The Dark Knight "Tim Burton's 'The Nightmare Before Lounging! TEOL Edition!'"

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i don't think my dad can though. his dream for the past 7 yrs or so has been to coach football, and he got a chance at my school the year after i started. so now that's all he relates to me with and he talks about it constantly, putting presure on me to get "larger" when he knows i already have image and confidence issues, and he uses me like a gofer. but i'm also about the only friend he's got in the town literaly

You ever thought about talking to your dad about this?
 
I've been invited to a lot of handicapped events, but the thing is... being with other disabled people makes me feel more... disabled. :csad: I've always had this problem.
as i've said before then, you're more than welcome to join us in san diago. not trying to presure you, but i'd be happy to see you there, i'll probably need someone to hang on the floor with as i'll most likely be going by myself anyhow
 
I've been invited to a lot of handicapped events, but the thing is... being with other disabled people makes me feel more... disabled. :csad: I've always had this problem.

Don't you realize that they probably feel the same way you do? They've been going through the same things you have?

But don't think that they only friends you can have in this world have to be handicapped. But also don't exclude them for your life. You don't like it when people do that to you, so why do it to others?
 
You ever thought about talking to your dad about this?
i have many a time, and he just doesn't get it. he's used to me being his kid and not a man. and he doesn't understand how big of a clock block he is when he wants to have luch every other day, or invites himself into my dorm or needs someone to hang out with so he doesn't go crazy. i've been tempted to say before no, either go eat by yourself or hang by yourself, but the guy has NO friends up there and i can't cast my dad out like that
 
i have many a time, and he just doesn't get it. he's used to me being his kid and not a man. and he doesn't understand how big of a clock block he is when he wants to have luch every other day, or invites himself into my dorm or needs someone to hang out with so he doesn't go crazy. i've been tempted to say before no, either go eat by yourself or hang by yourself, but the guy has NO friends up there and i can't cast my dad out like that

Well don't cut him completely out of your life. But you DO need to make the point to him that you are your own person and that you do need your own time and you do need to do your own thing. Reach a happy medium, if you will.
 
Well don't cut him completely out of your life. But you DO need to make the point to him that you are your own person and that you do need your own time and you do need to do your own thing. Reach a happy medium, if you will.
i'm trying, but it's wierd. i think part of it is that his dad took off when he was a kid, and he's so focused on not letting that happen that he's having a hard time with me doing my own thing
 
Thanks. I'm not an intense religious person, but my religion and my mom have kept my mind sane and grounded.

Your mom sounds like a cool cat. And no problem, I'm here if you ever need to talk man. :up:

I just think every generation gets worse and worse.

Sadly, this is true. But don't give up ALL hope on us, ron.

I don't know how I can go back to the old Ron, it's hard...

You just need to find what made you who you were back then. What made you that person. It's hard, and it took me 5 years to find who I was again, but I did it. And I'm alot happier because of it.
 
gotta love these afterschool special nights in the lounge...
 
ron seriously, i like ya bro. if you weren't on the other side of the country we'd hang all the time. you're making your way on to the "friends" list with me and that's a small list. you ever need to talk about anything, you give me a holler.
 
ron seriously, i like ya bro. if you weren't on the other side of the country we'd hang all the time. you're making your way on to the "friends" list with me and that's a small list. you ever need to talk about anything, you give me a holler.
That was just about the gayest thing I have ever read on here... today....

So anyway back to my story. There I was in skid row dressed up as Liza Minelle with no way of getting home. I knew then it was time to get on my knees and do more then pray.
 
That was just about the gayest thing I have ever read on here... today....

So anyway back to my story. There I was in skid row dressed up as Liza Minelle with no way of getting home. I knew then it was time to get on my knees and do more then pray.

TEOL
 
Thanks man.
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no worries. and i mean that:up:
 
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