Do Women need to be More Aggressive, or Less?

[GoldenAgeHero]

You mean people who post stuff about their "friend" are actually posting about themselves? Not a surprise there Johnny.

i was'nt getting at that. i was referring to my past relationship threads.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

That's rather sad really, because even if you succeed in creating the "perfect" life, it is unlikely to remain "perfect" forever. What is "perfect" today will eventually wear out / break / change over time. It is wonderful to want to work for a better future, but don't lose out on the opportunities available to you now/today for something that may never come to be.

well im not striving for a perfect life, just want to get myself situated.

 

[Erzengel]

I'm kinda surprised you broke it off Johnny. I think I'm going to start calling you Johnny btw.

But in the end, you will be finishing up college. Will you be taking your EIT soon? Then some sort of entry level job? Your life is about to get a lot more complicated and you should be dating somone who is more supportive.

 

[AndThePickles]

Nothing worse then timid Pickles eh Spoons?... wait... that came out wrong...

Good thing I'm aggressive then lol.

Hell, I'm the one who approached Spoons in terms of being interested in him.

 

[Erzengel]

ATP: Hi.
Spoons: Hi.
ATP: I'm interested in you.
Spoons: Sorry but I really don't have a time for a gf right now.
ATP: I wasn't asking.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

lol

 

[BRUTAL]

Lawl

 

[AndThePickles]

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

LOOK out

 

[terry78]

ATP: Hi.
Spoons: Hi.
ATP: I'm interested in you.
Spoons: Sorry but I really don't have a time for a gf right now.
ATP: I wasn't asking.

We all know that's how it went.

 

[Kritish]

 

[AndThePickles]

We all know that's how it went.

Lol.

I actually wouldn't have expressed interest if I couldn't already tell he was interested in me

 

[BRUTAL]

Spoiler

 

[DBella]

I want you. I must have you. Do not even attempt to resist for it will be futile. Surrender now.

^Is that too aggressive?

 

[BRUTAL]

You scare me...

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Lol.

I actually wouldn't have expressed interest if I couldn't already tell he was interested in me

Is that right?

 

[terry78]

Is that right?

The erection scene from Anchorman springs to mind.

ATP: OMG.

CS: What?

ATP: You have...an enormous erection right now.

CS: I do?

 

[BRUTAL]

It was funny in the movie...

 

[AndThePickles]

Is that right?

Yes, that's damn right

 

[Arkady Rossovich]

The original is one of the movies i have seen recently.That is how things should be now.

Why dont American men just take women?Why bother with a relationship..oh right..i forgot,rape is not legal yet........

 

[heypapajinx]

Some women need to be more agressive.
Some women need to be less agressive.

Most people just need to learn to accept other people for who they are and not try to change them.

I think some of the real reasons for fewer longterm commitments (marriages) are as follows:
1. Many believe they can do better (looking for that perfect someone that only exists in movies / on T.V. / in a fantasy).
2. Many are more selfish (don't want to give up their "freedoms", "rights" and co-operate with anyone else).
3. Many aren't sure where / when it's safe to meet someone (dating services are getting a lot more common, as are mail-order marriages)
4. Many people are delaying meeting / committing to someone until their own life is "perfect" and then finding it is either too late or they don't want to make a change to their "perfect" life.

THANK YOU!!
my point exactly!!!
you can't just BLAME all the problems of "long term relationships" NOT working out on the demure behavior of SOME women.
*rips off clothes*
now feel free to stick that $5 dollars in my crotch.

 

[Abaddon]

I like when women are assertive when it comes to showing interest. I don't like that game laying **** where it's like "ooohh, come and get me big boy. if you want me you'll have to fight for me." whatever *****. I don't need you that bad.

 

[Cаrter]

Women need to be more aggressive.

Every other chick who has dug me at one point either:

A. Never told me to my face
B. Was so ****ing subtle about it that I didn't realize what was going on until an hour after we parted company
C. Smiles at you but expects you to make a move.

 

[Abaddon]

The original is one of the movies i have seen recently.That is how things should be now.

Why dont American men just take women?Why bother with a relationship..oh right..i forgot,rape is not legal yet........

shut up. how old are you? you make lots of dumb comments. I worry about you.

 

[Spider-Gamer]

Yes, that's damn right

Somebody is showing aggressiveness.