May is the least able person to have undertaken this process, my central blame lies with Cameron and why he hasn't been brought to task in this period I've no idea, his actions and subsequent 'run for it' when it all went south was a disgrace. No one in the Tories believed for a minute the country would vote to leave in 2016, they thought remain was nailed on and so had to devise a crock of sh** to be seen to have something prepared.
May is not a leader, she has zero capacity to shoulder responsibility, see any options beyond her own or share and discuss, or feel or see anybody else's feelings, she's basically a sociopath
Lets hope Monday brings about 3 options from the main list, personally I've always been remain, what gets me is the arrogance of TM and her party, to believe the EU owes us anything, we are leaving them NOT the other way round, we are the minority and cannot expect all that we 'want', the main issue was that a leave was 'sold' on us (the public) not noticing the difference, all rights and personal access would be the same, of course that was never going to the case.
The EU are simply looking at it (hence why all the extensions and some part of the reason why they've allowed debate to continue) is the finance, they are looking at the funding gap that us leaving would mean and then who would fill it.