Complaints

[S_H_F_4839]

Ok Casey I know exactly what your getting at now. 1) We don't wanna see overweight 300 pound women naked,so we don't wanna see ALL women naked. 2) Guys don't wanna make friends with women who don't want anything to do with them cause that will just be self torture "Wow,Casey is sooo great to be with and she's getting cuter by the moment,but she doesn't wanna date me..ever,so I'll just stop talking to her and quit torturing myself and get over her,out of sight,out of mind"

I've seen a three hundred pound woman naked, and I tell you I am never drinking again.

Okay, so I think I'm starting to get this now .. what you seem to be saying is, guys look at girls as "girlfriend potential." If she's got girlfriend potential, then they don't want to be just friends. They'd rather not have anything to do with her. But if she doesn't have girlfriend potential, they they are okay being friends, I guess. But they still want to see her naked. t:

Meh. You guys are confusing.

Cuz what if she's not single? What is she's just some great girl you work with or the girlfriend of a buddy? You are attracted to her, but she's taken so you wouldn't act on that attraction. So now, can you just be friends with her or what?

only if your friends with the guy shes with, because most guys and I say this broadly will not hook up with a girl they know is dating a friend of theirs.

 

[sithgoblin]

Post your complaints, here. Here's mine: Why is it that men can't be friends with women? Why must every association with women, no matter how mundane, platonic or professional, be fraught with sexual tension? You men know you can't have a relationship and/or sex with every woman on the planet, so why can't you just settle for being friends with a few of them? There are guys I like, a lot, I think they're great and enjoy their company, their perspective on things, their senses of humor, their intelligent discourse .. but it seems like it's impossible to simply maintain that type of friendly relationship. Why oh why must it be this way?

P.S. I blame men.

Because it's natural instinct for men to want to spread their seed. Survival of the species. If guys see a young healthy pretty woman, they are attracted to her and natural insticts kick into play. Afterall, we're all just animals.

 

[terry78]

Yes, whenever I see a girl, sometimes i do wonder what our kids will look like. I don't know if that's just instinct or just weird.

 

[terry78]

When people do something wrong and use the excuse, "there are people doing worse things in the world and you're focusing on me?" It's just a way to divert attention from what you did.

 

[Shuley]

*Sings* You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals,so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel"

 

[AndThePickles]

*Sings* You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals,so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel"

Ever since I read this post earlier, that song has been stuck in my head

 

[AndThePickles]

Post your complaints, here. Here's mine: Why is it that men can't be friends with women? Why must every association with women, no matter how mundane, platonic or professional, be fraught with sexual tension? You men know you can't have a relationship and/or sex with every woman on the planet, so why can't you just settle for being friends with a few of them? There are guys I like, a lot, I think they're great and enjoy their company, their perspective on things, their senses of humor, their intelligent discourse .. but it seems like it's impossible to simply maintain that type of friendly relationship. Why oh why must it be this way?

P.S. I blame men.

It can be difficult, but keep trying! I have a lot of guy friends. I think it helps that they know I'm in a relationship, and most are also friends with my boyfriend.

Until you find a straight guy who can be "just friends" though, start hanging out with more gay men!

 

[Shuley]

It can be difficult, but keep trying! I have a lot of guy friends. I think it helps that they know I'm in a relationship, and most are also friends with my boyfriend.

Until you find a straight guy who can be "just friends" though, start hanging out with more gay men!

Women can learn alot from a gay guy.

 

[DBella]

It can be difficult, but keep trying! I have a lot of guy friends. I think it helps that they know I'm in a relationship, and most are also friends with my boyfriend.

Until you find a straight guy who can be "just friends" though, start hanging out with more gay men!

Women can learn alot from a gay guy.

I have 3 close friends who are gay. One is more... feminine but the other 2, looking at them and just watching them, you can't tell that they're gay and women love 'em! But anyway, yeah, they're fun to hang out with coz they seem to understand women quite well. You can get close to them without any sexual tension but sometimes, I've observed, it's the women who go ga-ga over them ("Why'd you have to be gay? ")

 

[hammy]

Because it's natural instinct for men to want to spread their seed. Survival of the species. If guys see a young healthy pretty woman, they are attracted to her and natural insticts kick into play. Afterall, we're all just animals.

t: Sith.

 

[tzarinna]

I'd like to complain about all these grey hairs that seem to have popped up all through my head.
Last week was stressful trying to get all my **** together for the house for the lender/underwriters. Now since I've been laid off all my rushing may have been in vain, this may all be delayed. I want to get it over with and start my ****ing life in my new house damn it.

 

[Poetic Chaos]

I'd like to complain about homeless people. I had an incident this weekend. I'm walking to the train to get picked up and this homeless guy starts talking it up with me and walking with me. I give him the only thing I had on me, 75 cents that was gonna go to bus fare before I got a ride. So after I give him every last bit of dough I got he has the audacity to say "anything would help, it sounds like you got another 50 cents in there."

I wanted to punch his homeless face and get my money back. They're exactly like South Park depicted them.

 

[tzarinna]

No shame in their game.

 

[kedrell]

^A lot of them are that way yes, and I hate them as well. But not all of them. I just spent the last 6 months homeless and I never asked anyone for any money. I'd have been too embarrassed.

 

[Poetic Chaos]

And forget about it if they see you wearing a cross, which I was.

 

[kedrell]

"Eat $h!t and die" is about what my standard response is to them.

 

[tzarinna]

You two are ruthless.

 

[Poetic Chaos]

It made me remember a particular scene in American Psycho

 

[tzarinna]

,

 

[kedrell]

You two are ruthless.

Well considering I was in the exact same situation as they are when they were asking me all the time, I don't see the problem. I must've been the only homeless guy in America(or at least California) who had other homeless people coming to bum money off of.

 

[hammy]

I just spent the last 6 months homeless and I never asked anyone for any money. I'd have been too embarrassed.

I was going to give you a little comforting pat

and then I saw this:

"Eat $h!t and die" is about what my standard response is to them.

 

[kedrell]

Well thanks for the thought anyway, but I kinda don't have any tolerence for panhandlers. Yes, you can be homeless and not do it. And it's their attitude that they deserve your money that bugs me the most.

 

[Poetic Chaos]

Why even beg for money? Why not beg for work like the illegals That I can respect.

 

[Hotwire]

A couple complaints.

1. How the hell did a typo get turned into an internet slang word? Someone meant to type "owned" and somehow it became "pwnt." This I can understand, but for millions of mindless geeks to follow suit and keep typing it that way? Sad. Very, very sad. And this leads me to number 2.

2. How on Earth did a prison fashion style designed to let other men know you were "available", become a trend for so many other guys in this country? The whole "baggy-pants-showing-off-my-boxers" style was started as a way for gay prisoners to advertise! And millions of idiots are wearing there pants this way, right now! At least I get some fun out of watching COPS when these morons try to escape the police, and can't get away because of their pants.

-steps down off soap box.

 

[kedrell]

Oh they beg for cigarettes the most. I was homeless by choice(I just don't like work), and I know from observing them that a lot of them aren't there due to being crazy or anything like that. I'm fine with that as long as they don't panhandle.