Hackers to Ashley Madison website: Pay up or we reveal the name of all your cheaters!

[I SEE SPIDEY]

Who says open relationships = screwing randoms?

I wouldn't want my partner screwing friends or family either.

If others are okay with open relationships cool, that is their business, I'm just saying that it isn't for me. I'm not asking for anything to be outlawed.

 

[Majik1387]

Not saying you have to, but don't assume open relationships automatically equal hookups with random strangers.

 

[chaseter]

How many people for cheating in here actually have committed relationships? Let's get some perspective.

 

[Majik1387]

Define cheating.

 

[Schlosser85]

I haven't really seen anybody being "for" cheating in here. They're mostly just saying it's not other people's business.

I'm not "for" cheating at all.

 

[bullets]

Same here. I wouldn't do it , but I'm not gonna go after people that do. It's their sex life not mine. I wish people were just upfront , but we don't live in a fair world

 

[Schlosser85]

Speaking for my own personal values, I very strongly believe in monogamous relationships, and I do not want an open relationship at all, nor would I want my partner (if I had one) pursuing one.

I haven't had sex since 2011 because I want a relationship, not random hook-ups, and I unfortunately haven't found anyone yet.

But I also believe other people's relationships are their own business.

 

[Black Narcissus]

That about sums up my feelings. I just couldn't imagine being okay with my partner screwing randos.

You will never have me. You can stop.

{looks into sunset}

 

[I SEE SPIDEY]

You will never have me. You can stop.

{looks into sunset}

 

[TheCommissioner]

How many people for cheating in here actually have committed relationships? Let's get some perspective.

recently ended a 3 year monogamous relationship, but we sat and had that talk when we started dating about being monogamous

 

[Black Narcissus]

You ppl are lying to yourselves if you wouldn't think of cheating..If Paul Giamatti walked in wearing an unbutton polo shirt.

 

[jokesonm3]

The only cheating I've ever done was modding my World of Warcraft account to boost up fast.

 

[TheCommissioner]

You ppl are lying to yourselves if you wouldn't think of cheating..If Paul Giamatti walked in wearing an unbutton polo shirt.

that's hot

 

[Schlosser85]

You ppl are lying to yourselves if you wouldn't think of cheating..If Paul Giamatti walked in wearing an unbutton polo shirt.

We're all only flesh-and-blood. It's not fair to expect anyone to be able to resist that kind of temptation.

 

[I SEE SPIDEY]

You ppl are lying to yourselves if you wouldn't think of cheating..If Paul Giamatti walked in wearing an unbutton polo shirt.

I'm getting hot and bothered just thinking about that sexy mofo.

 

[Erzengel]

How many people for cheating in here actually have committed relationships? Let's get some perspective.

This is SHH. Most people here are still waiting to meet their their gfs out of state. Unfortunately, their busy supermodel schedule is preventing them.

 

[Thundercrack85]

You know it's funny, I got a pop up for Ashley Madison (as well as one of those, your computer has a virus ones) the other day, and I thought... what idiot would sign up on this website after this hack?

So, do ya'll think they'll recover from this?

 

[Thundercrack85]

How many people for cheating in here actually have committed relationships? Let's get some perspective.

More than not probably. I think the people without value them more.

 

[Mad Ones]

Some scenarios aren't black and white, especially since relationships are always being renegotiated. I was in a four year monogomous relationship and it was great, but it ended. After that I dated someone for year, who has since left Canada for his studies. We still maintain a relationship via Facebook message and Skype that is more than just friends, but having an online relationship after dating in person is just not the same, so the conditions of the relationship have changed.

I have a good friend who is in a "V" (I think that's what he called it). He's one of two guys dating the same woman. They have their own specific arrangements and he's pretty happy. And this guy went to a catholic high school, is an athlete, and a scholar.

But yeah, I guess this thread is about Ashley Madison, a website I haven't even heard of until now. The internet certainly exposes secrets, not only on an individual level but for social relations in general.

 

[Marvolo]

I haven't really seen anybody being "for" cheating in here. They're mostly just saying it's not other people's business.

I'm not "for" cheating at all.

^This. The sex life of other married couples is no one's business except the married couple's and who they themselves choose to discuss it with. It sure as hell isn's the business of tweens and pimply-faced teens on the internet.

 

[I SEE SPIDEY]

This is SHH. Most people here are still waiting to meet their their gfs out of state. Unfortunately, their busy supermodel schedule is preventing them.

90% who frequent SHH probably aren't getting laid very often. I am apart of that 90% by the way.

 

[MessiahDecoy123]

You know it's funny, I got a pop up for Ashley Madison (as well as one of those, your computer has a virus ones) the other day, and I thought... what idiot would sign up on this website after this hack?

So, do ya'll think they'll recover from this?

Hopefully they don't recover.

Or maybe relaunch the website under the name homewrecker dot com.

 

[MessiahDecoy123]

^This. The sex life of other married couples is no one's business except the married couple's and who they themselves choose to discuss it with. It sure as hell isn's the business of tweens and pimply-faced teens on the internet.

appreciating the downfall of AM =/= invading ppls business

I haven't looked at any emails in any adultery search engine or informed anyone's spouse.

 

[DJ_KiDDvIcIOUs]

Here is my take on the whole relationship and cheating thing. For me, cheating is a garbage way of life. I have never cheated on any woman. Granted I have only been in 2 long term relationships. The mother of my daughter cheated on me and I was madly in love with her so that hurt pretty bad, but we had a very toxic relationship to begin with. I spent countless years doing the random hookup thing and I enjoyed it for what it was, but now I'm looking for something more. When I find the woman I want to be committed to I expect the same respect I will give her in regards to not cheating. I would much rather her be honest with me and break it off if she no longer wants to be with me than to find out she has cheated on me. I also understand that different things work for different folks and many couples have their own rules for what they can and can't do which I am totally fine with. But for me personally I want my partner to be faithful. If other men want to cheat that's on them and they will get what's coming to them but as far as I'm concerend it's none of my business

EDIT: and my 2 cents if you find your lover has cheated on you just end the relationship. You will be better off in the long run than trying to recover from that. If they did it once they will do it again

 

[TheSpectacular]

This whole idea of a website designed for adultery seems completely stupid to me. You shouldn't be in a relationship if you want to be with other people.