My life is falling apart!!

[Ultimate_Superman]

But if you read his post you read his post you can see that he has some issues and that if she left him we might never hear from JokerNick again.

 

[Erzengel]

*Stands behind door with an M-16*

See what my love for you makes me do?

 

[DBella]

With cell phones out, isn't finding someone kinda easy?

*dials number*

Hey sweetie, where you at?
Oh just hanging out with some friends shooting darts.
Okay cool, what time will you be home.
Around 1.
Thats fine. I'll see you later.

Maybe he doesn't know how to dial?

 

[Ultimate_Superman]

See what my love for you makes me do?

You should use your stalker pic.

 

[DBella]

See what my love for you makes me do?

That pants look kinda tight on you so be careful with the kick to the door coz you might... uhh... rip the pants.

 

[Erzengel]

Maybe he doesn't know how to dial?

He's got issues and he is seeking help but seriously, who doesn't have a cell phone nowadays? This could have all been solved with a call instead of blind rage and embarassment.

 

[Erzengel]

You should use your stalker pic.

You do not force the Stalker Pic, you let it appear.

 

[TKing]

But perhaps in his blinding rage and temper he forgot where he put his cell phone?

 

[Ultimate_Superman]

I just think his GF should one day while she knows he is out is just have movers come and move all her stuff out and never look back. But then I see Joker pulling something like standing outside where she is staying cutting himself saying "See what your making me do" or banging his head on her door.

 

[Erzengel]

Bad boys
Whatcha want, watcha want
Whatcha gonna do
When Sheriff John Brown come for you
Tell me
Whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do
Yeaheah

 

[J. J. Jameson]

Dude, if I was in his girlfriends position, i'd be out of that relationship faster than you could say "love".

 

[Colossal Spoons]

This post make me think you're an overcontrolling @$$. Oh no, she stayed out until midnight on a Thursday night and didn't tell you what bar she was at (maybe they went to more than one). Then the next day you drive drunk and angry to where she works to yell at her about it?!?! Finally you couldn't wait more than 2 minutes for her to finish work. You're a dick and she should totally leave you because this sounds like a very unhealthy relationship for her to be in. Especially considering that you also said you've been belittling and making fun of her and her family.

Um....that part was pretty messed up on her part.

 

[Hades]

He's got issues and he is seeking help but seriously, who doesn't have a cell phone nowadays? This could have all been solved with a call instead of blind rage and embarassment.

I don't have a cell phone....

 

[Darthphere]

I don't have a cell phone....

Youre odd, and I love you for it.

 

[Lackey]

just think, if he would've *****-slapped her, then none of this would've happened.

learn to control your womens

 

[Fried Gold]

LOL@This thread.

 

[Holly Goodhead]

I don't have a cell phone....

What would you need a cell phone for in the first place? You have no friends.

 

[Hades]

What would you need a cell phone for in the first place? You have no friends.

It doesn't seem to stop most people from getting them

Besides, I know a few people who don't have them. Actually quite a few, but they're dirtbags like me.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Hades
I don't have a cell phone....


Youre odd, and I love you for it.

:tear:

Darthshpere, will thee

 

[Lackey]

:tear:

Darthshpere, will thee

don't buy Darthphere that

why buy the cow when you get the milk for free

 

[sinewave]

Okay, I am currently engaged, as many of you know… I love my girl to death, she is everything to me, she is probably the only reason I am alive and well today (whole other story)…… this last Friday was almost the end of me… I was getting mad, because she just finished up with school (took summer classes to finish early), and she stayed out this past Thursday after work, to just hang with some co-workers (play darts), I was mad because she never told me where she was (we live together BTW), well she got home around midnight, which is really late for her, she told me where she was, but I was still mad…. Well Friday came, I never gave her a kiss or hug goodbye, I was still mad at her, later that day I messaged her “so how was “playing’” darts, I’m not an idiot BTW”… well that Friday night came, she was working again (waitressing), I went out with my friends, I got home at about 1am, and she wasn’t home, so I got furious (I was drinking to much that night too) and drove down to her work, where I ordered her outside, and yelled at her like no other, I was in her face… some of her co-workers came out, and I started yelling at them…. Katie pleaded with me to calm down, and that she was just about done, and was going to come home, she asked me to wait with her…..I said I would wait by her car… well I waited about 2 minutes, then grabbed a piece of paper and wrote “I’m done with you, don’t expect to see me ever again”… well needless to say, she never came home that night….. when I realized she wasn’t coming home at around 4am, I freaked out (amazing what you realize when you sober up)… I tried calling her over and over again… I was literally breaking apart… she only messaged me once, saying she was fine, and that she would talk to me tomorrow night when she got home from work…

Well, that Saturday, I was a wreck, I haven’t cried in about 10 years, but I was breaking down like no other that day….. I couldn’t eat anything, I felt like puking… I finally got her to message me again, she said that she still loved me, but she’s need some time right now to figure things out……. Well, after reading that, I knew that she was concerned about me, and if I really did love her… so I went out, and bought her a big thing of flowers, and wrote a short note saying that I was so sorry, and that I love her more then anything…. I then had my friend drop them off at her work that night….. well, she finally did come home that night, and we talked, cried, but I could sense that what I did, caused more then a flesh wound to her, I hurt her deep inside…… just knowing that is killing me right now… I still haven’t ate anything… it’s been 2.5 days since my last meal….

