SS, it's important to note though that nothing happens in a vacuum. It's very hard, nigh, impossible perhaps, to tease out ONE thing in human existence/experience and say it is a thing unto itself that neither is impacted by nor impacts other things. So... You can think of yourself as a total Randian styled hero, independent of all things and individuals and a power unto yourself that never takes into account the opinions of others or is never impacted by how you feel you come off to others... But by my sights that would be LYING to yourself. A fair question is... Do you consider yourself a moral person? Now again, the uber-Libertarians types and Randians will say, "My own personal morality is not compromised by the esteem of other indivuals, ect." but again, I would call bovine excrement. Such things WILL impact your sense of self and play into your sense of morality. It's likely that your morality like a lot of other people is a mix both of your own views of morals as an end unto themselves AND also takes into account how others view you as well. A binary view of things is fine for computers, a sense of purity in all things is ok for DEAD things, but all living things that grow and change by their nature are not simply one thing or the other.
As always though... I expect you to ignore all this.

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