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I asked out a total stranger. Find out how I did!

kainedamo said:
Ok, how's this for a flirty line. Her boss said that if she doesn't make sales he's gonna make her wear her hair in pigtails. So next time she signs on, I could say "has your boss made you wear pigtails yet??" and then say "'cause I think you would look sexy with pigtails".

I can't flirt. I come off as sleazy.

Just act as yourself.

She'll either like you or not for who you really are.
 
kainedamo said:
Yes I do Erz. I mean, she's responsive and stuff. But I find that I keep having to ask questions to keep the conversation going. She wasn't like that the first day on msn, she was just like that yesteday.

If I'm boring her she can just block me. I hate women. Women are never honest.

Some women are more diplomatic and don't generally want to go and piss off/humiliate a guy. So sometimes they are more subtle about it. But usually it's very obvious, if you keep asking her out and she's like she's busy or you really feel like you have to drag things out of her during conversations.
 
Erzengel said:
Some women are more diplomatic and don't generally want to go and piss off/humiliate a guy. So sometimes they are more subtle about it. But usually it's very obvious, if you keep asking her out and she's like she's busy or you really feel like you have to drag things out of her during conversations.

Don't give him good advice. He needs to learn on his own and become stronger and better for it.
 
kainedamo said:
Ok, how's this for a flirty line. Her boss said that if she doesn't make sales he's gonna make her wear her hair in pigtails. So next time she signs on, I could say "has your boss made you wear pigtails yet??" and then say "'cause I think you would look sexy with pigtails".

I can't flirt. I come off as sleazy.

The worst thing you can do is calculate what you say and try to appease someone. It's just not worth it. If she likes you and she's talking to you, she clearly likes you for some reason. Don't force anything. If you're her friend, don't mess with a good thing. Relax, enjoy the friendship, and/or what it may lead to.:up:
 
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this site is a good place to learn everything about dating, relationships and IMing with females.....trust them
 
War Lord said:
Don't give him good advice. He needs to learn on his own and become stronger and better for it.

A lil guidance/advice on the way never hurt anyone.
 
Erzengel said:
A lil guidance/advice on the way never hurt anyone.

It might never have hurt anybody, but it hurts the entertainment quotient of the Hype.
 
kainedamo said:
Ok, how's this for a flirty line. Her boss said that if she doesn't make sales he's gonna make her wear her hair in pigtails. So next time she signs on, I could say "has your boss made you wear pigtails yet??" and then say "'cause I think you would look sexy with pigtails".

I can't flirt. I come off as sleazy.

Wow, there is an art to flirting and that ain't it. Maybe you should ignore my advice because that is trying really too hard.
 
Erzengel said:
Some women are more diplomatic and don't generally want to go and piss off/humiliate a guy. So sometimes they are more subtle about it. But usually it's very obvious, if you keep asking her out and she's like she's busy or you really feel like you have to drag things out of her during conversations.

I prefer honesty. The whole subtlety thing, "I wanna spare his feelings", actually pisses me off to no end.

I told you guys about the girl who kept inviting me up to her flat, right? She was all like "I'm in a bad state of mind for relationships", couple of weeks later BAM! She had a boyfriend.

My 2nd girlfriend. I didn't wanna date her anymore. I thought about it for a couple of weeks. I sat her down and we had an adult conversation about it. No problems.

Honesty is always best. Screw dropping hints.
 
kainedamo said:
I prefer honesty. The whole subtlety thing, "I wanna spare his feelings", actually pisses me off to no end.

I told you guys about the girl who kept inviting me up to her flat, right? She was all like "I'm in a bad state of mind for relationships", couple of weeks later BAM! She had a boyfriend.

My 2nd girlfriend. I didn't wanna date her anymore. I thought about it for a couple of weeks. I sat her down and we had an adult conversation about it. No problems.

Honesty is always best. Screw dropping hints.

Women VERY rarely state exactly what is on their mind or communicate openly and clearly. And, every single of of 'em does it differently, too. Keep this in mind and it will cut down on the frustration.

jag
 
To play the game, you must learn the art of the dance. LOL
 
It annoys the heck out of me! lol

Sometimes it surprises me how much I hate women.
 
kainedamo said:
It annoys the heck out of me! lol

Sometimes it surprises me how much I hate women.

When you get 16 more years of bitterness, you'll master your hatred.

I am a 7th black belt in the art of bitterness.
 
Erzengel said:
Wow, there is an art to flirting and that ain't it. Maybe you should ignore my advice because that is trying really too hard.


ASKMEN.COM
 
War Lord said:
When you get 16 more years of bitterness, you'll master your hatred.

I am a 7th black belt in the art of bitterness.

You're also a Zen Master of Involuntary Celibacy. :)

jag
 
Of course he did. He had to hit the send button to forward the instant message.
 
I'm not ginger!! There's another picture of me and I'm clearly not ginger :(
 
kainedamo said:
Ok, how's this for a flirty line. Her boss said that if she doesn't make sales he's gonna make her wear her hair in pigtails. So next time she signs on, I could say "has your boss made you wear pigtails yet??" and then say "'cause I think you would look sexy with pigtails".

I can't flirt. I come off as sleazy.

No this is a flirty line:

So, you into Aquaman ;)
 
kainedamo said:
I'm not ginger!! There's another picture of me and I'm clearly not ginger :(

Quiet you ginger bugger! Time to come out of the closet and admit you were born with ginger pubes!:o
 

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