26 yr old Teacher pregnant with a 16 yr old students baby

[SuperFerret]

A 16 year old boy would probably be actually easier to manipulate sexually, since (from what I recall from my experience as a 16 year old boy) all they think about is sex. It is rape because this woman manipulated him using his rampant teenage horniness for her own pleasure. Rape need not be overtly unwilling to be rape.

 

[Hound55]

This isn't about us claiming that society is "against women" per se. We are pointing out a huge double standard. Do you think that people would be making all these jokes about there not being a problem with this if the tables were turned and the teacher was a man instead of a woman?

Pretty much...

Particularly if it were a male teacher having sex with a female student in a hospital bed...

 

[LOBO3315a]

Oh and I second the where were these hot female teachers back in the days.

They were around, that just wouldn't touch guys like us with 10 foot poles. They were salivating over the football players, obviously.

Chances are this 'kid' is 6'3, 200 lbs, and has to shave 2x a day.

 

[Alex The Great]

Well this isn't really RAPE rape. But under the law it is. I'm sure he enjoyed it

 

[doih]

It goes without saying that if the genders were reversed it'd be a bigger issue. Women in our society have been put at a disadvantage by the physical and psychological manipulation of men. It's much easier for a 26-year-old man to impose his sexual will over a 16-year-old girl then it would be if the roles were reversed.

Even if the sex was consensual and the girl did it willingly, you could still cry foul because of the distinct physical advantage a normal 26-year-old guy would have over her.

However....

While I understand the laws and fully recognize them, I cannot for the life of me consider a situation like this to be rape. The pregnancy makes it far more dramatic, but I can't sit here with a straight face and tell you that a 16-year-old guy (who was on the football team no less) is being sexually violated by having sex with an older woman.

Within the guidelines of the school administration's rules, she has every right to be fired. But to consider this a criminal issue just blows my mind.

Quoted for truth!


Look, we all know there are many double standards in society, most of which are negative. But in matters like this there's a reason why male teachers/whatever are treated more harshly than females.

To use a sillier example, the whole 'Twilight moms' thing. If it was a bunch of middle aged men acting that way about a movie with teenaged girls, people would be calling up Chris Hansen. And they'd be right.

 

[S.A.A.D.]

She betrayed the LAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW(sort of a Judge Dredd reference).

 

[AnorexicBatman]

On one hand it doesn't matter to me whether it was an older man or woman. I hate this double standard and women should be considered a sex offender and possibly jailed. It's not rape in the strictest sense and it seems consensual but she could have easily used the boy's hormonal changes and onset of puberty to her advantage.

Though you people want to high-five the kid which is pretty low and disgusting I bet the kid himself is deeply ashamed of the incident. Maybe not traumatized but it's not something he would be proud off even if the Teacher didn't get pregnant.

There have been cases where it was a young girl with an older man and the girl initially didn't seem to mind but the guy was jailed. The chick felt rather stupid and guilty. Finally, even if a young boy/girl wants to have sex with some older person, the older person must always be held responsible.

 

[LOBO3315a]

Finally, even if a young boy/girl wants to have sex with some older person, the older person must always be held responsible.

Yes, because supression of sexual urges does wonders for people...

 

[AnorexicBatman]

Yes, because supression of sexual urges does wonders for people...

No matter how strong the urges you are not MENTALLY ready/mature for sex until you reach a certain age. 17, 18 is fine but under is definitely not especially if there are consequences like pregnancy. Just because you have urges doesn't mean you lose self control and act on them. The onset of puberty can be a risky time. If it's really that bad then go and look at some porn.

 

[knowsbleed]

I'm 16, I can't have sex... I'm not ready.

Now I'm 17... I'm ready now!

 

[Alex The Great]

Hahahaha

I'm 17 in 3 months. Does that mean I'm going to magically be mature in Three months?

 

[Prison Mike]

Niceeee

My thoughts exactly

 

[Cmill216]

I'm 17 in 3 months. Does that mean I'm going to magically be mature in Three months?

The Birthday Fairy will grant you an Elixir of Adulthood.

 

[MessiahDecoy123]

Joke or not, that's the type of sexist thinking that pisses me off.

Can someone please explain to me why it is that if a boy experiences statutory rape at the hands of a woman people consider him some sort of hero? And then explain to me why it is that when a girl experiences the same thing at the hands of a man it is an outrage? If guys want to have sex with older women isn't just possible that girls might want to have sex with an older man? Why is the girl looked at as a victim but not the boy?

Like that photo shoot with Justin Bieber and Kim Kardashian. If that had been a photo shoot with Miley Cyrus (who is older than Bieber) and Chris Pine, I guarantee you it would have gotten a different reaction.

I think it's a vestige of old school values that didn't want to accept that women have sexual desire as well.

I'll explain the double standard in one word.

