Honestly, in my opinion the hateful God is the one described in your bible, and by the majority of it's followers. As for those followers, there are exceptions, as with all things... I've met cool people who happened to be handicapped with a belief in God and the bible. But they worked through it, best they could. By looking on the bright side of things, and not burdening their intelligent friends with any attempts at "saving them" from their skeptical views on that dinosaur-bone-hiding-mularky.... (intelligent skepticism - something I think any God in His right mind should respect and not condemn to eternal suffering)
Maybe that stuff is true and I'm going to burn in hell forever... christ, I can only stand working out for like 30 minutes, so it's going to be a long hard haul. An eternity of shoveling burning coals and being molested by pitchfork wielding devils...Sorta like a never ending Blue Man Group show, only Red...and with pitchforks and more molestation. I don't think I'll be able to take it, man. But, I still can't force myself to believe in that hogwash... I hope God will understand. Besides, all the cool kids will be in Hell. Sure, there'll be some jerks like Hitler and Charles Manson, but at least there'll be alot more rockstars and artists than child-molesting priests and corrupt ego-maniacal politicians.
Look, I'll tell you the problem with God's power: it didn't require any discipline to attain it. He read what others had done and He took the next step. He didn't earn the knowledge for Himself, so He won't take any responsibility... for it. He stood on the shoulders of geniuses to accomplish something as fast as He could and before He even knew He had... He patented it and packaged it and slapped it on a plastic lunchbox, and now He's selling it, He wants to sell it!
Hey, I'll admit it = I was overwhelmed by the power of the Lord; but I made a mistake, too. I didn't have enough respect for that power and it's out now. The only thing that matters now are the people we love: Bill Murray, Danny Elfman, that sax guy from 'America's Got Talent'....Laura Dern.... Squeek, they're out there where people are dying.