Women hating women

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I can honestly say that this hasn't been my personal experience. Sure, I've been in groups at work were guys would say "UGH! I hate such and such!!". But its different from women. And guys are more likely to confront the person they have an issue with. Plus, I can honestly say women do it more. I have three sisters, two of whom live at home, and one of their main subjects of conversation is *****ing about other women. "She said this, and this, and this, and she's ugly anyway!" blablabla. When men ***** about each other, its "man, that guy did nothing while I worked my ass off! I'm gonna have a word with him about it!". And it doesn't dominate all conversation. With women, it dominates conversation. Of course, not all women are like this. I've met several women who say they generally don't like hanging out with girls 'cause they're petty *****es, and men are much more laid back.

Maybe its where you live.

I maintain that it's a double standard and you just don't "hear" it as "cattiness" when men do it.
One of the "main topics of conversation" HERE has been what a loser/pervert/clueless judgemental reject YOU are.

And in my experience that has been exclusively Males talking about that. And yes, it persists while you're not around..."beHIND your back" and in PM's.

I have NEVER seen (or if I have it's been .0000018043% of the time) AndThePickles, Babs Gordon, DBella, Twylight, Dew, even HOLLY, rip into

You
JAL
GAH
Ghostrider87
blind_fury
...and the rest here on Giligan's Isle

As much as the Males have.

X 1,000

 

[kainedamo]

I maintain that it's a double standard and you just don't "hear" it as "cattiness" when men do it.
One of the "main topics of conversation" HERE has been what a loser/pervert/clueless judgemental reject YOU are.

Nobody really means it! Its in good fun!

And in my experience that has been exclusively Males talking about that. And yes, it persists while you're not around..."beHIND your back" and in PM's.

In PM's?? Oh man, what a bunch of girls!

I have NEVER seen (or if I have it's been .0000018043% of the time) AndThePickles, Babs Gordon, DBella, Twylight, Dew, even HOLLY, rip into

You
JAL
GAH
Ghostrider87
blind_fury
...and the rest here on Giligan's Isle

As much as the Males have.

X 1,000

Its different on the net. Ripping into JAL is funny, and not exactly behind his back.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Nobody really means it! Its in good fun!



In PM's?? Oh man, what a bunch of girls!



Its different on the net. Ripping into JAL is funny, and not exactly behind his back.

No. It's not different on the net.
Whenever two girls "on the net" get into an argument, everyone goes "OOOooh, *hissssss*" just like in real life.

Tangled Web isn't here right now, but Erz just made a joke about his denial about his homosexuality only moments ago....BEHIND HIS BACK.
This is done daily.
It was done while you were away for a while.
It's done to D.E.A.T.H. on the other boards that are an off-shoot of the Hype, ALL completely behind the backs of the "pathetic, waste-of-skin" "victims".

But when Men are that way, it's just, the guys joking around or "PWNING" someone.
How can you not see that?

I've personally been the victim of male cattiness and covert, spiteful backstabbing for revenge, or just out of sadism, or jealousy.
TONS.

 

[Erzengel]

I...I...I was just trying to fit in.

 

[jaguarr]

I diss Wilhelm on a daily basis purely out of sadism. But I do it in PM's that I send only to him, so it's cool.

jag

 

[AndThePickles]

I diss Wilhelm on a daily basis purely out of sadism. But I do it in PM's that I send only to him, so it's cool.

jag

Damn, personalized hating. Wilhelm always gets the first class treatment!

 

[BRUTAL]

... and extra peanuts

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Damn, personalized hating. Wilhelm always gets the first class treatment!

Well see, jag is a M.A.N.
so he confronts people head-on, face-to-face...something that you cowardly, back-stabbing, petty wooooomen just wouldn't understand.
heh

 

[AndThePickles]

Maybe THAT'S why I don't have many female friends then.....I'm very blunt

 

[BRUTAL]

Well see, jag is a M.A.N.
so he confronts people head-on, face-to-face...something that you cowardly, back-stabbing, petty wooooomen just wouldn't understand.
heh

You know who else "just don't understand"?

Spoiler

Parents...

 

[Lurk]

In my experience, men and women are equally nasty, but how they react to the nastiness is generally different. I find that men don't take the insults as personally. They are more likely to laugh it off, or just not give a damn. A lot of the women in my life more often get their feelings hurt and hang on to the hurt longer.

 

[kainedamo]

People talking behind my back while I was gone just means you all love me.

What the heck were you guys saying anyway? "Wow, I sure miss Kaine's common sense!".

 

[Erzengel]

People talking behind my back while I was gone just means you all love me.

What the heck were you guys saying anyway? "Wow, I sure miss Kaine's common sense!".

Oh stuff like "Has there been any news reports from Irelands about a girl named Vicki being accosted?"

 

[jaguarr]

You know who else "just don't understand"?

Spoiler

Parents...

Whoa....I just made a D.J. Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince joke on another forum. Eerie.

jag

 

[BRUTAL]

Great minds...

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

People talking behind my back while I was gone just means you all love me.

No.
Believe me, when my friends and I are talking s*** about Dick Cheney, or Tom Cruise, or my friend's ******ed boss...it is not because we love them.
It's because our intense hatred for them is a common bond.

It was sometimes suggested that I had a crush on Phantasm, because I would very often ridicule her and went out of my way to point out how ****ing stupid her beliefs were and what a wrong-headed fool she was and how she looked like a dour gargoyle.

I assure you, it was honestly because I wanted to rub her nose in how gross she was and because it gave me pleasure, the thought that I might be causing her some small measure of the pain her sanctimonious, pretentious posts had caused my brain.

 

[BRUTAL]

No.
Believe me, when my friends and I are talking s*** about Dick Cheney, or Tom Cruise, or my friend's ******ed boss...it is not because we love them.
It's because our intense hatred for them is a common bond.

It was sometimes suggested that I had a crush on Phantasm, because I would very often ridicule her and went out of my way to point out how ****ing stupid her beliefs were and what a wrong-headed fool she was and how she looked like a dour gargoyle.

I assure you, it was honestly because I wanted to rub her nose in how gross she was and because it gave me pleasure, the thought that I might be causing her some small measure of the pain her sanctimonious, pretentious posts had caused my brain.

... fap...

 

[Erzengel]

Phantasm and Wilhelm sitting in a tree....k i s s i n g....

Ahh...Phantasm.....all we have to remember you by is a sig in Valumart's signature. Even TheFemaleTorch is a poor man's Phantasm.

 

[kainedamo]

I do not know of this Phantasm.

Anyone want an update on Vicki?

 

[jaguarr]

What's up with Vicki, Kaine?

jag

 

[Kyalesyin]

Who is Vicki?

 

[Erzengel]

Who is Vicki?

It's a simple tale Kyalesyin

A tale as old as time......

Boy befriends girl
Boy falls for girl
Girl dates someone else
Boy tells girl he loves her over MSN
Girl is put off
Boy and girl reconcile
Boy watches girl's bf while he pees
Girl tells boy sexual escapades with bf
Boy chronicles this all on messageboard

 

[Kyalesyin]

Who is Vicki?

 

[Kyalesyin]

It's a simple tale Kyalesyin

A tale as old as time......

Boy befriends girl
Boy falls for girl
Girl dates someone else
Boy tells girl he loves her over MSN
Girl is put off
Boy and girl reconcile
Boy watches girl's bf while he pees
Girl tells boy sexual escapades with bf
Boy chronicles this all on messageboard

Sounds like your standard date movie...

 

[Erzengel]

Boy = Kainedamo
Girl = Vicki