I know what you meant, but on a related note Elektra has suffered years of trauma - pretty much killed, caused the deaths of or driven away everyone that she's ever really cared about ( and some stories suggest she was molested by her father as a child) all in all, as cool and badass as Elektra is, I don't think being Elektra would be fun at all ( kind of like being Batman would really suck, because he doesn't take time to enjoy life and has a truckload of childhood trauma and survivor guilt). MCU black Widow looks like she had a very difficult life as well.
Most superheroes have a bit of trauma and loss in their past, but Elektra has a lot more than many.
As OP, I think
@Docker2.0 deserves to win that one - we wouldn't be here if he didn't keep the thread going. In a neutral thread it would be
On like Donkey Kong! But here I am happy to yield to the OP. This is how I approach arguments: