I don't see him as an attention seeker, it's the lack of detail that's been rather annoying. Calling someone an abhorrent racist isn't the same as describing what specific kind of behavior he was being subjected to. Carpenter didn't make blanket statements, she gave a detailed description about her experiences with Whedon and other cast members corroborated that kind of behaviour from him. Hence, unlike with her, we have to keep guessing what exactly Ray must be referring to in his comments. His statements have been about "This guy was abusive, those 2 other guys enabled his behaviour, this 4th guy tried to protect one of them by throwing the others under the bus, and oh by the way one of those 2 guys is an abhorrent racist, too". Ray can express himself however he likes, he doesn't owe me or anybody else more details or explanations, but I need something more than what he's given so far to make up my mind about this whole thing. I believe that's why a lot less people are questioning Carpenter and others as compared to him. She went into specific detail, while he hasn't yet.