Friends...How many of us need them

[Movies205]

Like I said, I got boys I chill with. I don't do that, "dude, you are like my best friend, omg, let's go get our nails done" type of thing. The weekend comes, I may be like, "ya'll wanna do something?" Very casual.

Different strokes for different people... To say that you don't need friends is wierd since human beings are social by their very nature. However I fail to see the point in having a hundred different friends, I like to have a couple of good friends that I can call every now and then hang out in between my periods of work. But again... I think being friendless is lame Also am I the only one who's never had a friend back-stab him? I mean it's pretty easy to spot an *******

 

[nosebleed.]

Like I said, I got boys I chill with. I don't do that, "dude, you are like my best friend, omg, let's go get our nails done" type of thing. The weekend comes, I may be like, "ya'll wanna do something?" Very casual.

I'm sort of the same way...but when we chill we have a blast. Its always cool when we all kick it. But when I'm not kicking it I don't really feel the need to and sort of dread having to do it again. Sort of like when I'm by myself I really enjoy it also...I love my "me" time. Is it wrong to have an "out of sight out of mind" attitude?

 

[nosebleed.]

Also am I the only one who's never had a friend back-stab him? I mean it's pretty easy to spot an *******

Been done to me before, so I guess that's part of my hesitancy to get really close to someone.

 

[Movies205]

Been done to me before, so I guess that's part of my hesitancy to get really close to someone.

Sometimes it just happens though... I think I've been lucky, that and I don't think I've ever given anyone anything to use to backstab me with.

 

[SWAT]

I got people I call friends... But, I don't hang out with them that much. I like being with myself.

 

[Abaddon]

I'm sort of the same way...but when we chill we have a blast. Its always cool when we all kick it. But when I'm not kicking it I don't really feel the need to and sort of dread having to do it again. Sort of like when I'm by myself I really enjoy it also...I love my "me" time. Is it wrong to have an "out of sight out of mind" attitude?

I'm sort of the same way. I don't like to feel like I ever need anyone.

 

[nosebleed.]

I'm sort of the same way. I don't like to feel like I ever need anyone.

Yeah, but I feel like a dick sometimes because they want to kick it and I'm like, "Meh...maybe later".




Maybe I'm just extremely lazy.

 

[Abaddon]

I just realized I used the same first line you used to reply to your quote.

 

[nosebleed.]

I just realized I used the same first line you used to reply to your quote.

If you're asking to be my friend then I've got to tell you that I don't really feel like kicking it right now...I need some "me" time.

 

[CyberFaust]

friends are hard to come by
i have a handful of friendsat best. And i know lots of people, and am friendly with but i wouldn't count them as friends

 

[Abaddon]

If you're asking to be my friend then I've got to tell you that I don't really feel like kicking it right now...I need some "me" time.

Fine.

Come on Cyberfaust, we're going to the movies.

 

[CyberFaust]

transformers!
you're buying

 

[Abaddon]

we're sneaking in.

 

[CyberFaust]

even better!

 

[ServantofAllah]

I used to have proper friends, but now there are just dudes i ''chill'' with.

besides in the end you die ALONE.

 

[CyberFaust]

and taht just makes it all better, does it?

 

[Erzengel]

My friends are my family. I had people marvel at the things I've done, helped my friends with in the past, however, I've never thought it was going out of my way. I just thought that's what friends do.

My view on friends has inavertantly skewed other people's view of their friends. People who've had friends treat them ****ty and they see how my friends and I are, and they realized that maybe they weren't as good as friends as they thought.

I know everyone is different and everyone's standards are not the same and finally not everyone makes a good friend, but friends are there when it counts and if you are one of those who are like "friends backstab you, blah blah" just have had crappy friends or never had any real good ones.

 

[nosebleed.]

I know everyone is different and everyone's standards are not the same and finally not everyone makes a good friend, but friends are there when it counts and if you are one of those who are like "friends backstab you, blah blah" just have had crappy friends or never had any real good ones.

I don't know. As much as I used to love a couple of my friends (whom I said were my brothers) they wound up disappointing me with their loyalty. On my 20th b-day my BEST friend, whom I would KILL and DIE for back in the day...slept with my then fiance when we were on a "break". I'm not going to get into the gory details (which I've pretty much summed up in that last sentence) but he was my boy...we were inseparable. I couldn't imagine what was going through his mind...he had never come close to slipping before that. Maybe my ex was too much of a flirt for him to handle...I didn't even talk to her after that. I guess in the end he wasn't really my friend...and I won't ever go through something like that again.

 

[The Batman]

I make it a point not to have "close" friends. IMO, eventually, the fact that you have that friend who you tell stuff will come back and smack you in the face. Most of the time, most of the "Friends" I have talk smack about their other friends in some way, so I make sure no one knows anything about my personal life.

There was a time i regretted not being "close" to anyone...but i realized that it was more my "grass is greener" mentality than actually wanting human connection. I enjoy people, but from a distance...

 

[Orko Is King]

what are friends? friends are really your enemies with secret identities that hide thier true colors. so just when you think ya'll close enough to be brothers, they want to come back and backstab you.

And sodomize your mother with pineapples!

 

[Erzengel]

I don't know. As much as I used to love a couple of my friends (whom I said were my brothers) they wound up disappointing me with their loyalty. On my 20th b-day my BEST friend, whom I would KILL and DIE for back in the day...slept with my then fiance when we were on a "break". I'm not going to get into the gory details (which I've pretty much summed up in that last sentence) but he was my boy...we were inseparable. I couldn't imagine what was going through his mind...he had never come close to slipping before that. Maybe my ex was too much of a flirt for him to handle...I didn't even talk to her after that. I guess in the end he wasn't really my friend...and I won't ever go through something like that again.

Like I said, not everyone makes a good friends. I guess others are just luckier.

 

[Ghostvirus]

what are friends? friends are really your enemies with secret identities that hide thier true colors. so just when you think ya'll close enough to be brothers, they want to come back and backstab you.

That's Rock Bottom.

 

[Kritish]

Right wrong or indifferent I'm not a very social person.

 

[Abaddon]

I could hardly tell

 

[Ghostvirus]

Friends I have. A woman is my deficiency.