Bored of Sex

[PyroChamber]

This is going to sound a bit strange, but is it actually possible for someone to get bored of, or sick of, sex; as if sex is just useless to them now?

 

[Shedhut]

did you have too much?

 

[Dew k. Mosi]

maybe you are just doing it wrong

 

[Shedhut]

lol, i almost answered "ask Dew, she'll have the answer" in my previous postt:

 

[Eggyman]

It's more fun with teh clothes off

 

[Joker]

If any guys are bored with sex, send your women to me. Don't worry I'm not going to sleep with the...I'll be up all night!









Man, recycled DX jokes rule

 

[LexCorp]

This is going to sound a bit strange, but is it actually possible for someone to get bored of, or sick of, sex; as if sex is just useless to them now?

Depends

I never get bored

Who most likely are not good at it or have not found partners you interest you enough.

That or you are to smart for sex and rely on a mental connection.

 

[Sugarculted]

You can never be bored of it, unless you're not doing it right

 

[Danalys]

there's like a spectrum that goes from nyphomanic to asexual.

 

[Monster]

It's been four months without sex for me.

 

[LexCorp]

You can never be bored of it, unless you're not doing it right

My words exactly.

 

[Odin's Lapdog]

That's all nonesense, of course you can get bored of sex.

What I would probably say is cut back on it and build up a case of heavy ball-itis.

perhaps spice things up abit, be a bit more adventurous with your locations or spontaneous about when you have it.

dress up, make your partner jealous by giving the impression that someone is attracted to you.

you'd be amazed how much your partner could like you if she believes that another woman may have a chance of taking your attention.

it's all about re-ignition. Anything that is done purely out of routine is bound to get mundane, even sex.

You'd be slightly surprised by how much I do turn it down for the sake of keeping things alive in the future and keeping it spontaneous.

Good Luck

 

[LexCorp]

That's all nonesense, of course you can get bored of sex.

What I would probably say is cut back on it and build up a case of heavy ball-itis.

perhaps spice things up abit, be a bit more adventurous with your locations or spontaneous about when you have it.

dress up, make your partner jealous by giving the impression that someone is attracted to you.

you'd be amazed how much your partner could like you if she believes that another woman may have a chance of taking your attention.

it's all about re-ignition. Anything that is done purely out of routine is bound to get mundane, even sex.

You'd be slightly surprised by how much I do turn it down for the sake of keeping things alive in the future and keeping it spontaneous.

Good Luck

The voice of reason.

 

[J-Sentius]

Symptoms of a Sex change?

 

[LexCorp]

Symptoms of a Sex change?

Nice newbie.

In all honesty he is correct

 

[ActuallyRobin]

This is going to sound a bit strange, but is it actually possible for someone to get bored of, or sick of, sex; as if sex is just useless to them now?

I don't follow....

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

This is going to sound a bit strange, but is it actually possible for someone to get bored of, or sick of, sex; as if sex is just useless to them now?

Well, since you are probably trying to have a mature discussion about this I'll take the bait. I do believe it is possible for somebody to get bored with sex for numerous reasons. Like all wants too much of it can start to get almost routine and unexciting with almost no variety. I'm of the philosophy that sex is always better if you take a vacation from it to let desire build when you've starved yourself. In an allegorical sense let's compare sex to a good meal. Don't you find the best food you've ever eaten tastes much better after you've had nothing to eat? Apply this to sexual relations and you can see where I'm coming from. Not making sex a routine and just being spontaneous about it will in effect avoid one getting bored of having too much repetitious sex. Also hormones play a huge role in the loss of intimacy as well, especially as human beings reach a point of reproductive inactivity. Hormone changes always alter the hormones that control sexual desires when they stop producing them.

*edit* Just thought of another factor here, which I believe is less about getting bored with sex and more of a psychological effect. I believe there's a large cross section of people in the world who are just afraid of getting intimately involved with another person because they've been emotionally hurt by partners in the past. So much so that they shy away from such close contact with another human being to protect their psyches from more emotional trauma and scarred trust mechanisms.

