They're just people, dude.
They're human beings. They poo and pick their noses and smell bad under their arms occasionally just like everyone.
And one look at the covers of all the Women's Magazines will tell you that they get insecure and afraid that they suck in bed or that their breasts are too small, or that they don't know how to make a man happy or that they'll never measure up, and they laugh when someone farts and they like cartoons and they get jealous and
What's to be afraid of?
And will you meet one that makes you happier than anything or anyone on Earth, and then lose her to some ass**** and want to die because life becomes nothing but throbbing misery?
Yep.
Just like everything cool, fun, beautiful or fulfilling.....you will lose it, whether it's in 2 weeks, or when you die.
You have to relax and live in the Now. There will be phenomenally great stuff and almost unbearably bad stuff. You enjoy the good stuff, and endure the bad stuff.
OR, you watch it all go by while you stagnate, like an observer of an exhibit at a museum, always wondering how the stuff on the other side of the glass feels, and smells.
And people who talk so loud on their cell phones that everyone in a 50' radius can hear them. Like cell phones are some new fangled gadget and they want everyone to see how cool they are cause they've got one. 
