The Modern Woman

[AndThePickles]

I saw this as a joke in my friend's profile:

Wait for the guy who calls you a ***** instead of sweet,
Who fakes static when you call,
Who will lie in your bed and act like he's sleeping
so he doesn't have to listen to you, or
Who will stay awake and watch sports just so you fall asleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your ass, just to get a piece of ass,
Who doesn't acknowledge you in front of his friends;
One who constantly comes back when he realizes it's 3 AM and
he has nothing else and how lucky he is that you're desperate.
The one who turns to his friends and says,
"Yeah, I'm tapping that ass."


And I thought to myself, that's funny....but at the same time, I really do feel that a lot of girls are starting to have that kind of mindset. The younger generation of women just doesn't seem to have as much respect for themselves. It's almost like some girls are reverting back to before women could even vote....only they seem to like it! Thoughts?​

 

[Darthphere]

Independent Woman.

 

[Apollo]

American woman

 

[AndThePickles]

Perhaps a forum comprised mainly of men was not the best place to ask for thoughts lol

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

th..oughts?

 

[Sofa]

Does this mean you saw this in yourself?

 

[AndThePickles]

Does this mean you saw this in yourself?

Quite the opposite.

 

[THERETURN]

I agree! my ex is the kind of girl who is used to guys treating her like ****! i took her everywhere, bought her everything, did anything she wanted, she left me and is now with a guy who hits her n wo let her out his sight! younger girls don't have the respect for themselves that they should n that leads to them bein treated like **** by ****!

 

[AndThePickles]

I agree! my ex is the kind of girl who is used to guys treating her like ****! i took her everywhere, bought her everything, did anything she wanted, she left me and is now with a guy who hits her n wo let her out his sight! younger girls don't have the respect for themselves that they should n that leads to them bein treated like **** by ****!

Do you feel that it's because they're "used" to it, or that the respect was never instilled in them from the beginning?

 

[Erzengel]

She could just have had low self esteem and didn't think she deserved any better.

Or she likes guys who are a'holes because they are a challenge. They want to have to make an effort to try and change them. A lot of girls don't want it that easy. They don't want a guy who caters and pampers them.

Funny thing is:
Most men expect their women not to change but they do.
Most women expect their men to change and they don't.

 

[Danalys]

they don't believe the alternative is genuine, or anyone who is being nice must be deperate in their eyes. the bad boy used to be liked for the rebellion against social norms. who rebels now. everyones so used to bull**** that the absence of it is confused for bull****, if your bull****ting that you give a damn that wouldn't be a nice thing. being nice doesn't mean being a push over either.

 

[AndThePickles]

Funny thing is:
Most men expect their women not to change but they do.
Most women expect their men to change and they don't.

Lol so true.

 

[Darthphere]

She could just have had low self esteem and didn't think she deserved any better.

Or she likes guys who are a'holes because they are a challenge. They want to have to make an effort to try and change them. A lot of girls don't want it that easy. They don't want a guy who caters and pampers them.

Funny thing is:
Most men expect their women not to change but they do.
Most women expect their men to change and they don't.

You truly are wise.

 

[Erzengel]

You truly are wise.

I like the b'tches.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

suck deck betch

 

[November Rain]

I saw this as a joke in my friend's profile:

Wait for the guy who calls you a ***** instead of sweet,
Who fakes static when you call,
Who will lie in your bed and act like he's sleeping
so he doesn't have to listen to you, or
Who will stay awake and watch sports just so you fall asleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your ass, just to get a piece of ass,
Who doesn't acknowledge you in front of his friends;
One who constantly comes back when he realizes it's 3 AM and
he has nothing else and how lucky he is that you're desperate.
The one who turns to his friends and says,
"Yeah, I'm tapping that ass."


And I thought to myself, that's funny....but at the same time, I really do feel that a lot of girls are starting to have that kind of mindset. The younger generation of women just doesn't seem to have as much respect for themselves. It's almost like some girls are reverting back to before women could even vote....only they seem to like it! Thoughts?
​

turns out the modern woman is now packing heat

 

[Sensi]

I consider myself a lady and i enjoy being treated as such .I would never have anything to do with an abuser or bad boy type. I wonder if girls that do have no self respect .I believe how you present yourself is how you will be treated and if you feel you have no self worth then how can anyone else think you do; perhaps you feel you deserve the bad boy abuse. I think alot has to do with our society today and the way family life has changed. Values and worth should be instilled but if not ever presented they are hard to follow.Maybe today girls need role models and guidance but everyone is too busy to notice. If this is the case how sad. Being a lady is not something to be ashamed of but it is walking out of the mainstream today. I choose it and I think if others did they would find it much more rewarding.

 

[7Hells]

Women that want a serious relationship from "bad boys" are just looking for someone to confirm their low opinion of themselves.

If they arent looking for a relationship I see nothing wrong with having a guy with a nice ass on call.

 

[Erzengel]

Not always like I stated earlier, some women want a bad boy so they can have a challenge and try and change them to a respectable boyfriend. It doesn't always have to do with low self esteem.

 

[Ronny Shade]

My experience is that women all want nice guys who treat them like goddesses, know about art history, and drink coffe while wearing pea coats and scarfs.

 

[AndThePickles]

My experience is that women all want nice guys who treat them like goddesses, know about art history, and drink coffe while wearing pea coats and scarfs.

 

[terry78]

You can drink coffee and wear the pea coat, so long as you cheat on her once in a while, tell her what's she's going to eat when you go out, and smack her ass at random while walking down the street just to let others know this is mine right here. Basically, be a cultured a-hole.

 

[Immortalfire]

So, one has to treat a woman like garbage for them to like you? Wow, I guess I know what I've been doing wrong.


WHY

 

[terry78]

LOL, though you hear it all the time. "I broke up with him because he's TOO nice, he's boring."

"I want to break up with him because he treats me like ****, but I think he can change, and I would miss him so much."

Basically the girl claims she wants to break up with the bad boy, but can't bring herself to, but the nice guy she can dump immediately because he's, well...nice. I have actually suffered this in my early 20's, as I had a gf that got back with her ex who she would constantly tell me did unspeakable stuff to her, but he calls her out of the blue and suddenly she's out of my life. These biatches be crazy, I tells ya.

 

[Darren Daring]

I wish I was a woman in the time before they could vote. no worries, no responsiblities. JJst look pretty and hang out all day.