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You read about how Peter Parker is supposed to be a ****ing genius just under reed richards? Yes, not sure I see the relevance.
I didn't know Pete was considered that smart- But the relevance would be that Peter, not being an idiot should be able to make good decisions, weighing the pluses and minuses and seeing the possible problems down the road.
You read all the encounters Spider-Man's had with people that have made deals with the devil which never work out in the slightest? There aren't many. Not sure quite what you're referring to, but I'll assume this for the sake of argument.
I can't speak for MD but maybe he isn't referring necessarily to literal deals with the devil (even though Mephisto isn't supposed to be THE Devil [Lucifer]anyway, but..) but simply those (Eddie Brock for example) who made Faustean deals with malevolent entities and whose lives ended up in ruin.
You read the part where aunt may tells pete it's her time, she's ready to die and she loves him? Yup, again, isn't particularly relevant.
NOT RELEVANT? The wishes of the person at the center of the deal not relevant??? So Peter's desires regarding May's life are more important than May's own? Really?
And you think this was remotely, somewhat in a way in character? Wait, not only that but a selfless act even though pete's life is far easier now thanks to the devil's help?
No. I think he made a decision, based upon his belief that he was responsible for his Aunt's death, and he wished to save her.
But he didn't make THE RIGHT DECISION. And his decision wasn't based on doing what was right. It was based on his not being able to deal with the consequences of his own screw-up. He sought absolution for his failure. And when those on the side of the angels refused him- he sought to achieve his own selfish ends by going to the wrong side of the tracks. What makes Peter any different from any of the criminals that he's fought to bring down all of these years?
Look, this is the fallacy of false analogy. I could say: Pete tried to save Gwen, but failed. He tried to save Captain Stacy, but failed. He tried to save Harry, but failed. He's a smart guy. He ought to have learned. He should give up trying to save people. Period.
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that's a false analogy. Peter has suceeded in saving lives hundreds of times more than he's failed. And considering that the circumstances of each death you above mention are totally different they don't even work being lumped together.
In reality, he made the choice he believe he HAD to make in order to save someone whose life was endangered because HE is Spider-Man.
She wasn't endangered because he's Spider-Man. She was endangered because he foolishly revealed his secret identity. There's a difference. And considering that he already knew that people around him are endangered when criminals know his secret, we go back to why someone with his intelligence would make such a mistake.
The EASY thing would have been to throw up his hands and say: "God, Reed Richards, & Dr. Strange all told me to forget about it. Aunt May said 'don't worry, I'm ready to die.' So, why don't I let the old broad join Uncle Ben and go back to my hot, rich, amazing model wife?"
Yeah, why didn't he? Peter was being clued in by some knowledgable folks that May's continued existence wasn't in the cards. But that wasn't good enough. So cowardly is Peter being portrayed that he's willing to do wrong simply to avoid facing up to his own failings. Ben died because he failed. Gwen died because he failed. May was dying because he failed. He should accept it and do what's necessary to move on. And maybe not make future stupid choices. But no, he makes another stupid decision by getting in bed with Mephisto. And hey- maybe May would have been happier being reunited with Ben. Did Peter really reason that she'll never be endangered again because of her proximity to Spider-Man?
The TOUGH choice was to say: "It's my fault Aunt May is dying. I let Uncle Ben down, I have to do the courageous thing and sacrifice that which is most important to me, and save my Aunt.
No, that's the easy choice. He gets May back and gets to live as a swinging bachelor again. He doesn't have to deal with the responsibility of making his marriage work.
If she were falling from, say, the Brooklyn Bridge, I wouldnt say "well, I killed Gwen instead of saving her, so no, I'll let her fall." No, instead I say I will sacrifice what is most important to me and take the one, small, slim chance that I have of saving her. THAT is a sacrifice, THAT decision is heroic. Maybe it doesn't turn out well, maybe it doesn't work, but I have to try. That's what a HERO does.
Doing all in his power to save her is heroic. Risking his life to save her is heroic. Ponying up to all that is evil just so he can sleep at night is an escape.
The marriage itself was against Pete's character because much of the tension of the original stories lay in the fact that Pete knew he COULDN"T both be Spider-Man AND have a "normal" life.
That's not true. Peter always hoped to marry someone and have a family life. He considered proposing to Betty. Only her fear of Spider-Man stopped him.
He intended to marry Gwen. Only her death prevented that. Hell, he even imagined being married to Black Cat. Peter is defineitly the marrying kind.
Several times, he rejected love because he KNEW that if he married or got too close to people, he would jeopardize them.
When did he do that? Even after Gwen's death, he still continued dating. Even after MJ's near death a short time later, he continnued dating.
Gwen went to Europe because Pete wouldn't ask her to stay in NYC. Pete wouldn't ask her to stay because he loved her, and knew that loving him could endanger Gwen's life. So he made the heroic choice and let her go.
That's not why he let Gwen go. He let her go because he was afraid of her learning his secret identity if they married, knowing how she blamed Spidey for her father's death.
That's why he tried to QUIT being Spider-Man. He wanted to quit, even to the point of growing those extra arms, in order to live a normal life, marry, have a family, etc. But instead, he turned his back on his responsibility, what he knew to be correct, and married. Not just anyone, but a hot super-model where there was no real foundation laid for them even TO marry. It was just a publicity stunt driven by the news strip that flew in the face of "with great power comes great responsibility"--namely, that if you choose the path of the hero, you choose a lonely path. So, Pete made the wrong choice to mary in the first place. And, contrary to your belief, in my view he made the difficult choice, the courageous choice, in sacrificing the one thing supposedly most important to him to save a life. A life he had endangered as Spider-Man.
Now, while I'm with you in not being a fan of the marriage, you certainly can't be suggesting that by "sacrificing" his marriage he's in anyway giving up having a social life. Immediately at the start of BND Peter was back on the prowl. Peter has not nor will he ever stop pursuing relationships. And we know from Joe Q's own lips that the reason for OMD was to make Peter a free-agent dating-wise, not a lonely responsibility driven hermit. Any Spidey fan knows that Peter's personal life is as important to the comics' success as his fights with supervillains.
I used to hate the whole "Mephisto" thing, and just liked the results, but now I'm actually coming around to it. It demonstrates to me that Pete is a true hero. He will sacrifice EVERYTHING for others--maybe even his soul.
Well, he's sacrificed his sould alright, but not for others. Now, since the writing at Marvel is pretty much crap, there actually may be no comeuppance for Peter making a deal with the devil. That's probably how Joe Q got his job, so I guess he can't throw stones.