I told her yesterday, that I am going to go back to counseling, and that I want her to come along… that I want to change (my temper on Friday was only the tip of the ice-berg. I have belittled her so much in the past, made fun of her meanly, ripped on her family, I have been tearing at her insides for awhile now),

I told her that she makes me want to be a better person… I told her, from now on, I will treat her like I first did when we dated, like a princess…. This past weekend has been so hard on me, harder then my accident a few months ago, harder then anything….. but I also think this weekend was the best thing for us… I finally realized what I have become.. that I have been nothing but a superb jack-@ss to her… but the thing is, I can still tell she his hurt deep inside… do you think her wounds will heal overtime… is there something I can do to reassure her that I am going to change…..???

i went through a similar scenario with my wife last year and we actually separated for a couple of months, which was total hell. i ended up getting counseling and she came with me once and that seemed to help a lot. sometimes it's easy to overreact to things if you aren't thinking clearly, especially when alcohol is involved. if you've got a temper the best thing to do when something upsets you is to take a deep breath and count to ten before responding. it's also a good idea to look at what's causing you to react that way and try to disect the feelings you're having. a lot of the time they're a result of the way you interpret a situation, rather than the way it really is. you've got to control your temper or you're going to have a lot of trouble in life and could end up ruining some very good relationships. good luck.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

^Solid advice

 

[The Shape]

Life's hard.
Get a helmet.





[It amazes me how many times I can use that phrase in context.]

 

[user123456789]

Okay, I am currently engaged, as many of you know… I love my girl to death, she is everything to me, she is probably the only reason I am alive and well today (whole other story)…… this last Friday was almost the end of me… I was getting mad, because she just finished up with school (took summer classes to finish early), and she stayed out this past Thursday after work, to just hang with some co-workers (play darts), I was mad because she never told me where she was (we live together BTW), well she got home around midnight, which is really late for her, she told me where she was, but I was still mad…. Well Friday came, I never gave her a kiss or hug goodbye, I was still mad at her, later that day I messaged her “so how was “playing’” darts, I’m not an idiot BTW”… well that Friday night came, she was working again (waitressing), I went out with my friends, I got home at about 1am, and she wasn’t home, so I got furious (I was drinking to much that night too) and drove down to her work, where I ordered her outside, and yelled at her like no other, I was in her face… some of her co-workers came out, and I started yelling at them…. Katie pleaded with me to calm down, and that she was just about done, and was going to come home, she asked me to wait with her…..I said I would wait by her car… well I waited about 2 minutes, then grabbed a piece of paper and wrote “I’m done with you, don’t expect to see me ever again”… well needless to say, she never came home that night….. when I realized she wasn’t coming home at around 4am, I freaked out (amazing what you realize when you sober up)… I tried calling her over and over again… I was literally breaking apart… she only messaged me once, saying she was fine, and that she would talk to me tomorrow night when she got home from work…

Well, that Saturday, I was a wreck, I haven’t cried in about 10 years, but I was breaking down like no other that day….. I couldn’t eat anything, I felt like puking… I finally got her to message me again, she said that she still loved me, but she’s need some time right now to figure things out……. Well, after reading that, I knew that she was concerned about me, and if I really did love her… so I went out, and bought her a big thing of flowers, and wrote a short note saying that I was so sorry, and that I love her more then anything…. I then had my friend drop them off at her work that night….. well, she finally did come home that night, and we talked, cried, but I could sense that what I did, caused more then a flesh wound to her, I hurt her deep inside…… just knowing that is killing me right now… I still haven’t ate anything… it’s been 2.5 days since my last meal….

I told her yesterday, that I am going to go back to counseling, and that I want her to come along… that I want to change (my temper on Friday was only the tip of the ice-berg. I have belittled her so much in the past, made fun of her meanly, ripped on her family, I have been tearing at her insides for awhile now),

I told her that she makes me want to be a better person… I told her, from now on, I will treat her like I first did when we dated, like a princess…. This past weekend has been so hard on me, harder then my accident a few months ago, harder then anything….. but I also think this weekend was the best thing for us… I finally realized what I have become.. that I have been nothing but a superb jack-@ss to her… but the thing is, I can still tell she his hurt deep inside… do you think her wounds will heal overtime… is there something I can do to reassure her that I am going to change…..???

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Um....that part was pretty messed up on her part.

Really? So she shouldn't be allowed to go anywhere without a detailed schedule so Jokernick will always know exactly where she is. I guess she probably should, he might have a few drinks and need to yell at her in front of coworkers or friends.

 

[Joker]

If you do break up, you can send her over this way...let her see what the REAL Joker is like