What makes a man attractive?

[Silvermoth]

To be attractive as a man you only need to acquire three nice things...

1. nice to animals
2. Nice smile
3. Nice bum

 

[Lantern Venom]

This question is mainly for the slightly older ladies (or older gay men) if you don't mind. Have you noticed significant changes in what you find attractive as you have aged?

 

[Pink Ranger]

This question is mainly for the slightly older ladies (or older gay men) if you don't mind. Have you noticed significant changes in what you find attractive as you have aged?

When I was young, all I wanted was those ripped seal-skinned model guys. Now that I'm older, all I want is a ripped seal-skinned model guy who knows when to stop yapping. Amirite, fellas? Don't get me started.

 

[InCali]

When I was young, all I wanted was those ripped seal-skinned model guys. Now that I'm older, all I want is a ripped seal-skinned model guy who knows when to stop yapping. Amirite, fellas? Don't get me started.

Glad you've matured and recognize how you've grown over the years.

 

[InCali]

I find Confidence and an alpha male attitude (without being an idiot), very attractive.

Also, men who know what they want and work towards that goal. Go getters.

Well, it looks like I M 4 U.....except for the confidence part. People don't generally recognize my confidence and drive because it's hidden by my quiet resolve and overall modesty.

 

[MissMarvelous]

Well, it looks like I M 4 U.....except for the confidence part. People don't generally recognize my confidence and drive because it's hidden by my quiet resolve and overall modesty.

But you're already taken and I'm not into poliamori!

Modesty you say?

 

[InCali]

But you're already taken and I'm not into poliamori!

Modesty you say?

Damn. I was afraid of that.

 

[MissMarvelous]

Damn. I was afraid of that.

Well, you tried!

 

[Flash525]

Would you two like a room?

 

[MissMarvelous]

Would you two like a room?

Oh, absolutely! You can join us too, we are missing one for a killer UNO card game. You in?

 

[Mandon Knight]

Pick up 4. Red (alert).

 

[Schlosser85]

Personally I find kind of “nerdy cute” guys more attractive than conventionally hunky gym rat-looking guys.

I’m also not ashamed to say I appreciate a man who fills out a tight pair of jeans, and if a cute man has no ass, or is wearing pants that make it impossible to tell, I’m disappointed.

 

[MissMarvelous]

I’m also not ashamed to say I appreciate a man who fills out a tight pair of jeans, and if a cute man has no ass, or is wearing pants that make it impossible to tell, I’m disappointed.

Amen.

 

[terry78]

How did I know what was happening in here before I even clicked?

 

[Silvermoth]

This question is mainly for the slightly older ladies (or older gay men) if you don't mind. Have you noticed significant changes in what you find attractive as you have aged?

absolutely, in high school I liked twinks because I was one but obviously as I get older I like guys closer to my own age

 

[InCali]

Personally I find kind of “nerdy cute” guys more attractive than conventionally hunky gym rat-looking guys.

I’m also not ashamed to say I appreciate a man who fills out a tight pair of jeans, and if a cute man has no ass, or is wearing pants that make it impossible to tell, I’m disappointed.

I get the nerdy cute. I've always had a thing for glasses; especially librarian looking ones. Not sure why. Maybe it's just because smart, interesting people are more fun than kinda dumb, "traditionally" hot ones? Unfortunately, I've known some pretty dumb people with glasses and it's very disappointing. That was the fun thing about going to UC Santa Cruz and doing a lot of Union work. The really stupid people were few and far between.

 

[InCali]

How did I know what was happening in here before I even clicked?

Because you noticed that @MissMarvelous87 was posting a lot in here and @Pink Ranger posted something? That should have been some sort of clue.

Sincerely,
Completely innocent In Cali.

 

[Schlosser85]

I get the nerdy cute. I've always had a thing for glasses; especially librarian looking ones. Not sure why. Maybe it's just because smart, interesting people are more fun than kinda dumb, "traditionally" hot ones?

I think that’s part of it.

 

[MissMarvelous]

I think that’s part of it.

The complete set would be something like: glasses and nice buns (?)

 

[Pink Ranger]

How did I know what was happening in here before I even clicked?

Because you noticed that @MissMarvelous87 was posting a lot in here and @Pink Ranger posted something? That should have been some sort of clue.

Sincerely,
Completely innocent In Cali.

@terry78 's car broke down in the wrong neighbourhood....

 

[InCali]

@terry78 's car broke down in the wrong neighbourhood....

The neighbors are a bit on the odd side, but I've been in worse places. I have a compressor, jack, wrenches, and screwdrivers if it's any help.

 

[MissMarvelous]

We may be odd but well-behaved!

 

[Schlosser85]

We may be odd but well-behaved!

I didn't agree to behave

 

[Erzengel]

Those former posters were the cat's meow.

 

[GunBlade]

Has what I consider respectable or noble traits (a kind heart, honest, forgiving, a backbone etc)
Cares for himself and his loved ones
Can do complex math problems without a calculator - so hawt!!