Now I know how the girls who I ask out feel

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

So at work the other night, this girl comes into my store with her friend. My co-worker and one of his buddies come up talking to me about how this girl likes me or whatever, and I'm just shrugging it off, thinking that they are playing - until she comes up to me talking about how I need some "brown sugar" in my life.

Her and I start talking, and I'm really not impressed. I'm not feeling it. She's young, trying too hard, and not particularly attractive. So I finally get around to getting back to work, and as she leaves, she asks for my number. I'm still unsure as to the reasoning why I do, but I give it to her. I guess I was just trying to be nice.

So today is day 3 since I've given her my number, and I have as many messages from her. Text, that is. She's texted me everyday since. I haven't responded back yet - I've been working or partying since. But I don't feel like responding back. I'm not really interested.

So whenever a girl gives me her number, and I call or text, and don't respond, well, now I know how they feel. Not interested, but, I guess simply put, not man enough to say as much. *sigh*

 

[LexCorp]

Her and I start talking, and I'm really not impressed. I'm not feeling it.

Says it all really

You don't care you don't care. Plus you are too damn nice to say no.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

today is day 3 since I've given her my number, and I have as many messages from her. Text, that is. She's texted me everyday since. I haven't responded back yet - I've been working or partying since. But I don't feel like responding back. I'm not really interested.

This is kind of weird, it's desperate, but impersonal and sort of cowardly. Always wait at least one full day before calling and call, don't text, texting just seems impersonal and easier than actually calling. Girl needs to learn how to play the game if she wants to ask a guy out.

 

[Spider-Who?]

My ex fiance used to have a fake number that she'd give out...the "rejection hotline"...some automated thing saying how the person who gave you this number has no interest in you whatsoever, and it even gave you options on how to deal with the rejection ("if you would like to write a sad poem, press 3").

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

This is kind of weird, it's desperate, but impersonal and sort of cowardly. Always wait at least one full day before calling and call, don't text, texting just seems impersonal and easier than actually calling. Girl needs to learn how to play the game if she wants to ask a guy out.

Not saying she's not desperate (she first texted me an hour after I got off work the first night, which was like 2 hours after I saw her), but I did tell her to text me.

She asked me the best time to call. I work 2 jobs and don't have a lot of free time (plus I didn't really want to talk to her) so I told her texting me was the best way to get ahold of me.

 

[The Lizard]

Most normal people would take the hint when they don't get responses to their texts.

 

[jaguarr]

PIITB.

jag

 

[Showtime]

Just say you have a girlfriend?

 

[amazingfantasy15]

My ex fiance used to have a fake number that she'd give out...the "rejection hotline"...some automated thing saying how the person who gave you this number has no interest in you whatsoever, and it even gave you options on how to deal with the rejection ("if you would like to write a sad poem, press 3").

I heard about that on the news once, my sister said she used to use it.

 

[Darthphere]

So at work the other night, this girl comes into my store with her friend. My co-worker and one of his buddies come up talking to me about how this girl likes me or whatever, and I'm just shrugging it off, thinking that they are playing - until she comes up to me talking about how I need some "brown sugar" in my life.

Her and I start talking, and I'm really not impressed. I'm not feeling it. She's young, trying too hard, and not particularly attractive. So I finally get around to getting back to work, and as she leaves, she asks for my number. I'm still unsure as to the reasoning why I do, but I give it to her. I guess I was just trying to be nice.

So today is day 3 since I've given her my number, and I have as many messages from her. Text, that is. She's texted me everyday since. I haven't responded back yet - I've been working or partying since. But I don't feel like responding back. I'm not really interested.

So whenever a girl gives me her number, and I call or text, and don't respond, well, now I know how they feel. Not interested, but, I guess simply put, not man enough to say as much. *sigh*

Incredible piece of fiction. Riveting.

 

[Ghostvirus]

Or you could have just not given her your number, if your *****e ass wasn't going to respond to her. Passive aggressive *****s piss me off. Grow a pair & tell them you aren't interested next time.

 

[amazingfantasy15]

Or you could have just not given her your number, if your *****e ass wasn't going to respond to her. Passive aggressive *****s piss me off. Grow a pair & tell them you aren't interested next time.

Seems like someone's a little bitter.

 

[SuBe]

PIITB.

jag

Second.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

When people pester me, and they ask for my number, I just get theirs instead. It puts the ball in my court, and then I simply never call them again.

 

[AndThePickles]

NEVER give a girl you don't like your number

 

[Bnightwing]

I know giving the number thing I gave mine to a girl and she always texted me I responded one time and when I saw her again I said my phone was jacked up or something

 

[DOG LIPS]

PIITB.

jag

Hell yeah, Put It In Text, Baby.

 

[Twin2]

Or you could have just not given her your number, if your *****e ass wasn't going to respond to her. Passive aggressive *****s piss me off. Grow a pair & tell them you aren't interested next time.

You're that girl aren't you.

 

[The Spawn]

Depending on where you live, use one of these next time:

* 404-260-1318 Atlanta
* 617-861-3962 Boston
* 312-588-3108 Chicago
* 972-836-0066 Dallas
* 816-298-0420 Kansas City
* 310-735-0099 Los Angeles
* 212-660-2245 New York City
* 415-228-0207 San Francisco
* 206-494-0827 Seattle

 

[Motown Marvel]

girl: hey, can i get your number.
guy: ha, im not so sure my girlfriend would appreciate that.

done.

 

[Silverstein]

I hate when someone asks you for your number, but then they check it right in front of you. So it's because of that...that you have to give a real number. I usually just say my phone is broke or off, but I hate lying.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

girl: hey, can i get your number.
guy: ha, im not so sure my girlfriend would appreciate that.

done.

I sure shoulda done that.

Especially considering that I hate it when girls give me their numbers, only to ignore my calls cuz they weren't interested to begin with.

*sigh*

I suck.

 

[OctaviusINC]

Don't be so hard on yourself, man. It's just part of life. It happens to everyone.

She'll stop texting you...

Spoiler

when she commits suicide because she realizes you don't like her.

Spoiler

Sorry I had to. But seriously. She'll move on...like you did.

 

[The Spawn]

Spoiler

...move on to the afterlife?

 

[Eggyman]

Don't be so hard on yourself, man. It's just part of life. It happens to everyone.

She'll stop texting you...

Spoiler

when she commits suicide because she realizes you don't like her.

Spoiler

Sorry I had to. But seriously. She'll move on...like you did.

I wonder if she'll take her shoes off.