I (and I probably am not alone on this) don't even know if it means anything to ask, "Why are we here?" Many times, big questions that begin with 'why' tend to go on relentlessly with no end in sight.
Simplified Example:
"Why is X this way?"
Because Y is causing it.
"Why?"
Because that's the way it is.
"Why?"
Nobody knows, that's just the way it is.
"Why?..........."
This explanation is not enough for many, but I'm fine with not knowing.
Agreed completely.
Personally I don't do a lot of why asking, which is why I don't tend to think much about religion in a serious way at all, and never have.
I'm more concerned with the 'how' of things.
As I said in another thread, when I go into one of my 'how' obsessions, i actually scare myself. When you start delving into the science of 'how' we exist, and you try and trace it back to the very beginning you get to this vast nothingness that must have existed before the first thing existed... or at least that's where my logic lands me.
so how do you even know if you are making the right choices? What if takes you by the end of your life to come to that realization? Then it's too late. F*** i hate living
I don't think there is a 'right' choice.
If you strip away god, and the afterlife and morals then it's simply a case of living your life through an understanding of instinct combined with logic.
I mean, everything I do is because it feels right to me. But I think i could coherently defend that it IS right because my understanding of the world and of other people supports that.
Basically what i'm saying is that for every decision you should be asking yourself this:
Step 1 - How does making this decision make me feel? Do I feel guilty. Do I feel in danger. Do I feel dishonest? Do I feel forced or unnatural. Or do I feel excited, alive, happy, blissfull, honest, brave etc etc.
Not forgetting to include whether or not it will make you feel good in the future too.
Step 2 - Does it make logical sense to be doing this? Will I gain from it or loose from it? Can I actually pull it off? Is it realistic or is it an idea that is clouding my judgement because of the lure of it.
And I think, basically, if you have feelings and you have smarts, living your life like this will lead you to good places.