I always feel odd at weddings but that's usually because I'm not invited and don't know anyone.![]()
Weddings are super odd when you dont have a date. Im not sure how much you're reading into it or how litteral their reasons are.
Its not uncommon for singles to be seated together
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Anna Kendrick ✔ @AnnaKendrick47
Finger crossed Danny's shorts get smaller with every cut away #GreaseLive
Oh my gosh I watched him last night. He's so dreamy. His hips are made of wow.
Hey I have my first official date this Saturday? What should I do when I meet him? Shake his hand or just wave hi? Or hug him?
Actually ginger spice said in the best movie ever some monkeys pee on each other to show attraction but I assume this would be an incorrect option to go with?
Think ProgressTaylor Victor will now be allowed to wear a T-shirt that identifies her as a lesbian, after reaching a settlement with her school district that resulted in an update to the student dress code.
Last fall, Victor wore a shirt to her Northern California school that read, Nobody knows Im a lesbian. She said she wore it ironically because she is open about her sexuality. The administration reprimanded her and gave a slew of defenses for that decision, saying the T-shirt was disruptive an open invitation to sex, could be gang-related, and that students couldnt wear shirts that stated their personal choices and beliefs.
In response, Victor sued two administration officials with the representation of the ACLU. The Manteca Unified School District reached a settlement with the ACLU this week. Although the school district denied wrongdoing, it agreed to change its dress code to make it clear that students can wear clothes that support either their own identities on the basis of sexual orientation, gender, race, religion and other identities, or support their classmates identities, without retribution from the administration.
The acknowledgement of identities broader than sexual orientation makes sense given previous statements made by an administrator regarding other messages that wouldnt be allowed on shirts. In a post for Medium, Victor said the assistant principal also told ACLU lawyers that T-shirts with messages such as I support interracial marriage and I support evolution could be considered against the dress code.
The school district also agreed to protect Victor from any harassment that may result of wearing the shirt, to train its administrators on student expression, and to pay over $60,000 in attorneys fees and costs for the ACLU of Northern California.
Settlements like these are important because they show administrators that attempts to restrict LGBT students pride in their identities, and allies support of their identities, are not legally feasible. Although administrators attempt to use the popular claim that LGBT-themed T-shirts are disruptive, since disruption to student learning has been cited by the U.S. Supreme Court in the 1969 Tinker v. Des Moines case as a legitimate reason for limiting student expression, it usually cant be applied in this scenario. It could be seen as discriminating against a certain point of view if other messages are allowed on T-shirts, and it is becoming more difficult for administrators to argue a shirt supporting LGBT people is actually disruptive.
Lewdness, another standard for administration interference in student speech, is also a popular argument in these scenarios. One administrator claimed Victors T-shirt was an invitation to sex. But stating ones sexuality and making a specific reference to sexual acts themselves are two different things, as Victor said she tried to explain to the administrator when the incident occurred.
Many other LGBT students are still encountering restrictions on their free speech, and these stories quickly gain national attention through news sites and social media. Just a month before Victors incident, it was reported that a lesbian student, Briana Popour, was suspended at Chesnee High School in South Carolina for wearing the exact same T-shirt as Victor.
The students mother told a local television station that an administrator said he does not like people in his school wearing anything that says anything about lesbians, gays or bisexuals. The school overturned the suspension, with the school district spokesperson Rhonda Henderson stating to U.S. News and World Report that the administration realized that although the shirt was offensive and distracting to some adults in the building, the students were paying it little attention.
Administrators also used the disruption defense in the case of Texas students wearing Gay O.K. T-shirts to discourage bullying of gay students. They claimed the T-shirts were disruptive to student learning, although legal experts say the disruption was probably perpetrated not by students, but administrators, since they chose to line students outside the cafeteria and asked them to turn the shirts inside out, drawing considerably more attention than the shirts would have on their own. A spokesperson eventually released a statement saying that the administrators should not have asked students to take off or change shirts.
CNNJust like any other high school senior, 18-year-old Thomas Lewis is looking forward to life after graduation.
He's considering attending the University of Minnesota in the fall and studying linguistics, something his mother thinks might be his true calling due to his love of languages.
However, while other teens at Lincoln High School in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, might be thinking right now about prom and graduation day, Lewis has been taking time off from school to appeal to the state legislature and Gov. Dennis Daugaard -- speaking out against a bill that could affect him and other transgender students.
Lewis was born a girl, but says he began to identify more as a boy when he was about 4 years old. He now lives openly as a boy, with the support of his family and friends.
He's hoping to persuade Daugaard to reject a proposed measure that would restrict the use of school restrooms and locker rooms to students of the same biological sex, meaning transgender students would have to use the restroom of the sex they were born with, not the one with which they identify now.
The legislation -- which passed the South Dakota Senate last week by a 20-15 vote -- says that students who don't identify as their biological gender may not use facilities designated for students of the opposite sex when those students might be present. Transgender students will instead be provided with a "reasonable accommodation" -- defined in the proposal as the use of "a single-occupancy restroom, a unisex restroom, or the controlled use of a restroom, locker room, or shower room that is designated for use by faculty."
It also orders that no "undue hardship" be placed on a school district -- possibly referring to the construction of separate restrooms -- and explains that private schools are exempt from the "reasonable accommodation" clause.
The governor told reporters Thursday that he's still going through testimony and documents, as well as considering what he's heard from the bill's proponents and those opposing it. Daugaard said he will continue deliberating through this weekend, even as hometown friends come in for a long-ago planned visit.
He must sign it into law or veto it by March 1 -- but if he does nothing, the measure will become law without his signature, making South Dakota the first state in the country to restrict bathroom and locker room use by transgender people.
"I have until Tuesday," Daugaard said of his decision. "... I want to do it well. I certainly want to do it as quickly as possible, but it's most important to do it well."
'I'm being that voice for them'
It's not clear how many transgender students there are in South Dakota. Many are afraid to go public with their gender identity for fear of reprisals and worries about alienating friends and family members.
Lewis recently appeared before a state committee to tell legislators why he thinks the proposed law would be harmful. He said he's speaking out for other transgender students at his school who are not "completely out like me."
"I'm being that voice for them," he said.
The bill makes him feel that he's "not human enough to use the bathroom with everyone else," Lewis told CNN this week while sitting at home after school, playing with his four cats. "I mean, you can make a third bathroom by isolating me with other transgender students in a place where it's easier to get picked on. It's like having to go off into the problem box."
Lewis' mom, Rachiel Reurink, said she's so proud of him.
"My son is awesome. I mean, it is so fortunate that he sees that he has support and can say 'I am in a safe place, I am going to fight for people who aren't in that place,'" she said. Her husband, Lewis' stepfather, died just two months ago, leaving her to raise Thomas and his teenage brother alone.