The disgusting thing is, a huge number of albafan's fans speak up with statements mainly about how "positive" she is. The same kind of thing happens with you, except not to the same degree, and you've offered more actual arguments pertaining to the subjects of controversy than "everyone's got their own opinion and disagreements between posters makes me so freakin' happy and educated" posts. I'm sure you feel differently, but it seems a bit shallow to laud someone for being simply cheerful and optimistic, and to do this constantly.
I had some time to think about this statement yesterday....and was throughly enlightened with my revelations.
I never asked for any titles, never strived for any titles. I came to this board as Albafan, to have fun, bring something new (maybe) to the table, learn something new, and get to know all kinds of people. Forums are extremely hard for me as a whole...I'm more an "eye contact" person...but I've learned over the past months to get past that for the most part. Never once did I think my opinion of something would be called stupid, w/o knowledge, sheepish, and a few other words as well...I also never thought that being cheerful, optimistic, allowing others to give their opinions was "shallow"...but to some I guess it is....Well I've been educated alittle more I guess and thats a good thing.
Positivity to me was just a word I like to use in my class that allows my kids to give their opinions in an atmosphere of openess, and respectful banter...we have fun, and we learn from each other. Never once, NEVER ONCE, have I said that it was the battle cry for one side or the other.....I don't even know what the hell there are sides on this forum for......what? we have teams here???? THE POSITIVITY TEAM AND THE NEGATIVITY TEAM how stupid is that....and childish....and petty....I came in thinking there would be people who were here much like me because their favorite actors were cast, others because they had been fans of the Fantastic Four Comics for years....
HOW STUPID OF ME TO THINK THAT WE COULD ACTUALLY HAVE SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT AND HAVE SOMETHING TO LEARN FROM EACH OTHER....HOW UTTERLY IGNORANT THAT WAS OF ME....
I've gotten to know so many of you really well...I know about your kids, I know how excited you are about things going on in your lives. I can actually tell when some of you are having bad days, just by how you respond to posts...I can even tell when HL is having a bad day...how crazy is that....I don't look at your SN's and make a judgment...I look at your posts...I read your PM's and your IM's to me....if I make any judgments, thats where they come from...
Just let people B**** if they want too, let people Cheer if they want too...let people give opinions just because they want too....let people disagree with you just because they disagree...
How dare we call people "trolls" because they may have a very strong passion for their opinion and maybe that opinion says they don't like AT ALL what they see happening with this movie....most of the true trolls have posted once or twice and haven't been seen since....
How dare we call people sheep, and idiots, and followers, and yes-men because they agree that they like what they have seen so far from this movie...
How dare we make fun of people just because they are new to the F4 and don't know every freakin series #....and how dare we use the name "fanboy" or "purist" to mean some pimply faced kid in a basement reading comics...I'm sorry I just don't see Iron Maiden or Lightnin as that...
How dare we let this get so carried away that we now have a sticky at the top of our thread to remind us how to act....that blows my mind....
Soooooooooooo....with all of that said......If I have called names, hurt feelings, flamed wars, I apologize...
BUT
I will never apologize for being cheerful, positive, seeing the glass "half-full, having a desire to wait in my judgements of this movie, or HATING it when people are spoken down to when debated with on this board....
I hate that with a passion....and I'm sorry to say that this is the first time I've actually said that....that was a grave mistake on my part...I should have spoken up a long time ago, and didn't...I didn't because I was afraid that again all that people would see was Albafan and throw it out the window...because in the past thats exactly what has happened...others on this forum could bring alot to this party, they really could but their hands are tied because for some reason they just don't like being looked as ignorant...while others have totally gone from this place (some I'm happy to say have returned) because they felt like they were being looked at as a ridiculous purist fanboy...and yet they brought so much to this party as well....thats sad.
Well you guys can have your sides...you can even give yourselves names...I don't want any part of it...someone else can take the titles cause I don't want them...I'll continue to do what I enjoy here on this board and that is post info, and pics when I get them....and thats what I will continue to do....and read more comics and discuss those on the other thread....but until we learn how to respect what people bring to this table...I won't sit at it...I've lost my appetite and enjoyment of this meal.
Thats all.....
I apologize to Sar for derailing his thread....you can now get back to Doom...
Kel
BTW: before anyone starts throwing things around like .... you need to look in the mirror references.....that was part of my enlightenment...so put that in your own pipe and smoke it...