Honestly, depending on the discussion, I'll probably simply take the other side of the person I'm talking with.......its simply a habit. I do that in my classroom and sometimes it seeps into my conversations....
I'm very much a "but what if....." kind of person.....it makes for great discussion in my classroom....
BUT, sometimes pisses people off in everyday life, and here....simply depends on what thread I'm in....
I can definitely see where you and Hobo are coming from, but I have a very big, overwhelming disdain for generalizations, and that sometimes comes out stronger than anything else....
No apology making here, I just happen to converse with MANY liberals and conservatives on a daily basis, and NONE of them come across as anything but intelligent to me.....whether I agree or disagree with them.