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When I was 19 I dated a girl who was 16 for a bit.. I didn't have a problem with it but after a while I started to go out on a weekly basis and she got pissed off with it and I realised that I wanted someone I could go out with and we called it off...
I'm now 20 and the youngest I'd go, on a dating basis, is probably only 18, 17 if I really liked the girl.. Oldest is 23/24. If we're talking only going with or getting together for a one off thing then if I am been honest the lowest I'd go is 16 (if she was hot) and any age up to sort of 35 lol.
I personally don't see any problem sleeping with someone younger than you providing you are both over the age of consent and are both willing. Obviously it's a different case if someone is 25/30 and somone is 16/17.. that's too big of an age gap.
Even in America where they are strict on these issues I think if there is a guy who is 18/19/20 and likes a girl who is only 16/17 and they both genuinely like each other and want something to happen, then it doesn't matter what anyone else says or thinks and they should be able to do whatever the hell they want. It's stupid to say "you can't have sex until a certain age" (well obviously when your 12 it's not what you do but you know what I mean)..
I also think it's different for guys and girls.. It's normal for girls to date older guys and is seen as ok but when a guy dates a girl who is 4 or more years younger, especially when the girl is only mid-teens, it's seen as "why can't you get someone your own age" but why the hell not, if you like someone and are both mature enough to be aware of things and so on, go for it!
I'm now 20 and the youngest I'd go, on a dating basis, is probably only 18, 17 if I really liked the girl.. Oldest is 23/24. If we're talking only going with or getting together for a one off thing then if I am been honest the lowest I'd go is 16 (if she was hot) and any age up to sort of 35 lol.
I personally don't see any problem sleeping with someone younger than you providing you are both over the age of consent and are both willing. Obviously it's a different case if someone is 25/30 and somone is 16/17.. that's too big of an age gap.
Even in America where they are strict on these issues I think if there is a guy who is 18/19/20 and likes a girl who is only 16/17 and they both genuinely like each other and want something to happen, then it doesn't matter what anyone else says or thinks and they should be able to do whatever the hell they want. It's stupid to say "you can't have sex until a certain age" (well obviously when your 12 it's not what you do but you know what I mean)..
I also think it's different for guys and girls.. It's normal for girls to date older guys and is seen as ok but when a guy dates a girl who is 4 or more years younger, especially when the girl is only mid-teens, it's seen as "why can't you get someone your own age" but why the hell not, if you like someone and are both mature enough to be aware of things and so on, go for it!