.) and I can't get him out of it because he decided to do so, deceived into being their pawn or not. That's how gangs work you know, they're vitriolic souls disguising themselves as friendly people. The painted dolls get the men all the time. I'm not sorry you don't go through these things in your day to day life like I do so you can't relate to anything that I'm saying. If you don't want to listen than don't respond to me. Living in a small town doesn't mean it doesn't have big city spilled over problems infesting it you know. I wish they'd all go back in the holes they crawled from and leave our oasis alone.

And screw you. I'm constantly worried that because of the tenseness of the atmosphere his safety and mine might be compromised because of these people and their faulty judgments.
 
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well, seeing as how I'm not the first one to have made this complaint I'd say it's hardly a deficiency in reading comprehension on my part. And I'm not calling you a man, I'm using man in the street sense...yo.
 
This isn't a relationship of the love kind though in the definition you're thinking of. I have feelings for him yes, but I can be nothing more than a friend because of the circumstances he's wrapped up in. I can't put myself at risk and I know he'd agree.

It doesn't have to be the love kind.
 
I'm sorry Jinouga, but I don't think it's constructive for you to post all this on here the way you do . You're not getting the constructive feedback you seem to be seeking.
 
In all seriousness Jin and not trying to be insulting, have you considered seeing a psychiatrist? That kind of one on one setting might be a better place to vent than an Internet forum.
 
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Hello. It's 1:08 and I'm drunk and revealing my misanthropic tendencies.

How are you?
 
Just go on living your apathetic "normal" lives then if you have nothing positive and encouraging to offer. You have no idea the immense pain and turmoil I go through every day. Try acting "normal" when you're constantly scared for your life and other people's lives as well. I dare you to go to a big city like Chicago or New York, get lost in the gang ridden war zones and piss off somebody by saying the things you say to me. Would you be so flippant about what's been going on in my life after you've been beaten or worse?
 
Just go on living your apathetic "normal" lives then if you have nothing positive and encouraging to offer. You have no idea the immense pain and turmoil I go through every day. Try acting "normal" when you're constantly scared for your life and other people's lives as well. I dare you to go to a big city like Chicago or New York, get lost in the gang ridden war zones and piss off somebody by saying the things you say to me. Would you be so flippant about what's been going on in my life after you've been beaten or worse?

been there, done that. i've been around, gangs, been shot at, etc so i understand that all to well.

is this an actual gang, or are you using the word to represent a group of people. if you fear for your life truly, you need to stay away from him and/or get police help. if you're not willing to do something to make yourself safer, that's going to fall on your shoulders and yours alone, i'm sorry.

as for insulting the other poster's reading comprehension, it wasn't necessary. i completely understood what you said, but you speak with so many metaphors, similes, allusions etc, that many a time, the point or the main parts of your story get lost in all the pretty language. be succinct, be frank and just tell us like it is. we don't need names, but just give us the ugly facts and save the pretty words for later, cuz they're not helping your story be effective nor are they helpful to those actually offering you advice.

yall :)
 
I reiterate....a one-on-one session with a psychiatrist would be far more constructive and appropriate than incessantly airing this on an internet forum.

Not calling your "crazy", or whatever. God knows I could do with talking to a good psychiatrist.
 
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