I had this idea before, you guys tell me what you think...
Since I don't have very much experience asking girls out, approaching is what I really need to work on first. My main problem is I get too nervous, because I'm afraid of the rejection. I NEED to de-sensitize myself to rejection so I don't get worked up about approaching.
So I figure a way I could do that is by making a goal for myself to get REJECTED by at least ten girls within say a couple of weeks or something. Yes, actually TRY to get rejections. Think of it like having a splinter in your arm, it hurts, you want it out, and you have three options:
1)you can work it out slowly
2)you can do nothing about it
3) or you can jerk it out real quick and get it over with.
I figure if I try to rack up some rejections its like number 3, I'm getting the rejection thing over with so I can move to approaching without fear.