Your original post was easy to understand. The point seemed lost.
You were disappointed that Luke met with Leia via the Force, rather than in person. Except that Luke is a Jedi Master. Using the Force is sort of their thing. And not because its more convenient, its because its...sort of the whole point of the Jedi thats been explained to us in virtually every SW movie.
Luke and Leia have communicated via the Force since the Empire Strikes Back. Yes, Luke closed himself off from the Force due to his failure with Ben, but once he reached out again, he searched for Leia, and she reached right back. Again, its sort of their thing.
Luke told Rey at the start of the film that showing up with a laser sword and taking on the whole First Order wouldnt work. And he was right. His physical form would never have survived that assault. But the way he did appear gave him the opportunity to re-embrace his connection with the Force, make amends with Leia, take on the First Order with a laser sword, and give the Resistance their chance to escape.
Showing up in person wouldnt have done that. The Force allowed him to do what he did.
You may not have liked that, and thats fine (
and Im sure there will be 47 follow-up posts from the usual suspects as to why they didnt like it either). But still...using the Force is sort of their thing.