Herr Logan
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LightninStrikez said:No, I don't think you are out to make people hate movies. We've discussed and aligned our intellectual perspectives on other films outside of this forum, so I know full well where you're coming from beyond Fantastic Four.
As far as comparing your girlfriend to the film itself--the essence of the illustration was symbolic--not to be taken literrally. That was not meant to be offensive to you personally. Besides, I seriously doubt anyone loves this film as much as their spouse.![]()
However, it's the principal of the story that carries my point.
In other words, the "love" is to be equated with devotion. And devotion can be applied to anything you care deeply about. It could be a friend, a car, a career, a classic comic book--whatever. This film has devoted fans.
And when such devoted fanboys/girls and others are constantly being coerced to hate something they've already chosen to like--there's going to be a bristling effect. People don't like being manipulated. And they don't like others telling them that they are stupid or less than human for finding something attractive. If folks minds are made up that the film has more going for it than against it--why is that a crime? Does one have to drum up an equally numbered bulleted list of negatives and positives to qualify as a "real" balanced fan?
Who are we trying to prove something to here???
Fair enough. Just as long as it's clear to everyone that it's equally reprehensible to attempt to bully and coerce discontent fans into liking and accepting a movie. I can easily understand how if I were coerce someone else into not liking a movie I felt had unforgivable flaws in it that could have been avoided, that could-- on a much broader scale-- serve the goal of bettering the films. However, because it's unshakably obvious to me that it's illogical to argue attitudes or force a feeling, I can't bring myself to do something like that in a forum where we've got only argument and no truly strong emotional attachments to the participants. I've never intentionally attempted to make anyone change their attitudes by using passion, but I have and will continue to urge people to reconsider their opinions by using information. Again, people need to understand the difference between opinions and preferences.

