According to Slott what Aunt May was referring to was Otto seeing her in her wedding dress before the wedding.
Honestly I thought it was cheap, hack-writing, that did absolutely nothing to progress anything. What's the point of all of this? To reboot the character? Now we're still going to have the same supporting cast, same settings, etc. It's just kind of creepy now. It took the soul away from the story. And the whole thing at the end with Peter sending his memories Doc Ock's way, didn't Dr. Octopus already have all of Peter's memories? Wasn't that part of the whole mind-swap thing?
I thought it was generally understood that the costume and the super-powers aren't what make the character, that the secret-identity was far more important that the costume. Now they're trying to say that Doctor Octopus is Spider-Man? Pass.
Too many comic writers and incompetent editors are relying increasingly on cheap shock-value stunts to progress their stories as opposed to just creating good stories. I thought this was a complete bastardization of the character and pretty much a spit in the face to its fans.
Slott talked about how everyone at Marvel had planned their own stories and figured out that if they slowed things down or sped things up they could all happen around the same time. Leading to Marvel Now! And so when everyone pitched their plan he pitched his, a story he had been planning since last year or two years ago Or however long ago 600 came out. Just imagine it is years later and Peter is back to being Spider-Man and you can look back and see the story in full. Maybe it wont be so upsetting.
The point is to show how, now that Otto has taken over Peter/Spidey's life and memories how will he live? Now that he isn't trapped with the crumy life that Otto had, the bad childhood, the bad choices. Now that he has a good life, youth, friends, powers, and good memories and a track record of good choice, how will Otto live as Peter? Its a character study. What makes a villain? If a villain suddenly had the hero's life would he still be a villain? And what about a villain trying to be a hero?
It will be interesting to see how Ock as Spidey tries to be a hero.
This is just a story, it wont last forever. Eventually (even 3 years later maybe) Peter will return. This is just a fun character study.
Otto has all of Peter's memories and sees the choices Peter made, how will that effect Otto now? Will Otto go down the same path that led to him being Doc Ock Super criminal? Or will he be a hero? I say just sit back and enjoy the stories.
I do want some heroes to figure it out, like maybe Wolverine, Dr. Strange,