Women hating women

[Kyalesyin]

Boy = Kainedamo
Girl = Vicki

I can't see this ending well... at least it doesn't yet appear to include suggestions of bisexuality.

 

[kainedamo]

What's up with Vicki, Kaine?

jag

WELL!! We're still friends. We don't see as much of each other these days. About once every few weeks. And her bf is always around when I hang out with her, so we haven't had one of our long chats.

However, last week. She was driving me home, and telling me how pissed off with Dan she was. The guys' parents pay for his flat, right? That in itself disgusts me, but thats not the point. She had been staying over at his alot, and she was saying she felt unappreciated, 'cause Dan expected her to drive him everywhere, pay for food in his flat, and even cook for him. And she basically feels he tells her what to do too much. The worst of it is, before Valentines day she said she didn't want to do gifts, Dan had said I've already bought yours so you have to get one, so she did. She got him a £12 book, and he basically got into an argument with her because the gift she got him was too cheap. The gift he got her was only £10 more, not much of a difference, and its the thought that counts anyway. I told Vicki that this was an incredibly pissy thing for him to do, incredibly petty. She agreed, and told me about some other immature behaviour. I asked her if she loves him, she said yes. I told her, well, ya gotta put your foot down and tell him your not gonna drive him all over the place and buy crap for his house, and she agreed.

But its sort of her last relationship all over again. He's starting to belittle her even in front of me.

But I guess its not my concern.

 

[jaguarr]

Dan's a gold-digger. Heh!

jag

 

[Erzengel]

Now I ain't saying he's a gold digger....

But he ain't looking for no broke *****....

 

[Canadian Rider]

Wasn't Dan the exact character on Seinfeld who was the British Bloke who crashed with Elaine and mooched off her?

MOOOOOCH ... Tell her to kick his a** to the curb!

 

[Erzengel]

But its sort of her last relationship all over again. He's starting to belittle her even in front of me.

But I guess its not my concern.

If she's your friend shouldn't it be your concern especially since she was your friend first?

I'm surprised you didn't stick up or at least take Dan aside and say hey, maybe you should treat her better and not belittle her in front of me?

 

[kainedamo]

Well apparently they've had a chat about it so we'll see what happens. If I think he's taking advantage of her I'll tell her just that.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

It's a simple tale Kyalesyin

A tale as old as time......

Boy befriends girl
Boy falls for girl
Girl dates someone else
Boy tells girl he loves her over MSN
Girl is put off
Boy and girl reconcile
Boy watches girl's bf while he pees
Girl tells boy sexual escapades with bf
Boy chronicles this all on messageboard

lol

 

[kainedamo]

If she's your friend shouldn't it be your concern especially since she was your friend first?

I'm surprised you didn't stick up or at least take Dan aside and say hey, maybe you should treat her better and not belittle her in front of me?

Well I'm just sort of waiting to see what happens... I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill. If he behaves like a jerk with her in front of me, I'll let him know.

 

[jaguarr]

Well I'm just sort of waiting to see what happens... I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill. If he behaves like a jerk with her in front of me, I'll let him know.

He's starting to belittle her even in front of me.

jag

 

[kainedamo]

jag

Well I mean, like I said I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill. I want to be sure he's being a jerk and I'm not just taking one or two comments out of context.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Nice!

Be a friend first Kaine. Then if your relationship with her changes great, but be a good friend.

I like the advice to take the *****e ... I mean guy aside.

 

[kainedamo]

Maybe I don't want her to think I'm interferring too much too.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Don't.

Just express friendly concern that he is being a little rude to her.

 

[jaguarr]

Put the smack down on him, Kaine. But don't let him touch you with his hands, because...well....he doesn't wash them after he pees.

jag

 

[heypapajinx]

Maybe THAT'S why I don't have many female friends then.....I'm very blunt

i would SO be your friend in real life.
i like blunt.
when i ask "does this make me look fat?" or "why hasn't he called me?" i like it when my friends say "it's not the pants that make you look fat, it's the fat that makes you look fat." or "he hasn't called you because of the pants..."

 

[Kyalesyin]

i would SO be your friend in real life.
i like blunt.
when i ask "does this make me look fat?" or "why hasn't he called me?" i like it when my friends say "it's not the pants that make you look fat, it's the fat that makes you look fat." or "he hasn't called you because of the pants..."

I so need you as a real life friend.

 

[Fried Gold]

Group hug!

 

[Kyalesyin]

Pervert.

 

[heypapajinx]

I so need you as a real life friend.

Group hug!

Pervert.

haha!
this is funny.
you make a funny Kaz!
and yes, you, me, and AndThePickles should all be good friends.:heart:

 

[Kyalesyin]

We should. I can only imagine the three of us going drinking together...

 

[heypapajinx]

We should. I can only imagine the three of us going drinking together...

oh man.
and then a man checking out one of us and all of us saying "why you giving my woman the ol stink eye!?! like she'd ever be interested in a lump like you!" then falling over laughing.
oh man that would be soooo sweet.:heart:

 

[Kyalesyin]

I can only imagine the carnage if the three of us were to go shopping together.

 

[heypapajinx]

I can only imagine the carnage if the three of us were to go shopping together.

Kaz! you would SO be the one saying "here, lemme help you get that on. need some help with that bra snap? those things can be tricky!" and "andthepickles would be saying 'no thanks, but thank you..." all nervous and i would be like "shove over Kaz! and why are you smearing honey all over your hands?"

 

[Kyalesyin]

Actually, when I'm shopping my inner gay man comes out to play...

"Oh Daaaaahling, that is soooo not your colour. Here- try this sweetie! Ooooh! Its FABULOUS!"

Yeah... I am actually that bad. Worse, after working with clothes in one form or another for years, I can guess someones sizes by looking at them and normally pick something perfect...