A message for the ladies:

[RockSP]

You can type **** if you like, and let the censors handle it. I don't care. But we have the censors for a reason. Believe me "****" gets the same point across.

^^Bullpoo-poo

 

[DBella]

O just suck it up and take it like a man.
I like you. Wanna go out on a date?

 

[BRUTAL]

O just suck it up and take it like a man.
I like you. Wanna go out on a date?

I would lose so much respect for you if you went for ***** like this guy.

 

[DBella]

I just recieved an "infraction" for typing "hit" with a "$" in front of it...lol. Everybody please mentality substitute "poo-poo" where those words were formally at.

I would loose so much respect for you if you went for ***** like this guy.

I only go for penis.

 

[BRUTAL]

Haha, I typed "loose" and "*****" in the same sentence!

Take that "family friendly" forum!

 

[Badger]

I only go for penis.

*faints

t:

 

[RockSP]

I would lose so much respect for you if you went for ***** like this guy.

You can say that but can't say tih$ (backwards)?

Interesting.(not really...it's bullpoo-poo)

 

[hammy]

heh heh.

The whole months later "call me" thing is the thing that really has a mofo scratching his head.

If you're not interested...and I leave you alone...that should be the end of it.

I'm still the same dude you rejected before...my personality hasn't gone through some sudden change

What you said was actually very reasonable and I agree that unfortunately, a lot of women play games. She may have dated you to begin with because she thought she would be interested, but after seeing you a time or two saw no chemistry or future. And not to mess with your head, but maybe she was the one who changed. Maybe now she can appreciate what you have to offer.

Or, she might just be jerking your chain. Probably better not to risk it.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Well the thing is this was the first (and definitely the only) time I ever tried the "workplace romance" thing. She was flirting with me for a couple months before I took the chance and asked her if she was single, told her I was interested, and asked for her number. There's no way she could have misconstrued my intentions.

We talk on the phone and stuff. I take her out. Things seem to be going pretty good from my perspective. There's no rush.

Then during one of our conversations she lets me know the "friend" crap. She actually had the nerve to say these words: "I didn't lead you on did, I?"

Me: "..." (starts thinking about the super lowcut v-neck sweater she wore with her triple d's smacking me in the face across the table)

Me: "Well, I did think you were interested in me as well"

Her: "I am...as a friend".

After a few more phone convos that determined she was not playing hard to get (unless she was playing reallyreallyreallyreallyreally hard to get) I decided to stop wasting my time.

Now months later after no communication (except for a "what's up" or whatever if I happened to come in for some overtime on her shift) she wants me to call her? Couldn't she have been calling me if she wanted to talk?

Ehhhhh...broads! *pulls out (root) beer and stuffs hands down pants Al Bundy style*

Props to you for asking her out, but sometimes that's just the way the cookie crumbles.

 

[BRUTAL]

Oh god, now that b**ch is in here? Ugh.

 

[twylight]

'preciate it.

If you say that after she makes your night amazing you deserve all those things.

 

[zanos]

Well the thing is this was the first (and definitely the only) time I ever tried the "workplace romance" thing. She was flirting with me for a couple months before I took the chance and asked her if she was single, told her I was interested, and asked for her number. There's no way she could have misconstrued my intentions.

We talk on the phone and stuff. I take her out. Things seem to be going pretty good from my perspective. There's no rush.

Then during one of our conversations she lets me know the "friend" crap. She actually had the nerve to say these words: "I didn't lead you on did, I?"

Me: "..." (starts thinking about the super lowcut v-neck sweater she wore with her triple d's smacking me in the face across the table)

Me: "Well, I did think you were interested in me as well"

Her: "I am...as a friend".

After a few more phone convos that determined she was not playing hard to get (unless she was playing reallyreallyreallyreallyreally hard to get) I decided to stop wasting my time.

Now months later after no communication (except for a "what's up" or whatever if I happened to come in for some overtime on her shift) she wants me to call her? Couldn't she have been calling me if she wanted to talk?

Ehhhhh...broads! *pulls out (root) beer and stuffs hands down pants Al Bundy style*

Judging by your description of her and the way she's so adept at flirting I'm going to assume she's attractive and therein lies the problem. A girl like this probably has many options. Too many perhaps. When you wait so long to ask her out you're fighting an uphill battle against her potentially waining romantic feelings for you as the hours, days and weeks go by and any guys she's encountered along the way who are way smoother than you. By the time you went out on your date her attraction for you may have been at it's lowest. When she said she wanted to be friends you were actually back to square one. She's not completely taking you out the picture but you're down on her list of men. In other words you didn't do enough to really get her to like you. There are somethings you can do but best just to move onto some other chick as you probably blew it with this one.

 

[RockSP]

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What you said was actually very reasonable and I agree that unfortunately, a lot of women play games. She may have dated you to begin with because she thought she would be interested, but after seeing you a time or two saw no chemistry or future. And not to mess with your head, but maybe she was the one who changed. Maybe now she can appreciate what you have to offer.

Or, she might just be jerking your chain. Probably better not to risk it.

Too late

That's the thing that has me like

I tried to date her and she decided she wasn't interested or whatever. I left her alone. Then she comes back much later and says I should call her.

We start talking on the phone...again. We go out...again (she asks me out and pays this time). After a little while it seems I'm doing all the calling. So I call her and tell her I need to see her to talk. I ask her what the deal is between us.