 

[LexCorp]

Well, since you are probably trying to have a mature discussion about this I'll take the bait. I do believe it is possible for somebody to get bored with sex for numerous reasons. Like all wants too much of it can start to get almost routine and unexciting with almost no variety. I'm of the philosophy that sex is always better if you take a vacation from it to let desire build when you've starved yourself. In an allegorical sense let's compare sex to a good meal. Don't you find the best food you've ever eaten tastes much better after you've had nothing to eat? Apply this to sexual relations and you can see where I'm coming from. Not making sex a routine and just being spontaneous about it will in effect avoid one getting bored of having too much repetitious sex. Also hormones play a huge role in the loss of intimacy as well, especially as human beings reach a point of reproductive inactivity. Hormone changes always alter the hormones that control sexual desires when they stop producing them.

I find after three years the sex life slows down, but not by much in my case.

Just keeping ontop of the spontanious moments. Grabbing her by the waist for a hug. The little things just spark sex much easier than one would think.

 

[demento]

Try mixing it up a bit. For example, do it doggy style so that you can both watch TV or play Xbox.

 

[LexCorp]

Try mixing it up a bit. For example, do it doggy style so that you can both watch TV or play Xbox.

lol

Xbox.

Bottom line do not let your self go. Get fat or ugly and it goes out the window.

Of course not sepaking from experince.

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

I find after three years the sex life slows down, but not by much in my case.

Just keeping ontop of the spontanious moments. Grabbing her by the waist for a hug. The little things just spark sex much easier than one would think.

I think the majority of guys (Not saying all guys though.) don't realize just how potent a little physical contact all throughout the day like a caress will work wonders on a woman. It's the little things that show me my man cares about me...well when I have one. Something guys might think seems insignificant like stroking their girlfriend's hair or a passionate gaze while eating dinner aren't as meaningless to a woman as they'd think. Also spontaneity can actually apply to when you have sex as well. Too many people tend to treat the act as a scribble in their appointment book, like scheduling sex only for Saturdays or something like that. It's best to not make sex as routine as a work schedule. Just keep your partner guessing so that anticipation builds then surprise your partner when you have enough time to devout to each other. This is especially difficult when kids are an equation so if you are the initiator and you have children, make sure you find a babysitter so you can have some time for each other every now and again.

 

[LexCorp]

I think the majority of guys (Not saying all guys though.) don't realize just how potent a little physical contact all throughout the day like a caress will work wonders on a woman. It's the little things that show me my man cares about me...well when I have one. Something guys might think seems insignificant like stroking their girlfriend's hair or a passionate gaze while eating dinner aren't as meaningless to a woman as they'd think. Also spontaneity can actually apply to when you have sex as well. Too many people tend to treat the act as a scribble in their appointment book, like scheduling sex only for Saturdays or something like that. It's best to not make sex as routine as a work schedule. Just keep your partner guessing so that anticipation builds then surprise your partner when you have enough time to devout to each other. This is especially difficult when kids are an equation so if you are the initiator and you have children, make sure you find a babysitter so you can have some time for each other every now and again.

For real. OK try not to laugh to hard but in the kitchen I burnt my ass - not really bad just like touching a hot kettle for a brief second - on the hot kitchen counter when getting physical....I backed up to it ....ouch lol

 

[Knightsaber Priss]

For real. OK try not to laugh to hard but in the kitchen I burnt my ass - not really bad just like touching a hot kettle for a brief second - on the hot kitchen counter when getting physical....I backed up to it ....ouch lol

Did you cover it up by saying you were just experimenting in a bit of S&M?

 

[Erzengel]

I'd rather be having sex than working right now.

 

[KALEL114]

Variety is the spice of life. Change it up. It can never get boring, just some couples just fall into a routine.