honestly. its very hard to act like that over here. most of the people here like being stuck in some chaotic circle of whining, whining, whining. Or when they debate, they like to twist their facts around. Or, when having threads dedicated to a certain character, they have threads simply showcasing the actor half naked, or talk about things that mostly dont relate to the character at all.
The Batboards are simply much better. They have debates that arent like the one here. Instead of making threads like this, they actually try to do things to make the board better. It was great having a sort of bat signal for the mod to come in and set things straight.
And then some of these people tell ME to grow up. Making up excuses, IMO, is nothing grown up people do. I wont say that whatever i said months ago was done out of anger when i'm still acting the same way months later, or made no effort what so ever to apologize for what i said. And that goes for supporters and pessimists alike.