She hits me with the "friend" b.s. again. But hints that there might be a future...maybekindasortawhoknows.



If you're not interested in a dude...leave him the f*** alone.

 

[hammy]

Too late

That's the thing that has me like

I tried to date her and she decided she wasn't interested or whatever. I left her alone. Then she comes back much later and says I should call her.

We start talking on the phone...again. We go out...again (she asks me out and pays this time). After a little while it seems I'm doing all the calling. So I call her and tell her I need to see her to talk. I ask her what the deal is between us.

She hits me with the "friend" b.s. again. But hints that there might be a future...maybekindasortawhoknows.


If you're not interested in a dude...leave him the f*** alone.

Awww, that sucks.

Now that you've explained, I definitely do think there is something up with her. It may not feel like it right now, but you're better off without her. The chick has some issues. She probably loves attention and since you obviously showed interest, you were a good place to get some. Sorry.

 

[RockSP]

Judging by your description of her and the way she's so adept at flirting I'm going to assume she's attractive and therein lies the problem. A girl like this probably has many options. Too many perhaps. When you wait so long to ask her out you're fighting an uphill battle against her potentially waining romantic feelings for you as the hours, days and weeks go by and any guys she's encountered along the way who are way smoother than you. By the time you went out on your date her attraction for you may have been at it's lowest. When she said she wanted to be friends you were actually back to square one. She's not completely taking you out the picture but you're down on her list of men. In other words you didn't do enough to really get her to like you. There are somethings you can do but best just to move onto some other chick as you probably blew it with this one.

Actually she blew it.

As far as me waiting to ask her out...like I said we were co-workers. I don't do "office romance" usually but after getting to know her a little I took the chance. She was enthusiastic about it (so it seemed).

As to me not doing enough to get her to like me...hey, whatever's clever. There is only so much I can do and am willing to do. I'm a grown ass man. She's a grown woman. Silly games are for kids.

 

[LexCorp]

Awwwwwwww, someone got their feelings hurt.

Indeed a right old kick in the nuts...poor little guy.

 

[hammy]

Actually she blew it.

As far as me waiting to ask her out...like I said we were co-workers. I don't do "office romance" usually but after getting to know her a little I took the chance. She was enthusiastic about it (so it seemed).

As to me not doing enough to get her to like me...hey, whatever's clever. There is only so much I can do and am willing to do. I'm a grown ass man. She's a grown woman. Silly games are for kids.

Exactly. A lot of women need constant attention and get it wherever they can find it, even at someone else's expense. And you don't need to work to get her to like you (why would you want her to like you, now that you know she's a nutjob, anyway?) because that would just be fake, anyway. And what exactly is she doing to get you to like her? Not much.

 

[ROBOCOP CPU001]

****ing hell dude...

lifes about rejection...


don't make me quote Rocky Balboa!!!!

 

[RockSP]

****ing hell dude...

lifes about rejection...


don't make me quote Rocky Balboa!!!!

Rejection is fine. Re-rejection is some ol' bull$...uh...poo-poo.

 

[kane9321]

If you are not interested in a mofo...be upfront about that ****.

Don't give him your number. Do not talk for hours with him. (hint: No heterosexual man in the history of the planet has ever asked a woman for her number just to be her "friend").

Don't accept a date from him.

Don't dress in revealing clothing on said date (that you should not go on).

When confronted and you give the bull**** "friend" speech...and dude leaves you alone... DO NOT come back months later talkin' about "call me".

'preciate it.

oh man you ok?

 

[SoulManX]

Her lost don't lose any sleep over dumb ass *****es...word

 

[RockSP]

oh man you ok?

lol yeah man. I wasn't crying or anything when I wrote the original post. I actually thought it was funny/sarcastic...that was my intention, anyway.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

The first time you tried dating her she probably just didn't see you in a potential boyfriend way when out of the office on an actual date. She may have been attracted to you at the office, but you just didn't measure up to what she wanted in a boyfriend.

The second attempt, that's just wrong and bull$#!t, she seems psycho, don't bother with her.

 

[zanos]

Actually she blew it.

Somehow I doubt she's talking about how she missed out on an office romance with you on a message board.

As far as me waiting to ask her out...like I said we were co-workers. I don't do "office romance" usually but after getting to know her a little I took the chance. She was enthusiastic about it (so it seemed).

Your rationale for waiting is your own. If she had any reservations about an office romance or you in general giving her two months to think about it was probably not a good idea. This is why you don't wait to ask someone out all the while getting to "know them."

As to me not doing enough to get her to like me...hey, whatever's clever. There is only so much I can do and am willing to do. I'm a grown ass man. She's a grown woman. Silly games are for kids.

It's all a game. You don't even realize you played your own. The whole I'm getting to know before getting the nerve to ask you out of nowhere is a common but badly played one.

 

[RockSP]

Somehow I doubt she's talking about how she missed out on an office romance with you on a message board.

What does that matter? I chose to post here about it in what was a humurous (to me) manner.

Your rationale for waiting is your own. If she had any reservations about an office romance or you in general giving her two months to think about it was probably not a good idea. This is why you don't wait to ask someone out all the while getting to "know them."

You don't really know the sitch so you are basically talking out your wazoo. Hey, do you.

It's all a game. You don't even realize you played your own. The whole I'm getting to know before getting the nerve to ask you out of nowhere is a common but badly played one.

You have the right to your opinion. But I'll keep doing my own thing.