Penetration.

When someone is penetrated they are seen as the "victim".

For exemple when a gay man has consensual sex with a gay teenage boy there is the same outrage you find with a teenage girl being involved. Society sees anyone who is penetrated as being used. For the same reason men with multiple partners are seen as studs and women who do the same thing are seen as ****s.

 

[AnorexicBatman]

<___<

Very funny!

So I guess because it's a boy it's fine!
If it was a girl then everyone would enter ALL AMERICAN FATHER mode and scream, "NO SEX TILL YOU ARE 30!"

There is such a thing as self control and yes it depends on how mentally mature you are but even still a 14 year old is in no way ready for sex. An older child, possibly.

EDIT:

I agree with the 'penetration' comment. The receiver is victimized.

 

[knowsbleed]

I wish I could subscribe to individual posters... I'd so subscribe to MessiahDecoy.

 

[MessiahDecoy123]

Rape is different from a facepalm.

Rape is what happened to this boy.

A facepalm is what I'm giving you.

Pretending that neither is true is just dishonest.

There's a world of difference between statutory rape and normal rape.

You do realize this, right?

 

[LOBO3315a]

I'll explain the double standard in one word.

For exemple when a gay man has consensual sex with a gay teenage boy there is the same outrage you find with a teenage girl being involved.

Unless the gay man is the one being penetrated...then by that standard he is the victim?

 

[terry78]

Basically as dudes we are supposed to spread our seed and **** as many females as we can. It's a catch-22 for women, because while we claim to like chicks that are good in bed, we still have that puritan view of them having sex at all.

 

[LOBO3315a]

No matter how strong the urges you are not MENTALLY ready/mature for sex until you reach a certain age. 17, 18 is fine but under is definitely not especially if there are consequences like pregnancy. Just because you have urges doesn't mean you lose self control and act on them. The onset of puberty can be a risky time. If it's really that bad then go and look at some porn.

Dude, I remember whe I was 14. I used to look at the wall outlet and try to figure out how to have sex with it. Self-control wasn't the issue, it was lack of willing partners that kept me from having sex.

It's not that people aren't mature enought for sex at that age, its that people aren't mature enough to be parents at that age.

That's the real issue, not sex.

 

[MessiahDecoy123]

I'm 16, I can't have sex... I'm not ready.

Now I'm 17... I'm ready now!

The magical sex fairy makes teenagers prepared for sex once they turn 17.

Touch them minuted before the magical sex fairy and you're a monster.

Touch them minutes after and you're a civilized member of society.

 

[AnorexicBatman]

Dude, I remember whe I was 14. I used to look at the wall outlet and try to figure out how to have sex with it. Self-control wasn't the issue, it was lack of willing partners that kept me from having sex.

It's not that people aren't mature enought for sex at that age, its that people aren't mature enough to be parents at that age.

That's the real issue, not sex.

That's true but you were implying that it is near impossible to control your urges and you should try having sex with as many as possible because that's what's most important in life not an education.

I mean c'mon. "Suppression of urges does wonders for people. " ?
Does that mean we should act purely on raw instinct and not consider the consequences which as you said include becoming an underage parent.

Also would you okay with a pre-pubescent boy having sex if he were mature enough to be a parent? Let's say your 15 year old son is very mature. Would you be okay with him having an active sex life? If so, then fine.

 

[LOBO3315a]

Also would you okay with a pre-pubescent boy having sex if he were mature enough to be a parent? Let's say your 15 year old son is very mature. Would you be okay with him having an active sex life? If so, then fine.

Whether I'd be ok with it or not, doesn't mean it will or won't happen. Sooner or later, kids do things their parents don't approve of. The best I can do is prepare him for that time when he makes that decision. Things like, don't pressure the girl into having sex, telling him to use a condom if they make that decision to do so. Those are the best things a parent can do to prepare their kid and themselves for that decision.

And if a prepubescent boy can somehow show the maturity to be a parent (Not sure how that works, since they are unable to have kids, and that generally goes along with drive to procreate), then yes they are mature enough to have sex.

 

[AndThePickles]

This situation is disgusting.

 

[AnorexicBatman]

Whether I'd be ok with it or not, doesn't mean it will or won't happen. Sooner or later, kids do things their parents don't approve of. The best I can do is prepare him for that time when he makes that decision. Things like, don't pressure the girl into having sex, telling him to use a condom if they make that decision to do so. Those are the best things a parent can do to prepare their kid and themselves for that decision.

And if a prepubescent boy can somehow show the maturity to be a parent (Not sure how that works, since they are unable to have kids, and that generally goes along with drive to procreate), then yes they are mature enough to have sex.

That is a very good attitude to have which is sadly seen less now a days.
I find myself agreeing with you. I myself said that it's the mental maturity that matters at the end of the day. Though we do see it at a standard age.