I put girls on a pedestal

[JLBats]

kainedamo is lonely,
Wants to die,
Yes, he's lonely,
Wants to die,

And if he ain't dead already,
Girl you know the reason why

 

[Spider-X]

this sounds nice.. being friends gives a stable base .i think

exactly...but don't enter the "friends zone" where you feel like brother and sister...keep a flirtation attitude, but don't be over the top.

and don't look at so much god damn porn...that screws anyone's standards up...give it a rest for awhile...*********e, but substitue porn for mental images.

 

[Addendum]

kainedamo is lonely,
Wants to die,
Yes, he's lonely,
Wants to die,

And if he ain't dead already,
Girl you know the reason why

Tell death he's too busy *********ing

 

[PLAS]

I think years of fantasy has just screwed up my standards and how I view women in general.

I'm not sure I have the confidence or personality to hold onto a relationship either really. I have this self loathing problem.

"standards"? define "standards" how can you have "standards" if your experience is none

it's like saying "my airplane flying standards are very high, even when I've only boarded one airplane in all my life"

let me tell you something you might have heard before:

THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM IS YOURSELF

 

[JLBats]

Ew, ew, ew, ew.

 

[Hades]

i think i got my girlfriend pregnant lol what do i do superherohyupe!11//??

 

[kainedamo]

I know that, Plas. But it's hard. How do I change a lifetime habit? It's like... trying to stop watching films... or something. You know what I mean. This is my mind here, you can't just change it just like that.

 

[Lackey]

Here you go

 

[PLAS]

maybe you should try becoming best friends first leading to love that way you are on equal playing fields .. maybe ..

my life partner and I have been together for over a year now, and we've known each other for more than ten years

of course, we were really good friends for years before even starting our relationships

but every situation is different

 

[PLAS]

i think i got my girlfriend pregnant lol what do i do superherohyupe!11//??

hope it's not yours and everything will be okay

 

[Spider-X]

I know that, Plas. But it's hard. How do I change a lifetime habit? It's like... trying to stop watching films... or something. You know what I mean. This is my mind here, you can't just change it just like that.

read my last post.

and it will take time, but be vigilant, it will pay off.

 

[Addendum]

i think i got my girlfriend pregnant lol what do i do superherohyupe!11//??

Frank's Home Abortion Kit

 

[JLBats]

i think i got my girlfriend pregnant lol what do i do superherohyupe!11//??

There was one thread where I guy promised his sister's friend Nintendo 64 games if she would have sex with him. She said yes, and he tried to use scalding hot liquid butter as lube and burned her. She freaked out and he came on and asked for help because his parents would be home any minute.

 

[Hades]

hope it's not yours and everything will be okay

i dont know man lol my cat keps tummys getin so bigs she kept screaming for it i
couldnt help tit "meow meow meow" all day and night

 

[PLAS]

I know that, Plas. But it's hard. How do I change a lifetime habit? It's like... trying to stop watching films... or something. You know what I mean. This is my mind here, you can't just change it just like that.

just do

the day I started to develop some selfesteem I started going out with different girls almost every week

 

[Spider-X]

There was one thread where I guy promised his sister's friend Nintendo 64 games if she would have sex with him. She said yes, and he tried to use scalding hot liquid butter as lube and burned her. She freaked out and he came on and asked for help because his parents would be home any minute.

that was from a video game board originally and it's re-god-damn-diculous/hilarious.

 

[Lackey]

i think i got my girlfriend pregnant lol what do i do superherohyupe!11//??

punch her in the stomach really hard


Plan B: flight of stairs

 

[JLBats]

that was from a video game board originally and it's re-god-damn-diculous/hilarious.

I remember my response...

"The girl you had sex with sounds like a Nintendo Sixty-****e."

 

[Spider-X]

I remember my response...

"The girl you had sex with sounds like a Nintendo Sixty-****e."

LMAO! that's awesome.

i just remember getting really pissed and taking it too seriously. made an ass of myself but i feel very passionate about how to treat a lady and it was just despicable what that guy did.

 

[Holly Goodhead]

This is all Vicki's fault, you must kill her and eat her and only then will you be free.

 

[Hooligan32]

I was watching this show this morning called Ed, you've probably seen or heard of it. An american comedy tv series. It's pretty good. In today's episode, the entire episode was a dream, Ed's lucid dream. What was good about Ed today was I could really see where he was coming from.

See, there's a girl he works with who he gets on with really well and he knows there is chemestry between them. He's afraid to ask her out and makes excuses about it. He decided to use the lucid dream experience to figure out what his problem was. He descovered that his entire life, he's been afraid of girls and relationships. He found that the reason for this is that he builds girls up in his mind. He builds and builds and builds them up, so that they're almost goddesses in his mind. When he was a very young boy, he didn't want to kiss the girl he fancied during a game of spin the bottle because he wanted the moment to be "perfect". Another time in his teens, he talked to a girl he liked and he was severly disappointed, because she just wasn't anywhere near as cool as he thought she would be. He puts girls on a pedestal. The reality can never be as good as the fantasy.

This is EXACTLY what I do. For some reason, for my entire life every girl I ever liked I've built them up in my head to be way better than they could possibly be. I build them up until they are these unattainable goddesses.

So Ed decided he was going to bite the bullet and just ask the girl out. But there was a problem... there's another girl he's fancied for a long time... so it's a sort of reality vs fantasy thing going on. Does he go for the reality or still keep holding onto the fantasy?

So... I know what my problem is... but I don't know how to fix it. I'm 22. I've only had sex with one girl... once... it was pretty terrible. I've been afraid of girls my whole life because in my head the girls I like are goddesses... and the problem only gets worse with age. How do I fix this?

Become gay.

 

[PLAS]

who is vicky?

 

[JLBats]

LMAO! that's awesome.

i just remember getting really pissed and taking it too seriously. made an ass of myself but i feel very passionate about how to treat a lady and it was just despicable what that guy did.

Completely agree.

 

[JLBats]

who is vicky?

The woman who kainedamo wanted, but could never, ever have.

 

[PLAS]

and why so much fuzz about her?